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[x-y]

Sige, let me ask the girls who have guy best friends.. What if you realize na crush pala kayo ng super close guy best friend mo? I'm sure it'll be difficult to remain as friends once may na-fall sa inyo.

It was awkward. Mahilig kase akong manuntok, manapak, etc to my guy buddies. When I learned about these guy buddies (dalawa kase sila) who had a crush on me, naging awkward talaga sa part nila kase inaasar na ako na "Uy, kikiligin yan sa suntok mo!" Naging aggravating factor kase nung awkwardness yung pangaasar of those people around us.

Eh ako naman kase, very important sa akin yun friendship so I don't mind the pangaasar pero kase minsan yun guys na yun lumalayo kase nga nahihiya na sila (either for themselves or for me).

Actually nakakamiss yun ganun e. Yun may hangout buddy ka of the opposite sex... Yun hanggang dun lang. Pero kase my friend told me once that I am a sweet person so I'm very likeable daw to some of my guy friends. Nakakaflatter pero ayoko naman ng ganun. Gusto ko yun may guy friend talaga na di pagseselosan ng bf ko. Haha!

[schumine]

Actually nakakamiss yun ganun e. Yun may hangout buddy ka of the opposite sex... Yun hanggang dun lang. Pero kase my friend told me once that I am a sweet person so I'm very likeable daw to some of my guy friends. Nakakaflatter pero ayoko naman ng ganun. Gusto ko yun may guy friend talaga na di pagseselosan ng bf ko. Haha!

Nasa paguusap niyo lang ni bf yun sis para hindi pagselosan, at alam naman tiyak ni bf bago dumating siya sa buhay mo eh nanjan na si guy friend. So i guess its a matter of understanding, trust and respect.

[jtansanco]

^^ Yun din mahirap e. Yung mga teasing ng other friends once nalaman na nagka-crush sayo yung isang guy friend mo. Kahit normal lang, hihirit ng "yiheeeeeeee" and etc.

[schumine]

^
di mahirap yan. basta alam niyo pareho ng guy friend mo kung ano ba stand niyo sa isat isa. Tiyak tatawanan niyo lang yung mga nagtetease sa inyo 

[sacred cow]

When a guy says that he's not conservative, what does this mean?

he's open to casual hookups, he doesn't think it's a big deal to have sex NSA

do guys have lustful thoughts about the girl they are courting?

I think it's a given, attraction is not a choice...unless he finds the girl he's courting to be repulsive. Any guy who says otherwise is either a virgin or thinks that by thinking that he's not having lustful thoughts about a girl he likes would earn him brownie points with girls or both. I know since dumaan din ako sa nice guy phase

Why do tall guys like petite girls. Why, despite their towering height, are they intimidated by tall girls?

It's a preference, besides mas feminine nga naman tingnan ang petite girls and mas mukhang masarap alagaan at protektahan. Personally I also like petite girls as in 4'10 - 5' despite being 5'8, girls 5'4 and above just aren't sexy in my eyes. I'm honestly more intimidated by very pretty girls who are petite than models na kasing height or taller than me na madali lang lapitan at kausapin.

[cute_pompom]

If your gf has the same height as yours, would you tell her not to wear heels?

[jtansanco]

^ Errr... For me, just lessen the times na mag-heels. Clubs, fine. Events/Gatherings, fine. Others, highly discouraged. Haha

[schumine]

regine and ogie ang peg 

[cute_pompom]

Is it normal for a boyfriend not to give flowers or any gift on valentine's day?

[MsBipolar]

I say norma. My bf don't give me flowers during v days.

[cute_pompom]

I say norma. My bf don't give me flowers during v days.

Won't you feel hurt? Like what if the guy doesn't want to celebrate it on the actual day because he doesn't want to be stuck in traffic? Aside from the traffic, it's also crowded in most restaurants. I assume that he did celebrate it with his ex because he mentioned he experienced the inconvenience before.   

[jtansanco]

Is it normal for a boyfriend not to give flowers or any gift on valentine's day?

Normal is flowers and chocolates (because that's what they do in movies) but syempre mahirap na if lagi mag-eexpect yung girl. It's not the material but the thought that counts. Siguro okay lang na hindi magcelebrate during the day itself since it's fully booked everywhere and all. What counts is the effort na he's there to make the moment special with you. You don't need to have a special moment just because it's valentines day. Every moment spent with each other should be special.

[cute_pompom]

Would you still keep photos and letters of your ex-gf? If a guy still keeps those, should the gf be worried?

[jtansanco]

^ I might still keep it just for the sake of having memories of that person but I won't be looking at it anyway. What matters is the present gf.

[jtansanco]

should i be worried na sobrang sweet ni bf? we almost break up kasi dami
niyang reasons before.

Reasons like? Depends e.. Sometimes, bf becomes more sweet when he has done something wrong. On the other hand, it can be just paranoia and he's being sweet to make up with you.

[MsBipolar]

Won't you feel hurt? Like what if the guy doesn't want to celebrate it on the actual day because he doesn't want to be stuck in traffic? Aside from the traffic, it's also crowded in most restaurants. I assume that he did celebrate it with his ex because he mentioned he experienced the inconvenience before.   

wow! You experienced the same thing? I feel hurt actually pero iniignore ko na yung feeling. Before me, he would celebrate v day with his x gfs pero sakin hindi nya magawa. Kesa naman ipilit ko mag,umukha lang akong kawawa. Kahit flowers or card man lang wala akong natatanggap sa bf ko!

[cute_pompom]

wow! You experienced the same thing? I feel hurt actually pero iniignore ko na yung feeling. Before me, he would celebrate v day with his x gfs pero sakin hindi nya magawa. Kesa naman ipilit ko mag,umukha lang akong kawawa. Kahit flowers or card man lang wala akong natatanggap sa bf ko!

Yeah, and it makes me feel sad whenever I remember that. Nakakasama nga ng loob if he celebrated it with his ex. I assumed he did though I never ask him. He just doesn't want to celebrate it on the actual day due to heavy traffic. It's either a pre or post dinner celebration. Same sentiments, it's hard to imply to him that you also want to receive flowers.

[jtansanco]

^ Kasi naman... Nagiging super mahal ang flowers come V-Day. Add it with chocolates and a reservation sa restaurant. Sunog yung bulsa ng guys but can't blame you. It's a special day. Guys should make the effort. It's really the little things in life nga naman..

[jtansanco]

Interesting... Mukhang sobrang big deal pala sa inyong mga girls ang Valentine's Day. Hmmmmmm. Hay.. Kung may date lang sana ako. Haha

[ice angel]

paano ko malalaman na naiinlove na ang guy? kasi ayaw niyang aminin.