The best place to learn about sex toys is probably at a sex shop, where you can either ask the sales assistants for a guided tour or explore the numerous products on display by yourself. But if the thought of going inside a shop is too intimidating, here is a simple guide to three common sex toys that are out in the market.

1. Dildos

It’s hard not to recognize dildos for what they are. Phallic and blunted at the tip, their main purpose is to penetrate, although they’re also often used to tease and tantalize women until the ladies reach their brink. Sizes, colors, and textures vary. Some are made to realistically resemble a man’s penis, while others are more streamlined in their design. Some vibrate while others need manual propelling. Either way, both are meant to help you see your orgasm through to the end.

2. Clit stimulators

Clit stimulators, on the other hand, are made to cause pleasure in what is said to be the ultimate female erogenous zone. Some are bullet- or egg-shaped, while others look almost like innocent massagers. Vibration levels vary, but you should probably look for clit stimulators that promise near silent vibrations if you’re considering using them outside the bedroom.

3. Rabbits

The Rabbit first gained mainstream popularity when it was introduced in Sex and the City. Charlotte, who had initially disliked the idea of using a toy to attain pleasure, soon became addicted to the vibrator, even cancelling plans with her friends just to stay at home with her favorite bunny. At first glance, the Rabbit resembles a regular vibrator, but it has a pair of rabbit ears jutting out from near the base. This design is intended for both clitoral and vaginal stimulation.

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