Will you keep loving someone who will never be yours?

[lenjeearroyo24]

masakit, kahit alam mo wala kang karapatan masaktan. pero nararamdaman mo nagkataon nagkakaunawaan kayo, pero hindi niyo pa napaguusapan. may nararamdaman ka para sa kanya at sayo sapat na yun para ituring mo sayo siya. mahirap ang mahal na mahal mo ang isang tao na sa puso'y isip inangkin mo na siya, at tapos hindi naman pala para sayo. masakit, pero wala kang magagawa!

[Huntress Krystle]

Kahit mahirap, no. Kasi alam kong wala ding patutunguhan at kinakawawa ko lang sarili ko. Isi-share ko nalang sa iba yung pagmamahal/concern ko. Dun sa mas nangangailangan. 

[tey_roch19]

Ndi na lang ang tamang sagot, kaso bakit ang hirap. 

[xRylaine]

no, kailangan ko magmove-on, hindi lang siya ang lalaki sa mundo na pwede kong mahalin..

[cosmic girl]

no

oo mahal ko sya but mas mahal ko sarili ko

[tealover]

It would not be a good idea to do this, and hope for a happy ever after.  Love yourself, then you will meet someone who will deserve the love you have to give.

[michipoo]

maybe yes pero not for too long. for sure dadating yung time na marerealize mo na hindi siya ang para sayo kaya eventually feeling will fade away.

[prettysimple]

yes and i am "still" secretly in love with him for more than 6years. nung una hindi ko maintindihan kung saan ako lulugar, feeling ko may gusto sya sa akin.. lagi s'ya tumatawag, nagtetext, we go out... he's sweet. gusto ko na s'ya that time... mahal ko na sya. then for some months hindi sya nagparamdam, nabalitaan ko nalang na may nabuntis s'ya and nagsasama na sila. minsan nagmeet kami, mukha s'yang hindi masaya pero ano magagawa ko? sinubukan ko s'ya kalimutan, nagkaboyfriend ako pero hindi nagwork... s'ya parin ang mahal ko. wala na kaming communications and nasasaktan ako, siguro gusto na n'yang magfocus sa family na. mali at masakit, ako na ang t****! pero mahal ko parin s'ya.

[dulcette]

no, baka crush pwede pa, hihi 

[crazycoolchic19]

No na this time, Di ko dapat pahirapan sarile ko.may mga bagay na hinde para sayo at kahit ipilit matatapos at matatapos lang din, masasaktan ka lang

[iwannabeasupermodel]

now i'm sure. NO. actually you can choose to not love someone.

[cinco girl]

I agree with sis iwannabeasupermodel. It always starts with a decision. To be happy or to perpetuate suffering is a choice.

[Noylabmay]

never....relationship that hurts is truly a waste of time

Mas masaya kung devoted sayo ang mahal mo

[tey_roch19]

never....relationship that hurts is truly a waste of time

Mas masaya kung devoted sayo ang mahal mo

~very well said sis.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

yes. look at me. i chose not to. kasi it will be very difficult. now i actually feel better, no pressure. friends na lang kami. when i let it go, that's when it all became right, things flowed easily.

[purplecheesecake]

NO. Don't settle and always tell yourself that I approve of myself so I deserve better 

[mishyewarians]

Yes! May next life naman e.

[jamien]

yes. mahirap kasi kalaban ang nararamdaman.

[wifeynikawin]

ouch! i am just recovering from this kind of situation. i think it is just a phase. sometimes kahit kasi we think okay na tayo, me times talaga na mag dadalawang isip tayo kung yung life natin ngaun or the person we are with ay sha na forever.

[prettylalaine]

sometimes di maiiwasan. but at some point, you have to let go. you must.