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curlylass

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Re: How do you say NO sa mga NANGUNGUTANG sayo?
« Reply #320 on: May 15, 2019, 01:26:25 pm »
I just learned how to say NO. There's nothing wrong, kesa naman masira relationship namin. I just explain na may paglalaanan na yung pera ko and konti na lang cash on hand, enough for my allowance.

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Re: How do you say NO sa mga NANGUNGUTANG sayo?
« Reply #321 on: May 15, 2019, 02:11:12 pm »
I just say na wala talaga akong extra money na pwedeng ipahiram. It gets easier the more you practice it. Nagpapahiram lang talaga ako sa mga taong may "good record", sila yung nanghiram na before saken at natupad ang pangako kung kelan magbabayad.

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Re: How do you say NO sa mga NANGUNGUTANG sayo?
« Reply #322 on: May 16, 2019, 03:03:50 pm »
just say it, walang masama kung ayaw mo at lalong walang masama kung wala ka talaga mapahiram. Mas mahirap pag umoo ka nagpaasa ka sa tao tapos sa huli hindi ka rin magpapahiram.
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Re: How do you say NO sa mga NANGUNGUTANG sayo?
« Reply #323 on: May 16, 2019, 08:17:21 pm »
Kung may extra ako, I don't mind lending money lalo sa kakilala and ka-close.

I know kasi how it feels to have almost nothing kaya ramdam ko yung mga tao kung bakit kinakailangan manghiram.

although hindi ko pa naexperience naman mahiraman ng madalas kasi mukha ata kami dukha ni husband kaya wala masyado nalapit sa amin.

Pero when it becomes a habit na, siguro okay din to say NO na or hindi ibigay full amount.

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Re: How do you say NO sa mga NANGUNGUTANG sayo?
« Reply #324 on: May 16, 2019, 08:32:15 pm »
Mahirap tumanggi if you have money to share, lalo na alam mo na nangangailangan. I just lend the amount i'm willing to lose.
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Re: How do you say NO sa mga NANGUNGUTANG sayo?
« Reply #325 on: July 12, 2019, 09:39:26 pm »
Friends and relatives know na mahirap talaga ako hiraman ng money so i rarely get asked. Nadala na kasi ako one time nagpahiram ako dahil emergency daw pero mababayaran nya sa certain time. So pinahiram ko yung pambayad ng insurance ko. Hindi niya nabayaran sa oras, buti na lang may savings ako so dun ko muna kinuha. Tapos makita kita ko may bagong gadget sa bahay.  >:(

For those na nagi-guilty pag hindi kayo nakapagpahiram, please don't. It's your money so decision mo what to do with it. If it helps,  don't consider your savings/emergency fund 'extra money' para di mo mapautang.

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Re: How do you say NO sa mga NANGUNGUTANG sayo?
« Reply #326 on: July 25, 2019, 11:46:30 pm »
I just say I don't have extra money to spare. Nakakadala na kasi magpautang. Especially those who get in touch lang pag may kailangan tapos hindi marunong magbayad. Kaya nunca! haha

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Re: How do you say NO sa mga NANGUNGUTANG sayo?
« Reply #327 on: July 26, 2019, 09:24:35 am »
^^same tayo.  ;D Overly exposed din kasi ata na talagang I work my ass off para lang magkapera. So nakakahiya lalo na sa mga tatamad tamad. Saka kilalang kuripot ako.
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Re: How do you say NO sa mga NANGUNGUTANG sayo?
« Reply #328 on: July 26, 2019, 11:59:52 am »
^hahaha ako din sis. Kilalang matipid kaya may advantage din :D

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Re: How do you say NO sa mga NANGUNGUTANG sayo?
« Reply #329 on: August 15, 2019, 02:17:34 am »
Pwede sigurong sabihin na inutangan na ng iba yun money. Mas hindi pangit pakinggan, doesn't sound like rejection.

 


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