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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #140 on: April 27, 2017, 10:53:34 am »
@ tricksyheart issue na ba noon sainyo ang pera? or ano bang  napagusapan niyo before you get married? kami kasi ni partner pinaguusapan namin na pag kinasal na kami magjojoint account kami for the savings. He also wants to pay for the bills and other necessities at yung kinikita ko is for my wants nalang. Sinasabi ko sakanya na I also want to pay kasi nga ayaw ko ng umaasa or parang free-loader kaso ang rebut niya dun family naman kami hindi roomies.  Minsan  binibiro ko siya na buhayin niya ako, tapos isasagot niya "kala ko ba ikaw bubuhay sakin?" hahaha

Be open sa set-up niyo kasi di magwowork yan kung di mo sasabihin sakanya. In my paniniwala kasi mag asawa ay magkatuwang  pero sa set-up niyo para kayong nag kanya kanya. Ano pang sense na nag pakasal kayo diba? with regards naman sa arrhaes, again na sa paguusap niyo yun.
Also, dagdag lang kung engineer siya sa UAE and school clerk ka apat na beses na mas malaki sahod niya sayo (Kung entry level engineer ha) so I think kung sino mas malakli kinikita yun dapat ang tumulong or mas mag shoulder ng expenses sa bahay.
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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #141 on: May 08, 2017, 12:51:50 pm »
^Well kung sumasama na ang loob mo dahil sa paggastos niya then you have to talk to her and make her understand na kailangan niya magshare sa gastusin sa bahay or part of her salary is maging savings ninyo for your children's future. Hindi masama gumastos kasi kung minsan pakonswelo natin yun sa pinagpaguran natin para mas sipagin tayo pero hindi excuse lagi na pakonswelo lang sa sarili ang pagbili ng mamahalin na gamit lalo na kung may responsibilidad na tayo. Its up to you kung paano mo ipapaintindi yan. Kung di niya maintindihan ikaw magdecide anong gagawin mo. Kasi ako ang katwiran ko its either tanggapin ko ng walang reklamo ang ginagawa niya or iwan ko siya kasama mga anak ko (tutal mukha naman single ang peg niya) kesa naman nagrereklamo or naiinis ako sa ginagawa niya, naku nakakamatay ang stress.
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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #142 on: May 08, 2017, 08:37:15 pm »
Siya lahat gumagastos pati pang gimik ko.walang certain amount yon allowance ko basta pasok sa budget. :)

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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #143 on: May 10, 2017, 07:22:10 pm »
wala. pero if i want something (basta within reason), sagot niya lahat.


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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #144 on: May 11, 2017, 12:13:29 am »
Allowance from Husband? Waley! Pero allowance from our money? Wala naman din.  ;D Ako kasi treasurer and auditor sa aming mag-asawa. I work from home so wala akong allowance. Siya kasi meron "daily baon" Kapag may need/want bilhin check ang budget if kaya go, if hindi eh di huwag ipilit. 
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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #145 on: June 02, 2017, 02:11:20 pm »
Buong sweldo niya binibigay niya sakin  ;D Siya ang binibigyan ko ng allowance HAHA
Kidding aside, my husband is a good provider, at thankful ako sakanya dahil he trusts me enough to do the budgeting. At feel na feel ko naman ang pagiging ilaw ng tahanan dahil doon  ;D

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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #146 on: June 04, 2017, 07:41:30 am »
^Ganyan talaga ang setup dapat. Mom and Dad ko ganyan din sila.
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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #147 on: June 05, 2017, 04:33:10 pm »
Basically hati kami ni husband sa gastusin sa bahay, although yung binibigay nya ang pinanggagastos ko sa bahay , then yung income ko yun ang savings namin.  Pagna short sa budget, dun ko kinukuha sa income ko..

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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #148 on: June 05, 2017, 11:53:05 pm »
Hi, parehas kami ni hubby may work, naghahati lang kami sa lahat ng expenses yung tira sa sweldo namin para sa amin na maglalagay lang din sa savings.

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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #149 on: June 06, 2017, 11:25:32 am »
Buong sweldo niya binibigay niya sakin  ;D Siya ang binibigyan ko ng allowance HAHA
Kidding aside, my husband is a good provider, at thankful ako sakanya dahil he trusts me enough to do the budgeting. At feel na feel ko naman ang pagiging ilaw ng tahanan dahil doon  ;D

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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #150 on: June 18, 2017, 11:39:34 pm »
Ngayon, binibigay na niya buong salary niya pero humihingi pag kailangan ng pera.  Dapat pala from the very start ito na ang set up para may deterrent from temptation.  Too late, he already crossed that line.

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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #151 on: June 19, 2017, 03:12:44 pm »
Hi, Gtalkers!

Im newbie here & i need some advice and sakto tong thread na to. Im a housewife at wala pa kaming baby. My hubby is working overseas at binibigyan niya lang ako ng budget monthly. If you are a wife without kids, enough na ba 10k sa inyo? Im staying at my parents pero nagbibigay ako sa house rent. Sabihin na natin 5k napupunta sa bills ko ( including internet, house rent, and ref installment) so the other half dun ko kukunin food, personal hygiene/skincare budget, fare (going to church/choir practice) im trying to tipid as much as possible pero bakit nagkukulang pa din 😭 Any advice mga sis, panu pagkasyahin & how to save? Honestly, im a wonder woman.. i wonder where my money went. 😢

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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #152 on: June 19, 2017, 03:34:57 pm »
^Alam mo ba how much kinikita ng husband mo?  Ilang % ba sa sahod niya yung 10k?  (you don't really need to answer this sis  ;D, just think about it)
 reasonable naman ba kung dadagdagan niya yung allowance mo? Kung maluwag naman, you can ask him na dagdagan.

pano ba setup nyo sis, as in yung allowance lang talaga pinapadala sayo? san napupunta ibang pera ng hubby mo? may mga bayarin ba like loans, mortgages etc sino nagmamanage nun? sino nagiipon para sa inyo? alam naman ng hubby mo expenses mo? ineexpect ba niya na makapagipon ka pa sa lagay na yun? nagbibigay ba siya sa family niya? dame kong tanong  ;D  gusto ko lang maliwanagan sis  :)



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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #153 on: June 28, 2017, 05:56:22 pm »
^^Sis di ko sure anong lifestyle mo ah pero kung sa akin kasya na yang 10k lalo na dun ako sa parents ko nakatira. Hindi naman siguro everyday ang pagpunta sa church and choir practice and gaano ba kalayo ang simbahan mula sa inyo?  Sa food share naman kayo ng parents mo, gaano lang naman ang gastos sa groceries ng 3 tao kung share kayo. Sa bigay ng hubby mo parang nagwork ka din na minimum ang wage so kung sa iba napagkakasya nila yun ikaw kaya mo din. Siguro may mga binibili ka lang na di mo napapansin nagaaccumulate na ng budget mo. Try mo envelope or jar system baka magwork sa iyo. Sa ganun kasi nakabukod-bukod na yung budget mo per envelope or jar. Pigilan mo lang yung urge na dumukot sa ibang envelope/jar na may ibang pinaglalaanan na gastos.

Sa akin isa pang ginagawa ko is sakto lang pera ko if papasok ako sa work (if may sobra man konti lang) at wala akong atm na dala.  May nakatabi din ako na budget for 1 cutoff kasama na yung "pa-consuelo for myself budget" tapos kunwari pagsumubra ako sa budget ko today kailangan bumawi ako sa susunod na araw (which means i have to sacrifice something--except for food dapat laging busog, yung mga cravings kung minsan napapalampas ko pa until next cutoff lalo na kung di pasok sa budget ko). Hindi ko rin iniisip na may sobra akong pera.  Ang hirap sa umpisa pero ang sarap ng feeling kapag nakita mo na unti-unti may naitatabi ka or atleast di ka nasho-short sa budget.

Re your hubby's salary sana sis transparent siya sa kinikita niya sa iyo. Ako honestly I wouldn't mind na si hubby naghahawak ng pera kung masinop siya at transparent siya sa kita niya. Aminado naman ako na magastos ako talaga. Si partner ko pa nagturo sa akin magbudget.
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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #154 on: June 29, 2017, 11:44:48 am »
as a husband, I get a piece of my salary (amount, not %) and the rest goes to my wife. just the right way to go.
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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #155 on: August 17, 2017, 10:43:48 pm »
^same with us. But he can use credit card for the rest of his expenses and im the one settling all our bills.

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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #156 on: October 24, 2017, 04:04:48 pm »
^sis crowdnea as in wala kang idea kung magkano ineearn ni hubby mo? Mahalaga na alam mo yun lalo nat magasawa kayo. For me kasya naman yung 10k kung sa parents ko ako titira plus luho.  Depende rin kase sa lifestyle siguro.  Di kase ko matravel at mahilig kumain sa labas kaya magkakasya yan. Nung umalis si hubby ko ng dec jobless din ako. nagiwan sya saken ng 150k pangbudget. Tapos april nako pumunta sa kanya. Nagulat sya na napunta pa sa savings yung 125k. For 4 months 25k lang nagalaw ko kasama na dun yung paglakad lakad ko sa papers ko dito sa pinas at ambag sa groceries sa bahay at transpo ko pag may lakad. Pati nga pambili makeup dun ko kinuha. Hehe. So kaya naman 10k monthly. Ngayung magkasama na kame ni hubby nasaken atm nya pati lahat ng pera nya pero namomonitor nya naman tuwing nagwiwithdraw ako at alam nya pinagbibili ko. Humihingi lang sya saken pera pag may lakad sya. Mas maigi na yun na tayo may hawak pera para iwas din sa pambababae. Pero tiwala naman ako na loyal si hubby.

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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #157 on: October 27, 2017, 10:35:05 am »
Depende yan sa set up ng mag asawa. what work for us ni hubby sya may hawak ng salary nya basta nagsabi lang ako ng amount na dapat nya ilagay sa savings namin ako naman may bukod naman ako savings at excess na pera just in case need ko ng cash but usually card ang gamit ko. Provided naman nya lahat pangangailangan namin mag ina kasama na ang konti luho. Alam ko rin ang in and out ng pera dahil bukod sa ako humahawak lahat ng receipts naka budget na talaga ang salary nya. Kapag mahal ang bibilhin nya gamit nagpapaalam sya bago bumili. Besides very responsible si hubby kaya wala ako dapat problemahin kahit majority ng pera namin sya may hawak.

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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #158 on: November 27, 2017, 12:25:59 am »
No allowance from hubby since I have work and earn my own money.
thing is, we have a common bank account, his and my salary are pooled together. He is the one who manages the finances and pays all bills. Pero, if I want to buy something, I do not need to ask for his permission for as long as it is reasonable. He is the one who pays my credit card bills so nakikita nya magkano ang ginagastos ko.
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Re: How much is your allowance from hubby?
« Reply #159 on: November 28, 2017, 01:36:20 pm »
He gives a portion of his salary to me for household expenses, I wouldn't call it allowance really since we are both actively working.

 


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