Will you keep loving someone who will never be yours?

[Serena.]

NO. face reality, WASTE OF TIME!


xxx

[Myealexis21]

Been there, Done that... highschool crush that didn't go away for the longest time ever.  I tried na kalimutan sya pero wala eh, tinamaan talaga ako haha!  Kahit na nung nagka-BF na ako, I know in a way there is that space in my heart na sa kanya lang nakalaan (corny but true!)

Dati nung GF pa lang niya yung wife niya ngayon, andun yung "waiting in line" ako na if ever hindi maging successful yung relationship nila I was hoping na mapansin naman ako.  Pathetic I know.  But that's the truth.  The funny thing is (just realizing that now) papaano kaya mangyayari yun eh hindi ko nga sya kinakausap, and we stopped being close friends long time back simula nung lagi na kaming tinutukso nung mga classmates namin nung highschool.

I think he was my "one that got away" (OTGA)... pero we were never bf/gf so hindi ko rin alam if swak sya sa category ng OTGA. 

Then I got to talk to his mom and she told me na there was a time na nag-break yung anak nia at yung gf.  Tapos parang he was decided to court me, kaso that time may nanliligaw sa akin and I remember introducing them pa nga, and he thought na bf ko na yung guy na inintroduce ko sa kanya.  So to cut the long story short - The universe was not really in our favor, we were really not meant to be. 

Anyways, I think it was several months before I got married.  I got to see him again kase reunion.  We were ok naman, and thankful ako dahil ngayon nag uusap na kami haha! I got over him, well about time na noh! 

Now that the story is done...eto ang point ko. Its ok to love someone kahit na alam mo na hindi sya magiging sa yo, basta from the start accepted mo yan and you know the consequences of your actions and decisions (na masasaktan ka).  And never ever ruin a relationship, if that person is in a relationship, leave them be.  It took me years to finally be over this guy, but I never regretted loving him kahit na hindi naibalik yung pagmamahal na yun sa akin.  That experience taught me a lot, and that is part of who I am right now.

[yengyeng]

Yes.  yun yata ang love eh..

[xtense_15]

uhmm. depende sa level ng love towards that person. meron kasing true love, great love at settling love diba. haha me ganon?

but well, in my opinion, no kung ang objective ko is to look for a partner. syempre kung alam ko naman from the start that that person cannot be mine, why pursue him diba? plus what if another guy comes along, unfair kasi we wouldnt be able to like/love him completely (in case that someone was given a chance) dahil yung feelings natin eh naka-laan sa ibang tao diba.

[pinkberries]

I'm beginning to love this married guy.  Although he's allowed to marry 4 times, I don't wanna be his 2nd.    So maybe yes, i will keep loving him, hanggang siguro sa mapagod ako.

[dkbgutierrez]

Wag na lang no! Pahirapan ko lang sarili ko... Madami pa dyan, look around 

[bucketsale]

Nice topic... it will really make you wonder...

[jtansanco]

I tried but, after 2 years, I've decided to give it up.

[bollin_pop]

Dadating ka sa point talaga na ikaw na ang mag 'give up'.

[deity13]

ang hirap, naawa din ako sa guy, i know he deserves someone better, so much better. and i feel like he's stuck with me. pero hndi daw. ginusto nya to. paninindigan nya for as long as paninindigan ko rin. i asked him, kung hanggang kelan. he said he's fully aware na may hangganan din to. and it hurt me like hell. ayoko, wag ngayon. wag muna. wag sana.
though i know there will come a time that i have to let go  of him. i just dont know how and when. but i will.. someday. but for now, i will enjoy the moment and make it last until it can still last.. i love my bebe

[froggy21]

Yes, hanggang ngayon love ko pa din siya kahit na alam ko naman na kahit ano gawin ko hindi niya ako magugustuhan, masyado kasing mababa ang tingin niya sa akin, hindi ko mahihigitan yung type niyang girl, masyadong mataas ang standard niya, tapos lahat pa ng bad side ko napapansin mo, lagi niya ako pinupuna. Tapos ngayon lilipat na siya ng work sa malayong lugar, hindi ko alam Kung Makakaya kong maka move on, lalo lahat sa work ineexpect na magiging kami. Ano Gagawin ko? 

[ajtee]

I'm not sure when the feeling would go away but I'm decided to let go and move forward. Just recently I bid farewell to this guy. I know it's hard, but I have accept that there will never be an 'us'. I have to heal and respect myself. I got my heart broken before already so I know that one day everything will make sense - because it did for my first heart break. Maybe I will cry and go down the memory lane for a few weeks, but now the only way is to move forward. So I hope you girls will too! Love yourself and the love you deserve will eventually come your way.

[ieiky]

Sobrang tragic ng love story ko, pero nag-give up den ako eventually.
Hindi ko sinasabi na it's not worth it. Naging happy ako during mahal ko pa siya.. Hanggang ngayon naman he still occupies a big part of my heart/life. Hindi na yata yun mawawala. Pero kusa ka atang mapapagod talaga. You'll just know that it's time to move on.

[angelzero]

may time na gusto mo lang magpakalunod sa feeling ng unrequited love. then you just get tired of it at some point and try your best to move on.

[sxymnky]

Saludo ako sa mga babaeng tulad nyo

[bucketsale]

Interesting topic!

[paulina19]

Its been 4 years now, Im still inlove with this german guy I met in Palawan.. I just love him silently in my heart while doing all the priorities in my life..like my kids and earnig more for my retirment.  One day I know in Gods own time..if we are really for each other..nothing can beat what God had planned for us.. Keep My faith to Somebody Upthere   Not waiting, but praying hard 

[ice angel]

i won't! it's just waste of time and energy loving someone who will never be mine.

[honeylet04]

Trying to fight this feelings i have for him right now. He's my bestfriend and a married man. Last night he started to say I love you. Hindi ko naman pwede iwasan kasi he has big part of my business. Gusto ko umiwas pero hindi maiwasan. But one thing for sure mas pipiliin ko na masaktan ngayon habang hindi pa totally emotionally attached kesa ma fall ako deeply I need to save myself hanggat maaga pa. 

[ice angel]

you're right try to safe yourself from falling deeply to him. dont be a homewreaker. try to separate business with love talks