The engagement of Iza Calzado took the internet by storm when it happened, and at the center of all the well-wishes and congratulations is a woman who has professed at finally being ready for this milestone.
Conversing with her during the Project Ripple launch on October 4, just four days prior to her engagement, Iza admitted that, like many women in their 30s who have a lot going for them, she was once unsure about the idea of "getting tied down."
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“But then, I said to myself, ‘Now is the time. I’m ready. I have to shift. It’s time.’ I made a decision. Now, I’m ready.”
Over the years, the artist and career woman in Iza
But while the heights she has reached have become an inspiration to single women who have chosen to put marriage and family on hold for the time being, there were still a handful of people who, prior to her engagement, would ask about her plans to settle down. Iza shared that she while she has always wanted children of her own, she would have them only when she's ready.
“I mean everything is possible nowadays. There are so many options. But ‘yon
As someone who has always had strong beliefs about women’s freedom to choose and who has always chosen to follow her heart, it wasn’t what others said about her that mattered. To Iza, it was doing things in her own time.
"There’s still a part of me that wants to walk down the aisle first before having a baby, and I think a lot of people are like that. And to think I’m already an unconventional kind of woman. But there’s still that part of me that wants to walk down that carpet in my white dress—maybe off-white—na dress. You know, to be married first before having a child.”
She, however, acknowledged that situations
“You have to understand where each and every individual is coming from,” she said, noting that while natural birth is great, there are other ways to have children. “If you want to be a mother and can’t have [kids], why not adopt? ...If you have the funds, have your eggs harvested, have a surrogate... Everything is possible nowadays.”
Surrogacy, which according to CircleSurrogacy.com "is a process in which intended parents work with a gestational surrogate or a woman who carries a child to term," is something that Iza has always been open about.
“I understand that we are a very conservative society. But I feel that we should not judge women for the options that they have and the choices that they make for themselves."
With her life undeniably changed now that she's soon to become a wife, Iza is now looking forward to the exciting possibilities in her near future.
“If God will allow me one birth from my own, I would love to experience it for so many reasons—because I feel like there is no greater bond