Have you ever been cheated on or been left hanging? Have you ever had a relationship with a cheater or dated a player? Not all guys are like that. But how can you differentiate someone who's in it for the long run from a guy who just wants to fool around? Here, our GIRLTalkers share their thoughts.
Notice how much he looks at and talks about other women. While it is okay for guys to occasionally look at an attractive girl, doing it excessively can be a bad sign. –from GIRLTalker schumine
Look at his friends on FB. If they are composed mostly of pretty girls then chances are, you're dating a jerk. Of course this isn't accurate all the time. Delve into how he talks to you, how he treats and communicates with you and what your instincts are telling you. Don't trust easily. Make him prove himself first before you give the "my all" thingy. Well, of course, some guys are grand masters in the art of seduction, but it's all about self-control. THINK, THINK, THINK. DON'T FALL EASILY AND MOST OF ALL, HAVE A HEALTHY SELF-ESTEEM. –from GIRLTalker mimiku
Usually yung mga pumoporma agad and nakikipag flirt na sayo agad madalas ganun ang player. Yung hindi makikipag friend muna sayo to get to know you. –from GILRTalker madmaxz
Experience pa rin talaga ang best teacher. Just like how guys get good with women by experiencing constant rejection/failures until they hone their skills, I believe girls would be able to tell someone who's really serious from someone na hindi by going out with different guys (not exactly get in a relationship), nasa sa'yo naman yun kung magpapadala ka.–from GUYTalker sacred cow
For me, we never know kung player siya. Although may mga guys na literal na playboy talaga and hindi na maaalis sa kanila yun meron namang loyal guys sa una sobrang effort kung manligaw tapos sa pag naging sila na magsasawa na din. Meron din namang guy na sobrang immature pa kaya hindi pa masyadong seryoso sa mga girls. Sabi nga nila once na tinanggap ng girl yung ugaling hindi maganda ng boyfriend niya, yung mga pagkakamali niya swerte na daw nung girl kasi forever na daw magbabago yung guy nun and hindi na magloloko. –from GIRLTalker Miss Libra
It still boils down sa character nung guy. Kahit ano pa itsura niya, kung hindi siya manloloko at honest siya na tao, makikita mo yun. Kaya kelangan lang maghanap ng hindi boring naman na tao, pero hindi din manloloko. Kahit lapitin siya, kung siya mismo hindi gagawa ng first move or makikipag-flirt, your guy will always be yours. –from GIRLTalker Girltalker2
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