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Re: Annullment thread 4
« Reply #80 on: March 29, 2017, 08:22:30 pm »
Ah ok sis.thanks sa reply. btw, sa bf ko yan case. After 2 years may decision na ang judge pero di pa nya naasikaso kasi out of the country pa sya. Hindi yata kasama yun sa atty nya pag process after.

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« Reply #81 on: April 03, 2017, 06:44:35 am »
Tapos na ang OSG period I suppose kasi since last year na na-grant ang annullment eh wala naman kami nareceive na anything. Waiting for the Cenomar na lang kami from the lawyer.

Question mga sis, pareho lang ba ang hitsura ng Cenomar ng single and annulled person? I mean paano malalaman if kinasal sa church before? Not yet annulled in church pa kasi yung sa bf ko.

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« Reply #82 on: April 03, 2017, 07:30:53 am »
^Don't request for a CENOMAR. Request for the marriage certificate kasi ang annotation na annulled na will appear sa marriage certificate. Pag CENOMAR ang nirequest mo, ang ibibigay na document sa iyo is a certification na your BF was married before. Remember that CENOMAR means "Certificate of No Marriage" eh married na si BF before (kahit pa annulled).

If annulled na sa civil si BF, under civil rites (sa huwes) lang kayo pwede magpakasal. Your boyfriend can't marry you sa simbahan kasi di pa sya annulled sa church. Ibang process yun.

And like I said, the CENOMAR of your boyfriend (if maka-request sya) will show that he was married before so kahit ipresent ninyo sa church yun, the church will ask for the document to show that his church wedding has been annulled. Ibang document yun at sa church lang makukuha yun.
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« Reply #83 on: April 03, 2017, 08:23:10 am »
Yes, Cenomar will show na may marriage na recorded before.  Ganito rin ginawa namin ng bf ko requested for his cenomar.  Then we requested his marriage certificate yun annotated na.  We presented the same document when we applied for our marriage license.

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« Reply #84 on: April 08, 2017, 08:58:55 pm »
Thank you mga sis. Mahirap ba magpa-church annullment? Wala kasi ako nababasa masyado na naka-experience na ng ganon.

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« Reply #85 on: April 08, 2017, 09:02:47 pm »
^Mas madali and mas mabilis daw magpa-annul sa church sis, pero need pa din ng civil annulment if you have intentions to remarry
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« Reply #86 on: April 09, 2017, 05:19:29 am »
^No, not true. Pinakamahirap sa lahat ang church annulment. Sabay kong finile ang civil and church annulments ko. Na-grant two years ago yun civil annulment ko while wala pang kahit anong update sa church annulment ko.

Ang only step na nagawa ko for church annulment is to submit all documents pero until now, di pa din ako tinatawagan ng church for interviews (version nila ng hearing). Last Dec, they sent a letter apologizing for the super slow process and asked if I still want to pursue the annulment or not. May tick boxes na continue or not, and they're hoping daw na I changed my mind and I was able to work on my marriage.

Kakaloka! Wrote in the letter na I'm pushing through with the process, I'm disappointed with how slow things are, and naunahan pa sila ng civil annulment ko.
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Re: Annullment thread 4
« Reply #87 on: April 12, 2017, 07:02:48 pm »
^ Ikaw ba dapat mag asikaso niyan church annulment instead of your lawyer?

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« Reply #88 on: April 13, 2017, 09:00:53 pm »
^Yes, ikaw ang mag-aasikaso pero walang involved na lawyer dito whatsoever. You cannot ask your lawyer to represent you kasi it's the church, who will assign a lawyer for you (usually lay minister ito na lawyer din by profession). This person will be the one to represent you.
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« Reply #89 on: April 14, 2017, 03:01:12 am »
@sis rochelle1025 the Pope recently reforms the process of church annulment to make it easier and faster 🙂.
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« Reply #90 on: April 14, 2017, 07:50:03 am »
@mysterioza_me, sabi ni Pope, yes, pero in reality, sobrang bagal pa din. Like I mentioned earlier, three years na naka-file yung papers ko sa tribunal court pero wala pa ding update. Ang laging sinasabi ng church when I follow up, mahaba daw yung pila.

When I filed it August 2014, ang sabi nila 9 cases daw yung hinahawakan nila. I'm #9. So in 3 years na yun, di pa tapos yung 8 other cases.
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« Reply #91 on: April 14, 2017, 12:32:28 pm »
^grabe sis lahat na lang ata sa Pinas mabagal. Paniningil na lang ata sa kuryente at tubig ang mabilis. Sana magkaroon na talaga ng divorce, kahit singgastos pa siya ng annulment go pa rin since mas mabilis and guaranteed ang result.
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Re: Annullment thread 4
« Reply #92 on: April 14, 2017, 02:52:22 pm »
Ang bagal pala sa church annullment. Gusto sana namin eh hindi lang civil wedding.

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« Reply #93 on: April 14, 2017, 03:32:20 pm »
@mysterioza_me, One, hindi din naman kasi talaga regular na trabaho ng mga pari yung annulment cases. I mean, kasama yun pero dami na nila ginagawa, eh, so dagdag pa yun. Two, I think they do not really prioritize annulment kasi syempre, they believe in the sanctity of marriage and as much as possible, they want to preserve marriages.

When I got the letter from them, asking if I still want to push through with the annulment, nakalagay talaga sa letter na "we hope you were able to repair your marriage" or something to that effect.

Gusto ko lang talaga ipush yung church annulment just in case I want to be married in church one day.

@rlin_0811, Kahit hindi ka magpakasal sa civil, pag kinasal ka sa church, it's considered a civil wedding na din. This is why when you get an annulment, first priority dapat is to get a civil annulment kasi that's the only way you'll be allowed to get married again (under civil rites, meaning sa huwes).
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« Reply #94 on: April 16, 2017, 05:28:01 pm »
Just like everyone here, my current bf is currently married. Complicated na nga since I am pregnant now and alam naman na sa side ng family ko at sakanya. Sure naman ako na gusto nya na mahiwalay talaga sa asawa nya ngayon and matagal na din sila hindi nagsasama sa iisang bubong, suportado din naman ng kapatid niya ang relationship namin and actually excited na excited sila for the baby.

Ang haba na ng nababasa ko dito at natutunan ko na ang annulment ay isang mahabang process talaga. Pero nabasa ko somewhere na may nagbayad ng around 450k and naayos within 6months. Possible pa kaya un ngayon? If ever kasi, kaya namin pagipunan.. and gusto sana namin maayos asap kasi hindi naman aware sa side ng family ko na married pa siya. Ang sinabi lang namin is magpapakasal pero hindi muna sa ngaun at wag kami madaliin.

We really really need help on this one, wala din kami kakilala na lawyer or someone who is going through annulment. Manghihingi sana ako ng contacts ng recommended lawyers dito ng mga girltalkers na successful ang naging annulment. And also, pieces of advice and encouragement na din. :) I actually find comfort knowing I am not the only one going through the same thing. Thanks in advance, girltalkers!


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Re: Annullment thread 4
« Reply #95 on: April 16, 2017, 07:28:29 pm »
^Ingat ka sa ganyang nangangako ng 6 months, annulled na. Mainit ang mata ng OSG sa mga ganyang judges at RTC branches. In fact, alam nila kung sino yung mga judges na mabilis magbigay ng annulment kaya pag dumating sa kanila yung papers ni ganitong judge, kinocontest nila.

The first thing you can do is your family or friends if may kilala silang lawyer. Kahit anong lawyer naman pwedeng maghandle ng annulment case. Sa friends and family members ka muna magtanong. Last resort dapat sa online kasi di mo naman kami kilala so malay mo ba kung mapapagkatiwalaan kami. Kung may trabaho yung boyfriend mo, ask him kung may lawyer sa office nila or kung may legal department sila. Baka may kilala sila or ma-refer. Dun ka muna magsimula.
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Re: Annullment thread 4
« Reply #96 on: April 16, 2017, 08:04:34 pm »
^sis i think she mentioned she is keeping this as a secret kaya if ever magtanong tanong na siya sa family at close friends, patay!  ;D

ganyan nangyari sa pamilya ng tita ko. tinago nila ng matagal na kasal pala yung tito ko sa iba. eventually, lumabas din yung totoo. nalaman din namin lahat ang sekreto. sobrang stressed si tita nuon hindi pa namin alam lahat. nangayayat siya ng sobra. maybe because she was holding a big secret for a long time. when its out and open nakahinga siya ng maluwag.

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« Reply #97 on: April 16, 2017, 08:55:02 pm »
^Sabi nya her family knows and the family of his BF knows so her first possible step is to ask family members for referrals. And siguro naman may close friends sila na alam yung situation nila and can also provide referrals.
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« Reply #98 on: April 16, 2017, 10:05:10 pm »
^Alam ng family ng bf niya, pero ang family ni girl di pa alam na married si guy.

^^^Hirap ng situation mo sis kasi di pa alam ng family mo. Halos same tayo ng situation pero kami naman alam ng both parties ang situation niya pero di pa alam ng wife niya na may relasyon kami. 3yrs na silang hiwalay ng wife niya bago naging kami ni bf. Ofw si boyfie kaya mas complicated ang process 😞 and ang hirap maghanap ng trusted lawyer. Nawalan na nga kami ng gana ipush pa (actually ako yung mas nawalan ng gana). Meron sa fb na nagooffer ng 6mos-1yr na annulment muntik na namin patusin pero naghinala kami na parang may something lalo na-confirm hinala namin nung nagviolent reaction yung "lawyer" after mag-ask si boyfie ng office address nila.
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Re: Annullment thread 4
« Reply #99 on: April 16, 2017, 10:16:20 pm »
^ang alam ng family ni girl preggy siya pero hindi nila binanggit na married pa si guy.. boom??  :o yun lang if she starts to ask her family members for referrals, mangangamoy na eto sigurado.  sa side nalang ni bf at common friends nila sila magtanong tanong para safe.   masakit nga lang sa ulo ang magtago ng ganitong kalaking sekreto.

 


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