Contrary to what fairy tales espouse, living happily ever after does not necessarily come after choosing the right mate. Instead, it entails constant understanding and communication between spouses. It also means adapting to both spouses’ changing situations and, yes, even personalities. Below are some tips on dealing with the changes in your partner.

(First published in Good Housekeeping Magazine, Good Family, Keep It Real section as "Marital Woes" in the January-February 2009 issue; adapted for use in Female Network. Screencap of Revolutionary Road courtesy of Paramount Vantage.)