Will you keep loving someone who will never be yours?

[the_dreamer]

how i wish ganun kadali to let go...

[jenger109]

Yes..

[anjeology]

A big NO  Been there! Done that!
Kayo lang din masasaktan sis!

[teejiko]

I used to...but then I got tired.. taon din yun pero talagang hanggang dun lang eh

[mharickar]

maybe yes... kala ko naka-move on na ko, then nagkita kami ulit after 7 months na parang walang nagbago.. then yun, na-fall na naman ako.. kainis talaga.. tapos may nakita kong pix,may karga syang bata, tapos may isa pa.. ano yun anak nya?? kaya medyo emote ako ngayon..

pero sakin yes.. mananawa din siguro ko, pero i don't know kung hanggang kelan...

[shineadet]

no!

[kiz_me1109]

To love as a friend nalang siguro. =) Mahirap umasa. Mas masakit yun. I have a friend na akala ko things will work out between the 2 of us. Pero daming nangyayari and lagi nauudlot. When I got married with my husband naisip ko na baka we are really not meant for each other. I don't love him anymore kasi bad yun. hehe But I still care for him. And I really want him to find the right girl for him para maging happy na siya. =)

[Emmaraide]

Naku wag na. Life is short. Sayang time. Makaka move on ka rin naman sooner or later.

[naturallyposh]

it's a choice, actually. i've been in that situation and it was hard. but i chose to move on as in completely stop all communication. i never replied to his texts or answered his calls. i deleted updates from facebook. whenever i get sad and tempted to answer his calls, i just think of how far i've gotten.. i wouldn't waste it and go back to square one.

right now, i'm happy! life is too short to waste on someone who doesn't even care you exist!

[megansmomma]

loving him? oo siguro kase magsasawa din yun puso ko. mananawa din, siguro silent feelings nalang

[ms.j]

I've been there before, and nakaka pagod umasa sa wala, hindi maganda sa pakiramdam, and later on darating ka sa turning point ng buhay mo na masasabi mo sa sarili mo na let go, tama na kasi masakit na..hayy and maiisip mo na you deserve someone better who will not treat you as an option, kundi ikaw ang priority at pinahahalagahan, mangyayari lang yun kung mag lelet go ka, LOVE SHOULD BE MUTUAL.

[theanonymous]

loving in a way na obsessed ka na? NO. loving in a sense na siya gusto mo mahalin ka rin niya? NO. loving him to the point na may nasasaktan na? still NO. but loving him only because you think the feeling is still there? why not. you can love a person without him completely being aware about it. that's your choice anyway.

[wifeynikawin]

Haha! funny.kaka get over ko lang. i call that phase my "single most painful thought". kasi lagi akong naiiyak whenever I think about the person. I had to leave my previous company para magkaroon ako ng new environment kasi wala na rin siya doon, i just want to change everything para makalimot. pero i figured natutunan na rin niya akong kalimutan which is great at happy ako about it.

[megansmomma]

I am on this page now
but I love my husband so much.
maybe i am just confuse, soon ill get over this. 

[wifeynikawin]

I am on this page now
but I love my husband so much.
maybe i am just confuse, soon ill get over this. 

same here... love ko rin yung husband ko. i even tried to to tell him before kasi super na bother ako. pero he is such a great husband, as he tried to understand what was going on sa akin. pero i must admit it made him feel insecure. i guess okay na naman ngayon kasi nga healed na ang heart ko and i know now who stayed with me and who truly loves me.

[anttony]

you try not to but eventually, you still do.

[i_v_y]

i would like to believe that i have been in this situation for 10 years. i am still in love with this guy who i know will never be completely mine. but hindi ako obsessed with the feeling, i have been married and separated and once or twice in a year for 10 years, nagkakausap kami through chat and phone and everytime we do that, the intensity of our feelings for each other is still there up to this day.

like what sis theanonymous said, loving kasi the feeling is still there, that's where i am.  hindi ako umaasa, hindi ako nagdedemand.

[megansmomma]

good for you wifenikawin

as for me? i dont know anymore haha! loving him yes silently but be obsessed? no
good thing we're thousand miles away from each other 

[MaitaOfMakeupOnDemand]

I have never been someone who would keep loving someone who will not commit to me. If I had strong feelings for someone who didn't feel the same way, I just let myself go through the motion of those feelings until they die. While I'm doing that, I distract myself with other things and other people. If they won't commit to me, they don't deserve to have me love them.

[marzvlros35]

Nope, it will be hard to keep on loving the person wherein hindi naman pala mnagiging sayo. You are just wasting your time on that emotion. Better to move on and enjoy life, rather than dwelling on that feeling. Besides, if you are into another relationship, it will be unfair to your new partner if you still love the other one diba?