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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #80 on: February 14, 2015, 09:37:14 am »
^So you think the best comparison of a cognitive, free-will-given human harassing his fellow human is an unthinking disease that occurs naturally in a potent enviroment? That a man has absolutely no say, no decision, that it is his instinct to harass a woman if she was dressed provocatively in his eyes?

No, child, don't make an animal of yourself. You have a brain (allegedly), you have free will, you have a choice to do good or bad, no matter the situation presented to you.

And if you really want a woman's attention, compliment her, don't effin' harrass her.

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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #81 on: February 14, 2015, 12:09:19 pm »
@argento, bro if your purpose of coming here is to educate yourself, you're more than welcome to ask questions but please carefully choose your words. However, if you choose to just troll around, you're in the wrong thread mehn..

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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #82 on: February 14, 2015, 12:33:31 pm »
Wala me sinabi na right ng guys na mangmanyak. If you dress madyado revealing parang your giving motives

Parang sinabi mo na rin na wala kang self-control. Kahit maglakad ako ng naka-bra, I still am NOT ASKING FOR IT. The way we dress doesn't dictate the way men should treat us. You know what, maybe you should try broadening your perspective on the topic matter first before saying anything kasi it just shows how sexist your viewpoint is. Men who think like you have greater potentials of committing sexual offenses because of the limiting views you ascribe to women.
Life is a mirror kaya lagi ka dapat masaya para masasayang bagay at experiences ang lumapit sayo.

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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #83 on: February 14, 2015, 11:23:55 pm »
kaya nga tama logic ko eh

sa iyo yung flawed.  :P
 
best comparison would be smoker and a non-smoker:
where smoker has a high chance of getting cancer than a non smoker pero ang non smoker can also get cancer but low risk.

so if your dress reveal too much then just be ready sa mga menyaks hehe!

I'm the thread starter here. I am a victim. Nabiktima ako hindi ako nakasuot ng pang night club outfit.Naka office attire ako so please stop trolling here. At isa pa HINDI KA NAMAN MAKAKARELATE PWEDE LUMAYAS KA DITO???  >:(

hindi mo naman sinagot yung TANONG KO SA THREAD NA ITO EH. Wala ka naman nacontribute na experience mo. Layas!!!

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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #84 on: February 14, 2015, 11:48:09 pm »

Working: Di ko sure kung tatawagin kong manyak experience ito. Muntik na akong marape ilang metro lang sa bahay namin. Nakasabay ko sa jeep, tapos bumaba sabay ko. Tapos biglang hinablot ang buhok ko at sinabing doon daw kami sa damuhan. Sumigaw ako ng malakas. Natakot ata at binitawan na lang ako at kumaripas naman ako ng takbo.


OMG scary! buti na lang sis nakasigaw ka. At buti na lang natakot sya! I can't imagine what could've happened otherwise.

@argento, actually, yung mga sinasabi mo, minority lang ng mga kababaihan ang ganyan manamit. Kung nagbabasa ka ng maayos sa thread na to, makikita mo na most of the victims ay maayos manamit. And kahit pa hindi, it's never going to be an acceptable excuse for manyaks. You have to be considerate of other's feelings kasi nasa thread ka na to. Most of the women here have been victims. So unless namanyak ka na din, makaka alis ka na po. You know, you really don't have to voice out your thoughtless opinions and make us feel like it's out fault that perverts exist.

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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #85 on: February 15, 2015, 02:57:40 am »
Pay no mind to senseless people. Baka siya mismo ay manyak kaya ganyan.

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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #86 on: February 15, 2015, 03:43:24 am »
Men who think like you have greater potentials of committing sexual offenses because of the limiting views you ascribe to women.

Actually i despise sex offenders.

If someone can prove in my post that i blamed the victims na maayos manamit or did i use offensive words or did i say its a guys right na mambastos any of these three then I'll stop posting in any thread.

Or just get me banned.

Sabi nga ang pikon talo  ;D

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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #87 on: February 15, 2015, 05:35:54 am »
^like i said, you're in the wrong thread bro. This is not a game. People are pouring their hearts out here. I hope you do realize that you're already offending people here.
« Last Edit: February 15, 2015, 05:37:41 am by kinkytinch »

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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #88 on: February 15, 2015, 09:56:50 am »
^like i said, you're in the wrong thread bro. This is not a game. People are pouring their hearts out here. I hope you do realize that you're already offending people here.


Yeah, sis. Let's not waste time with that troll. Matutuwa lang sya. I don't really like to argue with low I.Q. people like him. No matter what we say to defend our views, he'll always twist it around to justify his stupid claims. Definite waste of time and energy.
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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #89 on: February 15, 2015, 10:04:05 am »
Sisses, don't do anything to get Argento banned. It will serve him right if other people could read his posts and see how uneducated and ignorant he is about sexual harassment and women's rights. Let other people marvel on his ignorance and take pity on how shallow he is. Let him take credit on displaying his stupidity.

Refrain from quoting him either. It is beyond futile to argue with that troll.
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« Reply #90 on: February 18, 2015, 05:44:36 pm »
Yeah, sis. Let's not waste time with that troll. Matutuwa lang sya. I don't really like to argue with low I.Q. people like him. No matter what we say to defend our views, he'll always twist it around to justify his stupid claims. Definite waste of time and energy.

Yes. Nakakapang-init ng ulo yung mga ganyang tao.. And they are the ones na nagiging masaya pa pag marami pang naiinis sa kanya.. Hayaan na lang natin.. Mag-comment man, never mind.. As if invisible yung mga magiging comments nya pa if ever..

Pero sisters.. Ako aaminin ko, ngayon ko nararamdaman yung trauma.. May effect pa rin pala talaga yung mga nangyari sa past.. Kasi ako, i have this guy friend na gusto ko talaga.. More than crush.. May instances din na nagparamadam sya saken na parang gusto nya rin ako.. Pero pag dumadating yung time na nagiging sobrang komportable na kaming dalawa.. Bigla akong dumidistansya sa kanya hanggang sa hindi na kami masyadong nagkakausap or nagkikita.. Tapos, magiging ok na naman kami, magkakasama ulet tapos pag nagiging sobrang close na ulet, lalayo na naman ako.. Later  i realized.. Knowing na babae ang kahinaan nya at ako rin, alam ko kung ano yung kahinaan ko, kaya ko pinipiling lumayo sa kanya kahit na gusto ko talaga sya.. kasi iniiwasan ko lang na umabot ako sa point na nakikipag-flirt na ko sa kanya tapos umabot kami sa isang bagay na ayokong gawin na gusto ng flesh ko.. complicated naman yung ganung bagay diba?

tapos lat month yung huling incident na may nang bastos saken sa isang parlor nung magpa-color ako ng hair.. akala ko kaya ko nang ipagtanggol ang sarili ko.. hindi pa rin pala talaga.. kaya ngayon,  parang ayoko nang mag-skirt ulit lalo na kung ako lang mag-isa..

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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #91 on: February 20, 2015, 09:15:55 am »
alam mo sis, kahit medyo hindi magandang reason yan para mag boyfriend (haha) me point ang kuya mo. Usually kasi ang mga manyak takot sa mga kasamang guy ng girl. Kaya since lagi na kami sabay ni bf, wala ng nagtatangkang manyak.
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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #92 on: February 20, 2015, 09:35:41 am »
alam mo sis, kahit medyo hindi magandang reason yan para mag boyfriend (haha) me point ang kuya mo.

hehe.. ang sagot ko nga sa kanya, "kung hatid-sundo lang kailangan ko, sana kumuha na lang ako ng tricycle driver.. hahaha!" (kasi may isa kong friend na nag-offer na i-hire ko na lang sya para may taga-hatid-sundo ako.. hehe)

pero ayoko rin naman ng ganun.. darating din yung tamang tao para saken.. alam ko malapit na..

kaya mga lagi na lang akong sumasabay sa kapatid ko pag-gabi na.. kahit na matagal akong maghintay sa kanya basta may kasabay lang ako..

thanks queen chokolah.. :)

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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #93 on: February 20, 2015, 03:02:28 pm »
Bakit nga kaya kapag sexual harassment na maraming hindi makapalag? Is there a psychological explanation?

Ako rin naranasan ko na ang mamanyakan sa aking private part pa talaga and my family and friends know me as palaban at maldita, but that time, wala akong nagawa. Takot na takot ako. Hanggang ngayon hindi ko makuwento sa ibang tao because I'm ashamed na wala akong nagawa that time. Naikuwento ko yun sa isang close friend ko pero ako pa ang nasisi bakit daw wala akong ginawa. Kaya siguro di ko na ulit kinuwento sa iba.
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« Reply #94 on: February 21, 2015, 06:40:57 am »
haha let me share my manyakis encounter

i was still studying nun, may duty kame (nursing) sa bulacan, probinsya. schedule was 12midnight so mga 8pm nasa byahe na ako. so ang sasakyan is bus na non airconditioned lang kasi yun lang available transport. so i was wearing student nurse uniform. nothing mahalay, may collar, may sleeves, skirt sya pero mahaba at naka white stockings ako na makapal so ang balat lang na makikita mo sakin is yung sa arms ko at above the neck

anyway, sa bus, laging close yung window ko kasi mahangin, so since madilim, kita mo yung reflection from the window kasi sarado sya.dun ako nakaupo beside the window sa right side.

i noticed na itong katabi ko may ginagalaw sya sa lap nya. i can see it from my perpheral vision. since i dont wanna look naman, tinatanaw ko sya sa reflection ng window and i can see na everytime in look towards the window, e nilalapit nya yung face nya sa face ko then if i look straight, he will look straight din

tapos sabi nya bababa sya sa may mall banda, pagdating sa mall, aba hindi pa rin bumaba, (hindi pa siguro tapos ;D he he ) so ginawa ko tumayo na lang ako kunyari bababa nako ng bus, pero bigla din syang tumayo na sya at bumaba

hindi naman ako natakot kasi pwede naman ako sumigaw at marami naman tao sa bus. as long as hindi nya ako sasaktan or hahawakan.

mabuti na yun kesa mang rape sya haha masyado lang siguro talaga ako matapang nung bata pako :P
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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #95 on: February 21, 2015, 09:41:02 am »
Bakit nga kaya kapag sexual harassment na maraming hindi makapalag? Is there a psychological explanation?

baka may underlying threat ng physical harm kahit hindi outright sabihin sa victim? curious rin ako, bakit nga ba?

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« Reply #96 on: February 22, 2015, 02:17:22 am »
^I'm thinking maybe because the society is taught that it is the girl's fault if ever she gets sexually harassed? That time naman kasi alam ko na wala siyang magagawang ibang masama like bugbugin ako or may panaksak given the circumstances, so I know that there is no other underlying threat. I'm trying to search pa sa google
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« Reply #97 on: February 22, 2015, 06:49:37 am »
I had a few experiences din sa mga ganitong manyak.

During college may nawitness akong babaeng namamanyak, good looking yung guy ha at naka uniform na parang nagwowork sa bank. Yung girl was a student and nakikita ko talaga yung kamay nya holding on to the girl's boobies. Iwawarning ko dapat si girl kaso naka look away sya, tapos pababa na ako ng jeep at tumigil din si mamang manyak kaya hinayaan ko nalang. Tapos months after narealize ko nalang ako naman ang nakatabi ng mamang manyak. Ako naman ang minanyak nya, ang ginawa ko, nilapit ko ang mukha ko sa tenga nya sabay mura. Napatingin sya sa akin tapos bumaba sa kahihiyan kasi kung di sya titigil mag eeskandalo talaga ako.

May instance pa sa bus, I was already working that time, I was wearing the usual baby tee then jeans. It was around 6AM pauwi na ako from work, my usual shift ends at 3AM but hindi ako pinapayagan ng TL ko to go home that early so nagpapalipas ako sa office. 6AM pasakay na ako ng bus, pag akyat ko asa second to the last nalang ng rows ang available, naupo ako sa may window then my usual routine, natutulog sa bus. Naalimpungatan ako, pag mulat ko asa Karuhatan na ako, tapos ang lakas lakas ng sounds ng bus, nakiramdam ako, yung katabi kong mama super taba nya tapos nararamdaman kong nagmasturbate sya. Pag check ko sa bus, walang tao na halos mga 4-5 nalang na pasahero asa harap pa, sa takot ko nagkunwari akong tulog. Hinintay ko sya matapos, hindi naman nya ako hinahawakan kaya sige bahala sya. Nung natapos sya dali dali ako lumipat sa harap tapos sya bumaba narin.
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« Reply #98 on: February 23, 2015, 11:00:24 am »
Eeew! nakakadiri naman yung nagmamasturbate sa bus! di makapag hintay makauwe?

Bakit nga kaya kapag sexual harassment na maraming hindi makapalag? Is there a psychological explanation?

Naikuwento ko yun sa isang close friend ko pero ako pa ang nasisi bakit daw wala akong ginawa. Kaya siguro di ko na ulit kinuwento sa iba.

yan nga ang problema sa mga tao sis, pag nagkwento ka, ikaw pa ang mali o masama kasi di ka nanlaban o di mo nagawang manlaban. kaya nakakatakot na din magkwento sa iba. Kaya kinikimkim na lang.

di ko din alam, baka may psychological reason nga or something. nawawala ang tapang ko pag ganitong situation eh.
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Re: Manyakis Encounter | Ano ginawa niyo?
« Reply #99 on: February 23, 2015, 02:25:29 pm »
Bakit nga kaya kapag sexual harassment na maraming hindi makapalag? Is there a psychological explanation?

Bakit nga kaya kapag sexual harassment na maraming hindi makapalag? Is there a psychological explanation?

bakit nga kaya?

kaninang umaga, habang nagp-prepare ako ng sarili ko for work.. eto yung biglang pumasok sa isip ko nung tinitingnan ko ang sarili ko sa salamin habang nagto-toothbrush..

may naka-kwentuhan kasi ako kahapon na isang estudyante na molested din.. pero hindi about dun yung pinagkwentuhan namin.. medyo na-tap lang yung issue pero more of the trauma when it comes sa relationship.. tapos may bigla akong naalala na nangyari before.. nung 6 0r 7 years old ako, yung isang kapitbahay namin, inaaya nya ko sa isang bakanteng kwarto sa bahay ng lola ko na katabi lang mismo ng bahay namin.. sabi nya, magk******an (tagalog term for sex) daw kami.. e wala pa kong muwang nung mga time na yun kaya sumama ko and we did it.. nung kinagabihan, sinabi ko sa parents ko na parang laro lang yung nangyari.. syempre nagalit parents ko.. nigulpi ako ng tatay ko.. di ko naman naintindihan bakit sya nagalit kasi nga di ko pa alam yun.. haha!

anung feeling ko that time? wala.. walang pain or anything nung time na yun na nakapatong sya saken.. alam ko na may ginagawa sya saken pero wala kong ibang naramdaman.. na-bore na lang ako sa ginagawa nya kasi nga hindi ko alam kung ano yun..

pero from that time on, nagka-idea na ko about sex at that early age..

pag naaalala ko yun.. natatanong ko tuloy.. virgin pa ba kaya ako? siguro kasi mga bata pa kami noon (maliit pa yung penis ng kapitbahay namin) kaya kahit na may ginawa sya saken, parang wala lang..

di ko alam kung anung iisipin ko about dun.. tingin nyo?

 


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