On a scale of one to 10, with one being hardly ever and 10 being all the time, how often do you really get an orgasm? And when you don’t, do you tell him about it or do you fake it instead?

Cosmopolitan recently reported a study which revealed that out of 85 percent of men who said that their partners had an orgasm the last time they had sex, only 64 percent of their partners had really done so.

Judging by the discrepancy and not even counting past performances, it appears that women may need to take matters into their own hands. Here, FN shows you five steps on how to have a much better time in the sack with your guy.

(All screencaps from The Break-Up courtesy of Universal Pictures)