There has recently been a proliferation of “other woman” scenarios on television. For some reason, many of us are enraptured by stories of two women fighting over a confused husband, finding a sense of satisfaction and even of vindication in scenes where the rightful wife talks down the querida or vice-versa.

But when such stories suddenly become the reality of your life, what will you do? If your husband broaches the topic of having an extra-marital affair and even asks for your consent to play around, how will you deal? Will you give in to his wishes? Your fellow GIRLTalkers answer these questions.

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