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Re: Annullment thread 4
« Reply #40 on: February 12, 2016, 05:14:23 pm »
Mga sis pa-pm po ng contact info ng lawyers ninyo and kung magkano po tf. Thanks
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Re: Annullment thread 4
« Reply #41 on: February 13, 2016, 08:15:35 am »
^sis, have you tried asking your family or friends for referrals first? Wag ka magrely sa online recommendations kasi di mo naman kami kilala. Baka better if you start asking family, friends or officemates muna.

Second, cost is just one of the many considerations when looking for a lawyer. Baka nga mura pero hindi naman magaling so paano madedefend yung petition mo?
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Re: Annullment thread 4
« Reply #42 on: February 14, 2016, 01:09:28 am »
^Sis hindi para sa kin, friend ko na based abroad ang naghahanap ng lawyer. Refer ko sana para makausap din niya at interview
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Re: Annullment thread 4
« Reply #43 on: February 14, 2016, 08:50:51 am »
^Ask for referral from family or friends pa din. Sila muna tanungin mo kung may kilala silang lawyers. Last resort dapat ang online referrals kasi like I said, hindi mo naman kami kilala. Plus, may mga a few instances na din dito sa GT na naloko ng lawyer dahil the person relied on online recommendations lang. Search mo lang yung old Annulment threads.
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« Reply #44 on: February 14, 2016, 03:32:55 pm »
^thanks
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« Reply #45 on: August 07, 2016, 08:35:11 pm »
Please mga sis kailangan ko po ng mapagkakatiwalaan mahusay at matinong lawyer sa annulment ko pls help me po irenecm2006@yahoo.com thanks

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« Reply #46 on: August 08, 2016, 02:53:51 pm »
How long is the normal processing of an annulment case?
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« Reply #47 on: August 08, 2016, 06:19:09 pm »
We are also searching for a mapagkakatiwalaan na annulment lawyer. Last time muntik na kami ma-scam grabe
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Re: Annullment thread 4
« Reply #48 on: August 09, 2016, 05:10:57 pm »
@barbillie, depends yan sa kung gaano kakumplikado ang case mo, kung maayos yung pagprocess ng court, kung mabilis mo makukuha ang mga documents na kelangan mo isubmit, kung gaano kabilis magtrabaho ang lawyer mo.

In my case, the entire annulment process lasted 2 years and 9 months from the time I met my lawyer for the first time until the day na tinurn over nya sa akin lahat ng documents from NSO.

@mysterioza_me, I suggest you start by asking friends and family members for referrals. Don't rely on online recommendations. Di mo naman kami kilala so we don't necessarily have your best interest at heart.
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« Reply #49 on: August 09, 2016, 07:21:33 pm »
^tama ka sis lalo na sa panahon na ito na ang dali mang-scam
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« Reply #50 on: August 17, 2016, 05:02:14 pm »
Super curious lang and I think I have to ask talaga. Last week, we were just talking about having a church wedding by next year (kinasal kami sa civil noong July 2014) pero this week, I just feel like gusto 'ko ng kumawala sa asawa 'ko at magsimula ulit ng malayo sa kanya. Hindi ko mapinpoint kung bakit, pero what made you decide, or ano yung eye opener na nakapagpa decide sa inyo na makipaghiwalay na, and to pursue annulment?

Nakakapanglambot isipin kasi mahal ko naman ang asawa ko. Kaya lang, nakakapagod kasi parang hindi na kami nauubusan ng problema. Pakiramdam ko rin ako ang lalaki sa aming dalawa kasi ako ang mas nag-iisip at nakaka diskarte kaysa sa kanya. Hindi ko rin gusto ang in laws ko dahil hindi nila ako naipaglaban at mairespeto lalo ng tinarantado ako ng isang pinsan ng asawa ni husband. Hindi ko alam, lately basa lang ako ng basa ng tungkol sa annulment. Hindi ako masaya sa pagsasama namin. Masaya lang ako at nagpapasalamat sa napakagandang anghel na ibinigay sa akin pero hindi ko na maatim tingnan ang asawa ko. Hindi ko alam kung effect lang ba ito dahil umiinom ako ng pills kaya palaging mainit ang ulo ko? O pagod nalang talaga ako? We are both based abroad naman at siguro magagawan naman namin ng paraan ang pera pero gusto kong makasigurado na tama ba ito?

Sana may makapag-share. Thanks!

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Re: Annullment thread 4
« Reply #51 on: August 17, 2016, 05:10:53 pm »
^Have you tried undergoing counseling muna?
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Re: Annullment thread 4
« Reply #52 on: August 18, 2016, 05:14:19 pm »
No. Parang ang sa akin eh ayoko na. Hiwalay nalang. Magkanya kanya nalang. Nakakasawa na.

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« Reply #53 on: August 18, 2016, 08:44:29 pm »
^2014 lang kayo ikinasal sis don't you think its too early to decide na makipaghiwalay simply because you just want to get out of marriage. It seems like an out of whim decision. Well sorry sis if ganun tingin ko ha I can't find a valid reason para makipaghiwalay ka. Hindi mo kasi bf yan na pagka nagproblem or may napansin ka na masamang ugali pwede mong kalasan anytime. Remember ikinasal ka diyan at sumumpa kaya sana gawan mo muna ng paraan na maging maayos kayo bakasakaling mabago pa. Kung talagang wala ng pag-asa ang marriage ninyo after counselling and trying then that's the time to decide if you'll have to part ways na.
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Re: Annullment thread 4
« Reply #54 on: August 19, 2016, 08:51:37 am »
+1 sa sinabi ni mysterioza_me!

@yn061515, sorry but if you're not making any effort to make your marriage work, what are the chances that your future relationships would work?

I totally understand that some marriages don't really work out pero I can bet you that all of the women who underwent annulments tried their utmost best to make their marriages work. Hindi yan whim decision na nagpa-annul lang. The annulment process is so difficult financially, emotionally and mentally that minsan mas madali pang wag na lang magpa-annul to spare yourself all the hassle.

If you think na magpapa-annul ka lang kasi nagsasawa ka na, think again.
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« Reply #55 on: August 20, 2016, 02:09:49 pm »
Thank you ladies! Pinag iisipan ko ng mabuting mabuti kaya basa basa rin lang ako based sa mga past experiences, ano ba naging batayan? May preferred period ba ng pagsasama na pag naabot nyo nayun, okay na? Pwede mo ng masabi na nagawa mo na lahat?

But yes, you guys are correct. Masaydo pang maaga. 2 years pa lang kami. And I know our marriage is worth fighting for! :) Sobrang stressful lang siguro ng nakaraang linggo kasi siguro wala kami matinong tulog parehas? Our 1yo daughter is teething and has fever plus cold and flu kaya siguro punong-puno kami ng stress mag-asawa. I think, isang bagay din na naka pills ako. Kaya umaapaw din ang emotions ko. I decided to stop taking the pills at eto today is pangalawang araw, ang ganda ng gising ko. Maaliwalas. I cannot pinpoint what exactly the reason is but I am thankful na nakikinig si Lord sa dasal ko to enlighten me, to enlighten us. Now, back to our church wedding plans. I don't know kung namention ko but civil wedding pa lang yung sa amin noong 2014. Recently naiisip ko na siguro mas magiging maayos ang pagsasama namin kung may basbas kami sa harap mismo ng Panginoon. Hindi ko alam at hindi rin naman ako nanghuhusga sa mga civil wedding lang na may maayos na pagsasama, at hindi ko rin naman masisigurado na magiging matahimik na ang lahat once naikasal kami sa simbahan, pero that for me is something that I look forward to. I am excited to get married once again to my husband, infront of our Lord, in my dream church. Naniniwala ako na it will strengthen us more. Sana, annulment would never ever cross my mind again. :)

Once again, thank you! :)

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Re: Annullment thread 4
« Reply #56 on: August 21, 2016, 12:06:11 pm »
^Syempre sis magkakaroon pa rin ng pagsubok along the way but kapit lang. Good for you na nakapag-isip ka 🙂

For me hiwalayan na if the guy is verbally and physically abusing, tamad and overly babaero. Kung wala kang ganyang issues kay hubby your marriage is worth-fighting for.
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« Reply #57 on: August 21, 2016, 03:10:34 pm »
^ naku, mukhang ang babaw ko nga. :( Malayo sa mga nabanggit mo si husband, haha! siguro baliw-baliwan lang talaga ko last week kaya galit na galit ako sa kanya. anyway, thanks sis!

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Re: Annullment thread 4
« Reply #58 on: September 01, 2016, 10:29:11 am »
Question, has anyone tried getting their cert of psychological incapacity in National Center for Mental Health (NCMH) in Mandaluyong or in PGH? yan kasi sinuggest sakin where to get it. how was the process and would you mind sharing sinong doc gumawa sa inyo?

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Re: Annullment thread 4
« Reply #59 on: September 01, 2016, 11:09:08 am »
^^I doubt that you can get a certificate na ganun-ganun lang. Hindi din certificate ang pinpresent sa court pag annulment process. It's a whole document (at least 10 pages) of psychological report. To come up with a psychological report, the psychologist should interview at least one party.
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