Let’s admit it: Some of you see your significant other’s former flame as a threat while some genuinely want to be friends with their partner’s ex-girlfriend. Surprised? Here, GIRLTalkers share their insights when it comes to being friends with the ex. 

FB friends hehe. She added me after having met her at their barkada get together. I no longer initiate any comments or likes since after parang nag "da moves" siya kay husband. –from GIRLTalker j.adore 

Yes awkward din for me at first but eventually naging okay na din hehe. Buti nalang din may kusa yung ex ni hubby kasi minsan hindi na sila uma-attend. Pero pag Christmas, hindi nawawalan ng gift yung ex from hubby's parents. Feeling ko nasasayangan sila na ako napangasawa ni hubby, not the ex –from GIRLTalker momxfive  


No! Walang rason para i-friend ko sila at ayoko din naman. Ano naman pag-uusapan naman? Compare notes about hubby na ex niya? Haha –from GILRTalker clueless_bride 


I think possible naman maging friends kung:
1. Sobrang tagal na naging sila ni hubby (like from high school)
2. Kung hindi kayo ang magkasunod sa pila ng mga exes ni hubby
3. If wala naman bad encounter with each other (kung may agawan/sulutan na nangyari between you and the ex)


In my case, meron talaga ibang exes na never ko magiging friend nor kahit pakilala o kausap man lang. Awkward. Mafee-feel mo din naman sa sarili mo kahit ex ni hubby ehgood or bad vibes. Pero hindi din ako magkukusa na kaibiganin sila. Hihingiin na lang yun ng pagkakataon kung sakali. –from GIRLTalker jieunae 


No. We started on the wrong foot and the last time I got a message from her was still with bitterness pero she accepted the fact na ako ang pinili ni hubby. Until now, never heard of her and even hubby cut off his ties with her na kasi he knows I feel bad about it. 
I still tease hubby with his other ex pero lagi niya sinasabi na wala na yung mga yon. –from GIRLTalker phurple0515  

Hindi, kasi when hubby and I got together, she spread lies about me sa family ni hubby pati sa mga friends at kapitbahay... and hubby's family believed her, kasi she lived with them for some time, so mas "kilala" siya ng family ni hubby. Nag live-in sila for about a year. So,
 syempre di kami magiging ok... but I don't know where she is but she's still friends with my sister-in-law and cousins-in-law sa FB...and my mother-in-law is her textmate –from GIRLTalker FayeP 

Used to be. Then I found out she was gossiping about me behind my back! She was stalking me online pala all along while we were friends (found me here in GT, too!) and pinagchichismisan ako. –from GIRLTalker gumdrops26 

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