When you first enter into a sexual relationship, everything is new and exciting. Each time you come together, you learn a little more about your guy's likes and dislikes, what turns him on, and what's guaranteed to make him come. And the same goes for him. But it's all too easy to grow complacent with each other (in the bedroom as well as in other aspects of your lives together) as time goes by, and your sex life could lose the spark you started out with if you don’t make the effort to keep things fresh between you.

Need a little help holding off the bedroom blahs this year? Check out the tips below, but remember that three things are necessary for great lovemaking: trust, confidence, and generosity. If you and your guy show each other you have these traits in the bedroom, it will also do wonders for your relationship.