BuzzFeed just released a video called "The One Way You Should Be Having Sex," and it shows a hilarious exchange (or way of flirting) between a guy and a girl at the girl's apartment.
Underneath the funny exaggerations and lines like, "Do you wanna see my room?" "Is that where you sleep?" the video is all about clear, verbal communication between people. They need that to get to know each other, to flirt, and do foreplay. The main point? Consent is important.
Getting consent is the one way to have sex. It might not sound sexy in theory, but it is in real life. Respect is sexy, and so is saying you want to have sex.