Author Topic: addict si hubby sa online games..  (Read 30935 times)

TomHansen

  • Not a
  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 866
  • Wait for it..
Re: addict si hubby sa online games..
« Reply #180 on: June 11, 2019, 05:03:13 pm »
^ Ilang months na bang umiiyak si friend mo? Sa team ba ng bf niya isa siya sa pinakamagagaling(top1 or 2) na players?

Kung hindi baka pwede pang maghintay kaibigan mo ng ilan pang months? Sa mga pro teams kasing ganyan after ilang competitions na di nagpeperform ng maganda ang team nagkakaroon ng sibakan/switch ng players, kung sakaling masibak si bf magka-time na siya para sa friend mo..

Kung oo naman ibig sabihin walang chance na matanggal siya sa team kaya mas mabuti pang makipagbreak na lang friend mo kung hindi na niya talaga kaya.. Hindi magbabago bf niya kasi yung mga tambay nga na-aaddict pano pa kaya yung taong kumikita sa paglalaro. Pumasok siya sa relationship para sumaya, kung hindi na siya masaya umalis na siya.

Nag-uusap ba sila tungkol sa issues ng bf niya? anong dinadahilan ng lalaki? nageeffort ba siyang magpaliwanag and at the same time nagccompromise? kung naglalaro bf niya kapag magkasama sila isa lang ibig sabihin niyan - wala na siyang respeto.
Attraversiamo..

three8one

  • Super GirlTalker
  • *****
  • Posts: 2583
  • GuyTalker
Re: addict si hubby sa online games..
« Reply #181 on: June 11, 2019, 06:08:29 pm »
If you are on my friend's shoes, what will be the best thing to do?

good timing at maayos na usapan/real talk ang kailangan ng magpartner. as in masinsinan?.. ngayon, sa kabila ng lahat walang gustong mag give way or mag sacrifice siguro its time na pag usapan na nila yung pag momove forward nila pareho na hindi na sila magkasama. pareho lang nila sinasayang ang mga oras nila sa isa't isa na wala naman patutunguhan. masakit sa una, kasi masasayang talaga yung mga oras at efforts na na invest pero mas Mabuti na din yun.

turing na lang ng friend mo sis AllHailFallon (haba ng name mo, hehe) na isang lesson ang pag daan ng bf nya sa buhay nya.  ;)
.... apart from You i can do nothing.... but with God nothing is impossible...therefore, I can do all things through Him who gives me strength.
 
John 15:5
Matthew 19:26
Philippians 4:13

AllHailFallon

  • Probationary
  • Posts: 9
Re: addict si hubby sa online games..
« Reply #182 on: June 12, 2019, 04:03:26 pm »
Thanks for the replies! :)


Assistant team captain si boyfriend ni friend sa team nila ngayon.


Since February na nila pinag aawayan yan, kahit di pa masyado sikat si BF niya yun. Ilang beses na sila nag usap and everytime na magtatalo sila about dun, mas iritable pa si boyfriend instead na magsorry or magcompromise. Like sinasabi di makaintindi yung friend ko so lagi ang ending, nafoforce siya makipagbati para wala nalang pagtatalo.


Inadvice-an ko na tigilan na niya at mukhang hopeless na. Will let you guys know ano ending nila hehe. :)


three8one

  • Super GirlTalker
  • *****
  • Posts: 2583
  • GuyTalker
Re: addict si hubby sa online games..
« Reply #183 on: June 17, 2019, 01:03:44 pm »
^ ma'am before your friend make an argument or serious talk with his bf, ask her self first kamo, if that person is matured enough to accept the concept of different perspective? kasi kung hindi rin lang naman, absolutely no point lang. sayang lang laway nya at panahon nya.  ;)
.... apart from You i can do nothing.... but with God nothing is impossible...therefore, I can do all things through Him who gives me strength.
 
John 15:5
Matthew 19:26
Philippians 4:13

Girltalker2

  • Super GirlTalker
  • *****
  • Posts: 3216
Re: addict si hubby sa online games..
« Reply #184 on: June 19, 2019, 07:37:27 am »
^^ tell your Friend to find another bf Na mas ok. Why would she want to settle with someone ganyan


Ms. Undecided

  • Junior GirlTalker
  • ***
  • Posts: 284
Re: addict si hubby sa online games..
« Reply #185 on: June 19, 2019, 11:44:38 am »
her BF moved to the bootcamp (residence provided by their team's manager) eh nawalan na ng oras si BF sa kanya.

Pwede ba malaman kung anong team nila sis? :)
Live each day as if it is your last ♥

baby_yummy

  • IT - makult n' malufet
  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 53
Re: addict si hubby sa online games..
« Reply #186 on: June 24, 2019, 02:14:24 am »
@three8one.. Tried that i'm very vocal when it comes to my feelings kasi di ko feel yung kinikimkim kasi emotions piles up. I also tried to ask around about his game, who is he playing with, strat use kaso alam mo yun yung feeling na mas nagiging close sya dun kesa sakin. Meron pa siyang girl na nagiging close dun sa group chat nila. Honestly I'm a jealous type sinu bang girl ang hindi if mas maraming time yung Hubby ko makipag usap sa chat with his Guild.

Regarding sa healthy interaction, i always ask him to join me sa elorde. I do Muay Thai pero siya too many excuses like his feet is sore or lazy much. I'm an outgoing person and his my opposite although mas healthy option kasi yung sakin rather than staying at home and playing in front of the computer or mobile phone for hours.

One time pumitik na ako, Father's day and while we were having lunch with my side of the family ayun he is smiling by himself kasi busy kakachat at kakalaro and not even talking with my family. Sinita ko and told me he's not playing at naka "autoplay" daw yung charater. Sumabog talaga ako and inaway ko siya paguwi namin. I told him you don't even socialize with my family who made an effort celebrating Father's day with you. Sumama talaga loob ko nakaka-heartbreak to the point na pinapili ko na siya (Me or Ragna). I was so frustrated that I even pull out my wedding ring to give it to him kasi he told me unfair daw ako. Like WHAT? ako pa ang unfair after 15 years of trying to understand your so called Gaming Life at pinagbabawalan ko daw syia magplay at magchat sa Guild niya. WOW di ba as in ako pa talaga ang unfair because i want to spend time with him. I guess he realize what he is loosing after i handed my ring and beg to reconsider. He painfully admits being an addict and left all his chatroom sa Guild and stop playing. 

Now were ok but I'm still checking his playing time every now and then. I don't want to deprive him on something he is really good at pero i did remind him on Family time and being an addict (sabi ko nga intervension ko na siya or pasok ko sa mental) . He drops his position on the Guild as a leader so he doesn't have to be on the chat everyday like every minute plus no cellphone when he is with family and cuddle time. 

People change over the years and couples might grow apart if they let themselves grew apart especially with different interest and crowd.

@AllHailFallon.. Tell your friend to analyze her feelings if she's really up to a future with a type of guy. Not saying this because i feel trapped in mine but I'm thankful that hubby is trying to change and improve. Not all guys are willing to accept their faults. I suggest din to open up, dun niya malalaman ang reaction at thinking ng bf niya tungkol sa issue. It might be for the better or for the worse but at least she can decide from there on if its worth fighting for or letting him go. Again its boils down to loving yourself first.   

Sorry a bit long... ;D

 


Latest Stories

Load More Stories
Close