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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #160 on: June 03, 2018, 04:11:17 pm »
Ako, I dont have allowance din. Combined income kami. Sahod ko lahat sa utilities, bills, tuition fees, and rent ng house. Walang natitira sa akin kasi lahat palabas. Yung kanya daw ilalagay nya sa savings namin so parang hati na din kami. Lately, nagkagulo kami kasi. I am aware na may binibigay sya sa nanay every month about $600 no complains kasi may sakit. Kaso lalong nagkagulo dahil pinadlhan nya ng pera kapatid nya ng wala akong alam. Nalaman ko after ilan days dahil tinanong ko. Naisip ko ayoko ng combined income. Kasi parang buong angkan nya humihingi na sa amin.

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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #161 on: June 04, 2018, 08:13:48 am »
^That will breed resentment talaga sis, good luck & sana mag kaayos kayo. Pag dating sa pera dapat walang emotion eh, logic nalang para walang hurt feelings. Hinde naman madadaya ang math, unless mag secret bank account ka sis or i recompute nyo yung expenses. Again, no emotions & logical lang kasi hinde nag mmake sense na ikaw at the end of the day 0 savings dahil may leak....

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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #162 on: June 04, 2018, 01:00:48 pm »
We have the same money arrangements as Solenn and Nico (pero di kami kasing yaman nila ha? lol).

https://www.pep.ph/lifestyle/lifestyle/36631/solenn-heussaff-and-nico-bolzicos-financial-agreement-may-surprise-you

Kahit mag asawa na kami, I didn't like the idea na iintrega nya sakin yung sweldo nya tapos hihingi lang sya ng allowance. Traditionally, ganito satin diba? si misis in charge sa pagbubudget kaya si mister, ibibigay sa kanya yung sweldo. Wala namang masama dun, if it works for you. Iba-iba naman ang financial situation ng bawat pamilysa.
Sa bahay namin, kanya-kanya kami ng sweldo at tokang bayaran:
hubby - house mortgage, cc bills
me - groceries, food, utilities, monthly assoc dues, internet/cable
Kanya-kanya din kami ng bayad sa insurances namin. But I do the saving for us (emergency fund, house maintenance fund, etc.). Yung allowance, bahala kami magbudget. Pero minsan pag may kailangang bayaran unexpectedly, we inform each other tas kumukuha sa savings pool/envelope. Wala pa kaming joint account, pero we still maintain each one's savings account (nung single pa kami). Pero kahit separate ang expenses, we still let each other know kung magkano yung nagagastos monthly. May monthly financial report kumbaga. Hahaha.

It works for us, so we don't feel the need to change this set-up. Pero pag may baby na siguro (in God's time), baka then, we'll look for another budget strategy.
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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #163 on: June 04, 2018, 01:25:57 pm »
^I have nothing against that setup kasi nagwowork naman siya sa iba pero honestly kung sa akin di ako kumportable sa ganyan. Hindi ko feel na mag-asawa or partner kami if separate ang gastos namin, parang housemates lang kami. Mas gusto ko na i-pool ang salary namin and from there ibabawas ang para sa savings, expenses sa bahay and allowance etc.
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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #164 on: June 04, 2018, 01:43:24 pm »
^we agreed on this set-up kasi, for me naman, ayoko nung idea ng "nanghihingi ng allowance". Naririnig ko kasi minsan sa ibang friends ko na married din, feeling daw nila "tinitipid" sila/hindi nila naeenjoy yung sweldo nila. Term nila yun ha. So ayoko naman mafeel nung asawa ko na dadaan lang sa kamay nya yung sweldo nya, so he manages his money.  We do groceries/buy stuff together naman, pero I also encourage him to buy stuff para sa sarili nya.

Pero as the saying goes, to each his own. :)
« Last Edit: June 04, 2018, 03:07:29 pm by thatkdramaeonni »
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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #165 on: June 04, 2018, 02:29:16 pm »
^I agree to each his own. Kung ano nagwowork sa atin yun ang ifollow.
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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #166 on: June 04, 2018, 02:50:58 pm »
^Yup, true sis. Whatever works. Ang mahalaga, hindi dahil sa pera yung pag aawayan ng mag-asawa.  :)
« Last Edit: June 04, 2018, 03:06:30 pm by thatkdramaeonni »
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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #167 on: June 04, 2018, 03:10:31 pm »
We pool our salary together then we less our savings and all expenses/mortgage/payables for the month. Kung ano yung matitira dun, yun yung allowance namin. Hubby's income is 3x more than mine.
Kaya ang set-up namin sa natitirang allowance, 60% sa kanya, 40% sakin. This works for us kasi yung luho namin, kinukuha namin sa kanya-kanyang allowance. :)

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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #168 on: June 05, 2018, 11:22:11 am »
Most of our expenses si hubby ang nagbabayad, i make sure na walang natitira sa sweldo niya para no time to cheat or do vices. then i pay for other bills na hindi na niya macover, plus i do the savings and investment and also financier ng mga business ventures namin. alam naman niya lahat ng PW and investments namin. this works for us kahit na minsan na angal siya na wala siya pera, kasi wala naman talaga natitira sa kanya, thats why i do the shopping for him and all other recreational activities/travel ako nasagot. kapag naman may bonus siya halos half binibigay niya sakin as a gift. hindi naman ako masyado gastador may addict ako sa pagbili ng investment rather than material things. thankful lang ako na sobrang sipag ng hubby ko, thats why we can save/invest atleast 90% of my salary

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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #169 on: July 22, 2018, 10:47:15 am »
Lately ko lang nakita ang budget excel file ng husband ko at nakalagay dun na may 10k allowance pala ako monthly on top sa lahat ng monthly at future expenses namin... How sweet! 😃.. Pero kung kelan naman nagpapaka-goodgirl na ako.. So sa savings talaga mapupunta yun..at least until dec buwuhaha! 😆

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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #170 on: October 22, 2018, 05:22:08 pm »
I don't have allowance.  We just agree on sharing the expenses at home.  Since we both have our own thing, hati nalang.

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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #171 on: October 24, 2018, 04:16:22 pm »
I dont have allowance from my partner kasi parehas naman kaming may work. Since mas malaki sahod ko sa kanya ako nagbabayad lahat as in lahat. Nagbibigay lang sya para sa baby namin and kapag kulang ako na magpupuno.

Sa laguna nakatira si hubby dahil sa work nya, ako naman sa manila. Umuuwi lang sya kapag restday nya  :)

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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #172 on: May 12, 2019, 04:42:38 pm »
Kanya kanya kami ng allowance and savings from our salaries. Expenses sa bahay at sa kids ay galing lahat sa business income.
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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #173 on: July 04, 2019, 01:55:02 am »
no allowance from hubby. we both work pero we put a portion of our salary in a shared account to use for any shared expenses (rent, utilities, CC bills etc).

we also put a portion for savings pero majority ng salary namin kanya kanya. ayoko ipool kasi nag sustento ako sa nanay ko. mahirap na pagsimulan ng away.

plus hubby would never agree on that allowance thing haha

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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #174 on: August 29, 2019, 12:11:09 pm »
Walang allowance now pero halos lahat naman ng pabili ko binibili  nya haha
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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #175 on: September 09, 2019, 07:50:09 am »
wala ako allowance, wala kasi siya work, siya ang sa bahay...siya ang may allowance sakin...
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