to all married...if given a chance would you choose to become single again???

[jk_1234]

ako NO...me and my hubby live together when i was 17 sya 19, we had some ups and downs pero ngayun super hapee with our kids 

[jaynieBaby]

No.

Even if I'm still 24 and just recently got married, I think I have done enough (even fooling around) in my single era, so I don't regret being married now or wish that I would be single again.

I also feel like I'm single pa din. Like my hubby and I are still dating, we both have the freedom that we want but we know our limitations. We trust each other and we know our responsibilities. It's fun being married to the person who thinks like you do, who's your best friend and is "kalog" like you.




xxx,
JaynieBaby

[hcastillo2]

i'm still technically single as we're not yet married but we are living together and have one child. When i got pregnant he wanted a wedding agad but i asked him if we can delay it. Ewan ko i love him but honestly ayoko ikasal kame dahil nabuntis ako. Now kahit di pa kame kasal sobrang okei pagsasama namin at alam ko sa sarili ko siya na gusto ko makasama pagtanda ko. Siguro yun muna gusto ko marealize before we tie the knot. Ayoko magkaron ng problem if ever incompatible pala kame.

[rebskie]

Why do I want to be single again and break up with my husband?

• 1

Nung 1st pregnancy ko, pinagbawal ng OB na sumakay sa dulo ng jeep kasi maalog daw dun. maselan sa pingabubuntis ko. Explained it to my husband kung bakit di pwede dun but he always insisted kasi daw mahirap umakyat/baba sa jeep. Ayun, 3 mos pa lang baby ko, nakunan ako. And he blamed my friends na reason daw na nakunan ako but he never blamed himself

• 2

Because of my love for him, I lost my friends, my barkada. Coz ayaw nya, bad influence daw. Okay lang dati kasi akala ko, I can live with that. Love lang namin sa isat-isa ang important. Only to realize in the end that I led a very lonely life. I never got to be invited to weddings nor experience being a ninang, or invited to birthday parties.

• 3

Nong pinagbubuntis ko yung 3rd child namin, I told him not to take out a loan kasi there is a baby on the way. But he insited coz we need a car daw. He never told me na he finalized na the deal. 2nd hand owner jeep lang pala. ang masaklap pa, hindi nya na-study yung loan terms, ang laki2 ng binawas sa sweldo nya na yung take home pay nya ay 300 pesos/a week na lang. Paano kami mabubuhay nyan, magda-dalawa na yung anak namin? tapos ang laki pa nang ginastos sa jeep na yun na hindi naman napakinabangan.

• 4

When I had the 2nd miscarriage with our supposedly 4th child, he was not by my side. I left my kids with the yaya and brought myself to the hospital. Nong dumating sya from his trip, tapos na ang D&C ko, but he chose to go to the kids, hindi nya ako pinuntahan sa Hospital.

• 5

2 weeks after my miscarriage, I brought our baby boy to the doctor kasi I can sense that there is something wrong. He never went with us. I took the bad news that my baby is autistic pala, all by myself.

• 6

Now, andito kami sa bahay ng nanay ko nakatira. Sabi ko sa kanya mag resign na sya sa trabaho nya para magkasama-sama kami ng mga bata, ayaw nya. Kaya ngayun, I have to deal with my two special children (girl is adhd, boy is autistic), two businesses to manage, and mga parents ko na aalagaan. Habang sya ay may time pang lumabas with photographer friends and mingle with student models.
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Now, who can blame me if I long to be single again..Sorry po if napahaba ang post ko. I just want this off my chest. I have no want to talk to kasi. I don't have any best friends left.

[myles_away]

Yes, i love to be single again with my kids. They're my life. mas masarap magkaanak kesa mgkaasawa.hehe

[lee888]

no. i love my husband.

[euwie]

i don't really know my answer to this quetion 

[momentum]

@ rebskie

i feel you when you said this:

2. Because of my love for him, I lost my friends, my barkada. Coz ayaw nya, bad influence daw. Okay lang dati kasi akala ko, I can live with that. Love lang namin sa isat-isa ang important. Only to realize in the end that I led a very lonely life. I never got to be invited to weddings nor experience being a ninang, or invited to birthday parties.

ganyan na ganyan din nagyari sakin, pero hindi nia sinabi na "bad influence" sila, he just didn't want me to be texting them, seeing and ever i did at one point, paguwi ko sobrang selos at masama loob..

i feel you girl, i can be your friend. i feel what you are going through 

[katie_21]

sometimes naiisip ko na gusto ko maging single again esp. the times na may problem ako with my hubby. But I still love him and I know deep inside I cant live without him kahit minsan nakakapagod ang role ko sa buhay niya. 

[mommeeice]

Why do I want to be single again and break up with my husband?

• 1

Nung 1st pregnancy ko, pinagbawal ng OB na sumakay sa dulo ng jeep kasi maalog daw dun. maselan sa pingabubuntis ko. Explained it to my husband kung bakit di pwede dun but he always insisted kasi daw mahirap umakyat/baba sa jeep. Ayun, 3 mos pa lang baby ko, nakunan ako. And he blamed my friends na reason daw na nakunan ako but he never blamed himself

• 2

Because of my love for him, I lost my friends, my barkada. Coz ayaw nya, bad influence daw. Okay lang dati kasi akala ko, I can live with that. Love lang namin sa isat-isa ang important. Only to realize in the end that I led a very lonely life. I never got to be invited to weddings nor experience being a ninang, or invited to birthday parties.

• 3

Nong pinagbubuntis ko yung 3rd child namin, I told him not to take out a loan kasi there is a baby on the way. But he insited coz we need a car daw. He never told me na he finalized na the deal. 2nd hand owner jeep lang pala. ang masaklap pa, hindi nya na-study yung loan terms, ang laki2 ng binawas sa sweldo nya na yung take home pay nya ay 300 pesos/a week na lang. Paano kami mabubuhay nyan, magda-dalawa na yung anak namin? tapos ang laki pa nang ginastos sa jeep na yun na hindi naman napakinabangan.

• 4

When I had the 2nd miscarriage with our supposedly 4th child, he was not by my side. I left my kids with the yaya and brought myself to the hospital. Nong dumating sya from his trip, tapos na ang D&C ko, but he chose to go to the kids, hindi nya ako pinuntahan sa Hospital.

• 5

2 weeks after my miscarriage, I brought our baby boy to the doctor kasi I can sense that there is something wrong. He never went with us. I took the bad news that my baby is autistic pala, all by myself.

• 6

Now, andito kami sa bahay ng nanay ko nakatira. Sabi ko sa kanya mag resign na sya sa trabaho nya para magkasama-sama kami ng mga bata, ayaw nya. Kaya ngayun, I have to deal with my two special children (girl is adhd, boy is autistic), two businesses to manage, and mga parents ko na aalagaan. Habang sya ay may time pang lumabas with photographer friends and mingle with student models.
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Now, who can blame me if I long to be single again..Sorry po if napahaba ang post ko. I just want this off my chest. I have no want to talk to kasi. I don't have any best friends left.

awww,i feel your pain.i really do. and though i am not in the position to say anything,i dont want to be labeled as self-righteous,but from my POV,you'll be better without him.and here i thought i have problems.*hugs*

[swtgrl_bee]

Nope

Kahit minsan kung mag away kami eh parang maghihiwalay na, but then again hindi pwede. At hindi lang dahil hindi pwede kundi AYAW namin maghiwalay. Happiness is a choice. So kahit anong away pa yan na minsan nakakaloka na talaga, we chose to STAY.

[swtgrl_bee]

nope, ang sarap kaya ng buhay may asawa.

sis I like this

Ako din sarap na sarap sa buhay may asawa, isang dahilan pa lahat LEGAL na ngayon. Super strict kasi parents ko. Ngayon pwede na makipagdate kay hubby ALL-I-CAN

*Habang nagpopost ako dito, may maliit na insekto ginising ko siya para patayin. Kung wala si hubby sa tabi ko. Yari na

[rebskie]

Sa mga nag PM sa akin, sensya na po, hindi pa ko masyado marunong gumamit ng mga functions ng GT. Nagbabasa lang kasi ako dito dati, first time to post and reply sa mga PM. To admin, sensya po if OT na, just would like to thank those who sent me a message. Di kasi ako maka reply sa PM coz I was not allowed daw. Sensya po.

@sis momentum

Thanks po. Medyo okay na po ako. I am thankful that I have my parents to support me and help me with the kids. My husband is away sa work the whole weekdays and weekends lang uwi nya. I'm still hoping and praying that things will work out for the best. I want to hold on to this relationship because of the kids. Our God is a god of miracles, so I will not lose hope that He will touch my husband's heart and be the father of my kids and a true husband and partner to me.

@ mommeeice
Thanks po. We are in the process of working things out. I hope di po umabot sa hiwalayan. Kung wala po kaming babies, baka pwede. Ang hirap pa lang maraming dinadala sa dibdib at wala kang makausap.

[rebskie]

ADmin, last na lang po na OT. Sensya na, hindi po raw po kasi ako pwedeng mag PM.

@Sis Gabrielle: Thanks din po sa PM. I'm from Visayas..^^

[sunfire25]

Nope, contented naman ako sa 'king married life.   May ups and downs, pero i still feel blessed to have him wala na akong hahanapin pa. 

[freemind]

When I was still single ang plano ko lang ay magka-anak (I'm one of those Independent Career Women).  I do not foresee myself as having a husband.

15 years after, I'm married and have 2 kids.  My career took a backseat (nasa compartment na nga yata) but no regrets.  Kung may time warp man, No, I won't go back to being single.  I love my husband, I love my married life and my hubby loves me back.

[beatrize zuri]

minsan, yes. ang dami ko kasing "unfinished business" but of course, masarap pa din [textspeak!] mga pamilya ka, my hubby at mga kids.

[likraxhos]

siyempre..depende sa husband....kung mabait,, why be single?? pero kung harsh naman.... i rather be single forever!!!

[MNG]

NEVER.
Im happy where i am right now.
Im happy for all the trials and hardships we are facing and is about to come. : ))
I love my hubby so much,i can go throught anything aslong as he's with me <3.

[this_is_me]

we'll never know kung anung mangyayari in the future. that's why we regret things.

being single is much more fun. party. shopping all you can. travel.

yes, i would choose  to be single again. but i'll still have my child.