to all married...if given a chance would you choose to become single again???

[jie1015]

sometimes.
i was 21 when i got married.
my husband was 35 back then.

and for almost 6 years now, hindi pa rin kami nabibigyan ng child.

mula ng ikasal kami hindi ako nag work kasi ayaw niya.

nagpaka homemaker ako, doing all the wife stuff. hindi naman ako nagreklamo kasi i'm happy to do them dahil nga mahal ko siya. sabi ko for as long as happy siya at mahal niya ako, gagawin ko lahat ng gusto niya.

he doesn't want me to meet with my friends, ginawa ko.
he doesn't want me to go malling, ginawa ko.
gusto niya i-massage ko siya everyday, ginawa ko. kahit pa minsan hindi maganda pakiramdam ko.

i was stuck in his house, pero i convinced myself that it's okay.
for as long as he's happy.
ang principle ko: "Mahal ko, why not"

pero kulang pa rin pala ang lahat ng mga ginawa ko.
kasi he cheated on me. and talagang nasaktan ako.
kasi ginawa ko na lahat. nawala na ang sarili kong identity. kinalimutan ko na ang personal na pangarap ko. all for him.
and what do i got in return?

a husband who has a girlfriend.
a husband who physically and verbally abuses me.

i don't regret marrying him and doing all those stuff for him kaya lang with what happened
i can't help it.

[KaraVT]

No. Where I am is a natural progression of my life.  It is the outcome of all the decisions and choices I have made to-date.

[cabbagepatch]

minsan naiisip ko din yan panu kung single pa ko [textspeak!] ganyan,[textspeak!] ganun...
pero having a family i can call MINE..is priceless..kaya no more regrets...

[joanne sonsi]

Yes, i miss myself so much.. 

[stormy_princess]

Yes, i miss myself so much.. 

i second the motion sis. sana may anak na lang ako at di na nag-asawa. dagdag pasanin ko pa tuloy emotionally:(

[babyphat]

same with stormy_princess. single nalang sana na may anak.

[FayeP]

to all married...if given a chance would you choose to become single again???

- hindi, masarap pala maging Mrs. eh at maging mommy...but I guess kung napunta ako sa walang kwentang lalaki na nagpapalungkot lang sakin, malamang magsisi ako at i-wish ko na sana dalaga pa din ako at di nagpakasal...

my hubby is not perfect but we are happy together and eventhough mahirap dahil nagsisimula pa lang kami, we are trying to be our best selves for each other....

[sasha``]

Would you choose to become single?

YES.  but i would still choose to love him.  ang gusto ko lang ay ang magkaroon ng maraming panahon sa family at relatives. since i got married, hindi ko na sila nabibisita ng madalas. 

[[-c-h-a-]]

my answer is still NO. I can't imagine my life without my other, sometimes better, half.

I don't know what I will do without him. And coming fron a very independent person, this means a LOT.

[axlrocksmyworld]

YES!.. pinagsisisihan ko na nagpakasal ako pero HINDING HINDI ko pagsisisihan na nagkaanak ako 

[mamapeew]

No. I love my hubby and i love our daughter and i can't imagine my life without them and at my age, if I'm still single, I'd probably be lost. Di ko lam san ako pupulutin because my hubby and baby are the ones who gave direction to my life.

[mommyleigh]

sometimes nagsisisi ako lalo na pag nagaaway kami ni hubby at sa tuwing sinasaktan nya ko..38 weeks pregnant ako ngayon parang gusto ko na sya isoli sa family nya tutal sila naman ang priorities nya ..pero hindi ko magawa..siguro ayoko lang mawalan ng ama ang magiging anak ko...kakaawa naman..

[ayami]

hindi haha. well, di ako nakapagdalaga gaano kasi at 20 kinasal na ako. hindi na rin kasi ako nagkaroon ng iba pang boyfriend since 15 years old ako. first and last ko sya so di ko alam ang feeling ng may ex-boyfriend, break-up, cool off, etc. Minsan I keep on wondering pano kaya kung nagkaroon pa ko ng ibang bf or nagsplit kami. Pero ngayon I think I'm in the best position I could ever be. Nagkaroon pa ko ng mababait at supportive na in-laws and an larger family (only child kasi ako)

[a_y_e_n]

tempting... hahaha! pero NO. i love being a wife and a mother. feeling ko mas nagkaron ng direction at sense buhay ko nung nagkaroon ako ng responsibility tulad nito.

[midorimd]

No. At times pag nagaaway kami, I feel like I'd be happier being single but when I really think about it, I love that I'm half of a great partnership. And we still get to pursue our dreams. I got married at 22 but there was no pressure from my husband to start a family immediately. People always assume that we got married because I got pregnant or something like that, but no. We just wanted to start spending our lives together. 

[hazeldust]

ako po medyo..wala pa kasi talaga sa plan namin na mag asawa eh..ang dami ko pang gustong bilhin and gawin..medyo naging boring din kasi ang life ko dati kaya di ko totally na enjoy maging single kasi i focus more sa pag aaral..

[babypinkelle]

big YES. anak ko lang kukunin ko. hahah

SAME HERE! 

[bucketsale]

SAME HERE! 

oh my!! not so good to hear..pero i hope naman masaya kayo dahil my baby kayo na nagpapasaya sa inyo.. well ako honestly, maybe yes and maybe not ang sagot ko.. i'm happy pero iba talaga pag may responsibilidad ka na dami nagbabago sa buhay mo...

[m_lim]

no. mas masaya ako ngayon kesa nung di pa kasal. thank you Lord!

[angelita]

yes.