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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #40 on: December 17, 2014, 09:41:29 am »
Mga sis, I think safety pin is a good tool. Para sa mga dikit ng dikit, use safety pin at lalayo sila at magugulat na may tumutusok. Pero since marami kang gamit, you can easily hide it. Lalayo sila.

During my younger days, nagc commute din ako. Pero sanay ako mabilis maglakad kasi nga praning ako.  Lagi din ako nagdadasal that He continue to protect me and my family from harm. Kasi iyan ang kinakatakutan ko sa manila talaga.  call it OA, syempre mas worse yung mapatay ka or something, pero kahit papano very traumatic parin if ever maka encounter ka ng manyak.

First and only time ko maka encounter nito was during my 2nd yr college.  Sinwerte ako high school grade school ko e school bus, at first yr college ko was a breeze.  Pero nung 2nd yr, yung dinadaanan ko papuntang jeepney stop, e may lalaki na nakatayo lang sa kanto. Di ko na maalala sinabi nya pero something to the effect of "gusto mo makita ang t*t* ko". Being naive, natakot ako, I ran towards the jeepney stop, di naman na sumunod.

The following day, takot ako lumabas, wala naman. Pero 2nd time I saw again, sa tapat nako ng street lumakad para umiwas.  Naiwasan ko naman. Pero naiinis ako sa sarili ko bakit hindi ako lumaban, I guess I was too young then.  Around that time, napilitan ako ilabas ang sasakyan, on my own, 18yo, kahit hindi pako hasa sa pagdrive. Wala akong choice. I just maintained my speed at 40kph, wala akong pakialam, kesa naman ma subject ako sa harrassment ulit. Hanggang sa nasanay narin magdrive sa Manila traffic, at least, iwas na sa mga ganyang encounters.

Then during my 20s/30s na, minsan nagc-commute parin ako. Pero short distances lang like within Ortigas or Makati. Wala naman na issue.  Kapag pupunta naman ako ng divisoria or quiapo, I make sure I wear rubber shoes, jeans, tshirt, ponytail and cap --- ready makipagtakbuhan or rambulan.  I also change my watch to the plastic one (pero umaandar haha) and my celfone to the old nokia (but working).  So when I take the jeep, I make sure I look at all the passengers and whoever is looking at me, I make sure they will have a scary glance from me too. haha  Yes, I look creepy na parang crook, but I don't care, for me, better na ako katakutan kesa ako matakot sa kanila.

Hay those were the days.  For me ngayon, napaka stressful na nya kaya ayoko na bumalik dyan, if may chance talaga. I am now staying abroad at dito, may posters and rules para umiwas sa harrassment. And authorities encourage them to be reported immediately, tapos talagang pinaparusahan nila ang mga salarin.


Pagdating naman sa office setting, one time my friend told me di daw ako palangiti. I guess I just acquired that habit na hindi approachable.  That way, iwas din ako sa mga dumidikit na guys/officemates.  Kasi for me, hindi ako comfortable e, so anong magagawa ko. Siguro maliban nalang kung crush ko yung tao, puede ako magsmile at makipag conversation. Pero yun lang naman.  In any public place or even kakilala (friend na guy or officemate) at hindi mo naman BF, no no talaga ang touch and I always keep my personal space, may distance din. This may not totally eliminate the possibility of being harrassed, pero kahit papano puede ma-mininmize.









 
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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #41 on: December 17, 2014, 10:16:59 am »
In any public place or even kakilala (friend na guy or officemate) at hindi mo naman BF, no no talaga ang touch and I always keep my personal space, may distance din. This may not totally eliminate the possibility of being harrassed, pero kahit papano puede ma-mininmize.


siguro, eto yung mali ko.. kasi ma-hug ako sa friends ko.. kahit guys.. pero hindi naman yung hug na sobrang dikit.. i keep distance pa rin.. i mean, mali ako in a sense na masyado akong naging komportable sa kasi kaibigan ko naman.. pero now i have learned..

sabi nga ng isa kong kuya.. "ang mga lalaki, likas na malandi.." kaya pag in-entertain natin yung kalandian na yun, hala.. talo..

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« Reply #42 on: December 19, 2014, 01:38:20 pm »
hay naku! nakakaasar talaga yung mga mentally ill na maniacs na yan.. >:(
since elementary hanggang ngayon nagttrabaho na ako nakakaencounter pa rin ako ng ganyan..
[textspeak!] iba dinadaan sa biro, yung iba nang-uuto, iba naman pasimple, iba dinadaan sa pangbubully, etc..
pero eto ang di ko makakalimutan talaga, elementary pa lang ako,
tapos meron sa lugar namin na senoir na ang edad kasi puti na lahat ng buhok nya,
ako yung tipo ng bata na naglalaro sa kalye at sa mga nakaparang jeep na malapit lang sa bahay namin, etong mama na eto mahilig din tumambay sa jeep,
so one time, naglalaro ako sa harapan ng jeep, den etong si manong umupo din sa harapan,
tapos kinausap ako, sabi bibigyan nya ko ng 100php ipasok lang daw nya yung kanya sakin..
buti nalang aware na ako sa mga ganong bagay at hindi ako madaling mauto.. kaya bumaba na lang ako ng jeep.. diko naisumbong pero hindi naman ako takot nun..
sa isip isip ko, buti na lang talaga..

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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #43 on: December 31, 2014, 01:03:06 am »
Nabiktima ako nito nung elementary ako pero mild lang naman. Yung school bus driver namin, sumisimpleng palo sa hita ko. Hindi ko lang pinapansin nun pero syempre nung narealized ko na nung tumanda na ko, kakabadtrip. Nakarma naman sya kasi as far as i know h sobran g naghihirap na sya ngayon.

Nung college ako, sobrang bilis ako maglakad at hindi rin ngumingiti. Effective naman kasi kung may mambastos man, nalalayasan ko agad bago pa sya may magawa na kung ano.

Ngayon naman, ang pinakaproblema ko eh yung mga lintek na tambay. Mga bwiset talaga. Pag malapit lang dito sa lugar namin at nambabastos, nirereport ko agad sa barangay para mapagsabihan.

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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #44 on: December 31, 2014, 01:35:01 am »
TS, buti naka-react ka. I admire your quick thinking. Madami ako past moments when I wished I had the same presence of mind as you did. I want to hit myself in the head for not doing anything when I remember those times.

But when I became I mother, I just lost all that Maria-Clara-ness. I now absolutely cannot stand any kamanyakan and kabastusan. Parang, taena, may asawa at anak na ako, hindi pa ba titigil 'to? When this one drunk guy catcalled me and was basically making it uncomfortable for all the females in that public area, I just lost it and went apeshit on his face. I think I asked him what his problem was, and if he wanted to repeat what he said in front of all my male companions.

Any sort of confrontation sends these manyaks scurrying away with their tail between their legs. Kahit simpleng tawanan mo yung hirit nila, matatameme na sila.

My one mistake before was thinking that other males could defend me or would do something about a pambabastos for me. I now know that no one can defend myself from these things as well as myself.

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« Reply #45 on: January 16, 2015, 07:08:26 pm »
Scary naman ng mga stories niyo.  I noticed most of the manyakis encounters are in public transportation.  I don't remember having any encounter na ganyan, siguro natamaan lang ang side boob which i brush off as accident lang din, and parang hindi pa yata dito sa pinas kung hindi sa london kasi madaming tao.

I don't commute narin kasi ngayon, pero before, I used to take LRT to school. 

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« Reply #46 on: February 07, 2015, 03:08:20 pm »
May mga encounters din akong ganito pero mild lang and usually nakukuha sa masamang tingin. Pero yung pinaka nakakainis was few years ago, nagcommute ako going to sm and ako lang mag isa, since puno na yung jeep dun ako sa front seat umupo pero may nakaupo na na middle aged man, napapansin ko binabannga nya yung legs nya sa legs ko, sumimangot lang ako, tapos naiinis na ako kasi parang torture ang tagal ng byahe. Then buti na lang pababa na sya, but since nasa pagitan namin sya ng driver eh di ako muna sana yung bababa ng jeep para makadaan sya, nagulat ako ang bilis nya tumayo tas yung siko nya talagang idinaan nya sa breast ko, as in hindi yung tipong aksidente, sa sobrang gulat ko hindi ko na sya nasipa minura ko na lang ng PI at g**o.
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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #47 on: February 09, 2015, 01:09:25 am »
^pano kung gwapo yun ok lang siguro  :D

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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #48 on: February 09, 2015, 03:00:11 am »
i had few encounters (3 to be exact) pero mild lang din, legs and behind lang.. pero kung nagkataon na sa boobies or down there, ay nako, di ko alam ang magagawa ko haha!
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« Reply #49 on: February 09, 2015, 09:11:17 am »
^^I see you're saying that as a (tasteless) joke, but you understand that any kind of pambabastos is inexcusable no matter if the person is good-looking/rich/charming, right?
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« Reply #50 on: February 09, 2015, 09:12:55 am »
regardless kung guap o panget..
pang simpleng naabuso ka...
dapat mag reklamo

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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #51 on: February 09, 2015, 09:28:38 am »
@ argento, no manyak is still manyak regardless the look or status, still deserves a punch in his friggin face, given a chance ill kick his balls para madala.
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« Reply #52 on: February 09, 2015, 09:38:29 am »
^korek ka dyan sis !
kahit sino pa sya wala syang karapatan.kesyo super gwapo nyan. Dahil ang mali ay mali.
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« Reply #53 on: February 09, 2015, 04:01:02 pm »
Ako kasi sis i love to wear skirts and dresses at kahit na sasakay ako ng jeep. But i make sure na naka cycling shorts ako sa ilalim. I don't mind other people staring at me lalo na pag naka skirt ako na obvious naman na alam nyona kung saan naka tingin. My fault naman kasi nag skirt ako-kaya parang wala ako karapatan para umangal unless may hipo ng magaganap or verbal abuse na... by the way, lagi ako may dalang mahabang umbrella everytime na lumalabas ako, umuulan man oh hindi. Ready ako mang hampas ng tao na hihipoan ako or babastusin ako gamit ng salita nila. Pero yung tingin lang...i don't mind them sis. Up to this time, wala pa namang pang babastos ako na experience hipo man or verbal abuse. Tingin...marami na sis!
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« Reply #54 on: February 10, 2015, 12:12:22 am »
My fault naman kasi nag skirt ako-kaya parang wala ako karapatan para umangal unless may hipo ng magaganap or verbal abuse na...

All over the net there are movements saying women should be able to wear whatever they want without being catcalled, harrassed, raped, etc.

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« Reply #55 on: February 10, 2015, 04:02:30 am »
It is the “Devil” who caused women to show their legs, to. titillate men- The Satanic Bible

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« Reply #56 on: February 10, 2015, 10:27:30 am »
^Okay, wow, saan naman nanggaling itong BS na 'to? Last time I checked, my calendar read 2015, not 1815. Or is GT in some time warp?

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« Reply #57 on: February 10, 2015, 01:19:53 pm »
I don't mind being starred kasi naka skirt ako for as long as walang catcalling, verbal abuse, touch or anything na may action. Like i said, I am very much ready to defend myself to any kind of abusive actions towards me.  ;)
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« Reply #58 on: February 10, 2015, 02:34:00 pm »
Ganyan ang paniniwala ng ibang countries eh kaya yung mga narerape pa kuno yung may kasalanan kaya sila narape kahit yung victim is minor, jusko di ko magets kung anung klaseng pag iisip merun sila.
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« Reply #59 on: February 11, 2015, 01:26:28 pm »
What you girls get if you show too much skin? Feel nyo maganda kayo then if you get unwanted attention naiinis.

 


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