Author Topic: to all married...if given a chance would you choose to become single again???  (Read 79604 times)

mom_G

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Re: to all married...if given a chance would you choose to become single again???
« Reply #140 on: September 23, 2011, 04:15:11 am »
i would not change a thing.  no marriage is perfect but i am lucky to have a husband who is determined to make it work :)

prettyjuls

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Re: to all married...if given a chance would you choose to become single again???
« Reply #141 on: September 23, 2011, 06:45:00 pm »
nope .. masaya ang married life ko kc noon pa man pinagsawaan ko  na ang maging single .. [textspeak!] at my age nadin .. once na pumasok kna sa married lifesytle mu kailangan maging happy kna :)

miss resilient

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Re: to all married...if given a chance would you choose to become single again???
« Reply #142 on: September 28, 2011, 10:10:31 pm »
why not??? para masaya...hahaha!

masaya din naman kahit married na. pero pag single kasi wala kang pinagpapaalaman sa mga lakad ganon..

Kady_14

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Siguro if I'm married to someonelse, pero para kasing BF ko lang din si hubs, magulo kami and we've been friends for so long.

I miss him if we're not together, kahit days or even one week lang, at ganun din sya. Kaya nung HS pa kami sinukuan na kami ng parents namin. Siguro sabi nila, wala na tayong magagawa sa mga yan, nahibang na sa isa't-isa. Hindi na mapigilan at mapaghiwalay eh. Na-inlab.

ecnarfoj

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Yes.. basta i'd still end up with my husband. Gusto ko lang muna sana maka-ipon before starting a family. Plus, more time to help my parents. :)

lulay17

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Maybe yes, I'm not saying di ko love husband ko, pero I feel kasi na wala natitira sakin eh. Kung wala lang ako kids, I'd go for being single muna. I'd like to have something for myself. Pag iniisip ko nga na ganun, feeling ko naman selfish ako for not giving into my wants .. Ang hirap lang kasi minsan andami ko gusto bilihin, pero dami naman ibang financial obligations. Yun mga anak ko, gusto ko mabilhan ng gamit pero andami nga ibang pinag gagastusan. I know sometimes he does want to give me all I want, pero sa status namin ngayon mahirap so di nalang niya siguro ginagawang pag usapan yun mga ganung bagay. Pero siyempre nakakasama kasi ng loob minsan na di ko magawa yung mga gusto ko. Unfair naman siguro na hingin ko yun mga bagay na alam ko di pa niya kaya ibigay... pero sometimes simpleng pambili lang na stuff na pang kids... kahit igala man lang yun anak namin once a week wala pa... Gusto ko maging single kasi it would be easier for me to pursue a job and do my own thing only thinking about my kids.  :-[

heart-shapedbullet

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NO. He's my amazing grace and being with him is a blessing.

mrs.S.

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No, for me na enjoy ko na ang being ang pagiging single. I am happy with where i am now. I may not have a lot of free time in my hands now but i still find time to pamper myself. I find it hard to imagine now going home to an empty house, wala kang kasalo for dinner or nobody to cook for, or having nobody to share how your day went. With what my single friends are telling me sa downside of being single, i dont want to go back being single again.
« Last Edit: January 17, 2012, 06:11:07 am by mrs.S. »

sashae

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In my case I really miss my life when I was still single, it's more on like my only problem is all about "ME". Which is very different once you get married and specially pag may kids na.. you would think less of yourself na talaga,. So I always advise my single friends specially to the younger ones, to enjoy their life being single, I guess that's the key to enjoy/love your married life, cause I think I was able to enjoy mine, so I have NO regrets at all, I just miss it and thats all, I would never ever wish to become single again, cause now that I am married and I'm a mother I can say that I have a reason to strive harder in life, they give me reason to smile, laugh and of course sometimes cry. But it's all worth it, cause at the end of the day, I know that there is a house full of people you love waiting for you.  :-* So beautiful ladies don't be afraid to get married, cause it doesn't mean that you would be a slave or something, well, in my case I still go on a date (with my husband ofcors), go to the spa, party with my friends and go shopping, but of course I know my limitations. :) love love love
« Last Edit: January 17, 2012, 06:29:46 am by sashae »

pumpkin

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NO, ang gwapo ng anak namin bat pa ako magtry sa iba.

cosmochick

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No, I love being a spoiled and pampered wifey!

ri-anne

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naahhh, wouldn't want it any other way.... i'm happy as it is   :)

mimii

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no. im perfectly happy and contented with my life now. i prayed for this, to just have an almost perfect boyfriend na ngayon naging husband ko pa. but one thing is for sure after getting married tapos nagaway kayo ng matindi maiisip mo talaga na sana hindi ka muna nagpakasal, pero at the end of the day masaya pa din ako sa piling ng asawa ko. iniisip ko kasi na sa mga pagsubok kami ang dapat magkakampi dahil kami ang magasawa.  :)

shey_danda

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yes...wala akong regrets na sila nakasama ko bilang pamilya ko,,pero mas gugustuhin ko siguro maging single ..bka mas maganda at maayos kmi right now..at ms tamang mag isip..kung mas mahaba [textspeak!] panahon na naenjoy namin na single pa muna kmi..

staywithme

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No, sa stage na to ng buhay ko, kuntento at masaya kahit long distance kami. Na-enjoy ko na pagiging single, graduate na ko sa phase na yun. :)

diamondapril01

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sometimes yes, sometimes no. but eventually my answer would be no. YES kasi namimiss ko din ang pagiging single ko. NO kasi masaya ako kasi lagi ko kasama si hubby, gumigising ako na sya ang katabi ko and hindi na text ang goodmorning and morning kiss nya sa akin, ramdam ko na...   ;D and besides, i still feel single kahit married na ko since i don't have a kid yet kaya pwede pa gumimik, bait naman si hubby e.  ;D

Analene3

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NO. I'm happy I found him, couldn't have found the right man if it werent him. I know that I've gotten pregnant by accident and wasn't prepared for a life together but then he showed me he cares for me. A year after giving birth, we got married. Although, there's A LOT of flaws in our marriage, and we have different views, we still manage to keep both ends meet. We both like the same things and we enjoy it.  :-*

ldrwifey

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Re: to all married...if given a chance would you choose to become single again???
« Reply #157 on: February 03, 2012, 11:25:39 am »
yes...

ang daming factors na dapat naisip namin, like susmaryosep its faster to petition a fiance than a husband!!!!  ;D kidding aside, parang nagmadali din kasi kami, and ang mali ko pumayag naman ako, now i know in my heart na dapat nag antay p kami ng konti... pero sigurado naman ako n siya p rin ang gusto kong makasama for the rest of my life  ;)

Paperless

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Re: to all married...if given a chance would you choose to become single again???
« Reply #158 on: February 03, 2012, 02:34:58 pm »
No naman, kahit super hirap ng situation ko now.

babyfrancine

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Re: to all married...if given a chance would you choose to become single again???
« Reply #159 on: February 03, 2012, 05:34:53 pm »
No. I am happy and very contented of what I have now. It's fun to be a mom and wife! Though, there are some circumstances that makes you wanna give up, but at the end of that, you just realize how lucky you are to have these things around you. Some people spend their whole lives just to be married and have kids! Just be grateful for everything, and I am!

 

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