Author Topic: to all married...if given a chance would you choose to become single again???  (Read 79418 times)

sistah!

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No.freaking.way!

I love being married. Ive been married for 5 months after a long and difficult time of having a long distance relationship with my then boyfriend now husband. At dahil magkasama kami sa house at wala pa kaming kids, I feel almost like we are at that new bf-gf stage. We travel, go out of time, enjoy dinner together almost every night. We shop a lot and to answer our need to nurture, we just got a dog.

Babies will come, maybe sooner rather than later, im sure. For now, I love being married and can't imagine or see any reason why I would ever want to be single and without him ever again.

phurple0515

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I love my life with my hubby, each single day with him, saya!  We are living abroad so ang tendency, when we go back to Pinas for a week (kasi yon lang allowed namin sa work namin na off), we go our separate ways, me to my parents house, ganon din siya.  Pero sa span ng stay namin sa Pinas, we still go out (parang nagdadate), he comes sa bahay and vice versa.  kaya parang single tuloy, hehe.  Kaya ang nangyayari pag balik abroad, ako si super nahohomesick...

moonchild117

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ako hindi na. nag-enjoy naman ako sa buhay single noon, when i got married i was already 28 and was ready to take the plunge with my husband (then bf of almost 6 years). tsaka kahit may baby na, we still take time to enjoy the things na nagagawa namin before like watch a movie or makipagkita with friends, pero syempre mas less na. i guess it helps that our sets of friends are also married na rin, or karamihan sa kanila may pamilya na.

minsan mami-miss mo talaga yung pagiging single, lalo na kung laging nakatuon ang atensyon at oras sa family lang. like what my married friend told me during the first month of my marriage, take time na mag-date kami ng asawa ko at least once in a while. di rin masama ang magkaroon ng "me" time paminsan-minsan. that's what we do kaya kahit paano oks ang married life namin at hindi namin hinahangad na maging single ulet. :)

longing

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i enjoyed being single then pero with the things happening in my married life, i wish hindi na ako nagpakasal.  sana single na lang ako and will not deal with a legal separation/annulment eventually.

glamorosa_09

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^kalungkot naman yan sis...


I maybe bad, kung alam ko lang na di gano effective ang NFP, hindi muna ako magpapakasal. But anyways, I realized pwede ko pa rin namang iexpand at iimprove ang business namin at any stage of my life, yun nga lang medyo madedelay muna...

pero with regards to my hubby... I made the decision na sya ang gusto kong makasama habang buhay. Kaya walang sisihan sa huli... hehe... pero sobrang bait, pasensyoso at mapagmahal nito saken...

myerah

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a big YES!  ;D hindi kasi ako masaya sa hubby ko eh, pero sa mga anak ko masaya ako LOL

kettlekorn28

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NO. I cant and I wont. I cant imagine living without him.

isbuko

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NO...am so blessed to have a wonderful husband :-*

dyeelan

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I`m happy and contended with my married life right now. Ako rin I can`t imagine living with other guy aside from my husband  :D. Before I got married na enjoy ko na naman single life ko and sya din. And kahit married na naman pwede pa rin lumabas with friends yun nga lang limited na rin kasi as married person we should know our priorities pero it doesn`t necessary mean na di ka na lalabas with your friends  :D. Excited na ako sa paglabas ng first baby namin in 2 weeks time! And uuwi si hubby from abroad!  :)

BAISANAN

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me yes.........if it could turn back time nga lang......as the years goes by lumalabas ang incompatibility namin.......

jennyg

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I'm really happy with my life now being married. its just so fulfilling, i can do a lot and almost everything with my hubby. maybe the thing is he never made me feel like "hey you're married now so do this and that.." he just respects everything i want to do and so supportive.

thebratinella

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yes. i will not give him the time of day. life would be a breeze.

aybhi

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yes, para mas na prepare ko pa sarili kong maging emotionally ready.  but i'm happy naman with my married life kung pwede lang ba mabalik nakaraan.  ;D

kurengkeng

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NO. in fact, we just celebrated our 10th year last week through a simple church wedding ceremony. i love my married life. i love it even more as i have two wonderful and smart kids...

bluewinkle

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No. I love being married.  There are some things I miss, like being able to travel often.  But while I have the option to travel by myself, it's not as much fun without him.

xiansmom

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nope..super happy ako with hubby and baby.
minsan lang ang mamimiss ko yung
time sa sarili mag ayos ng matagal,
matagal sa salamin,
matagal maligo,
kasi now madalian lahat dahil kay baby.

chrlxmyot

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ako YES pero only para matapos muna ko sa studies ko and makapagwork at ma-enjoy ko being single kasi i got married at a very young age so hindi ko nagawa yun though natapos ko pa din naman studies ko kahit may mga anak na ako...  ;)

goddessjem

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No.I love being married kahit may kulang pa sa amen. mas maganda kung gawin na yung mga bagay bagay hanggang single ka pa. para once na nag asawa na, focuse na sa buhay may asawa. ;)

[-c-h-a-]

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NEVER. My husband completes me.

mikaeladj

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nope! :)  kasi i think i had made the right decision naman kasi,  :D  i'm am very much happy and contented with my husband and my 2 kids... there are times na di ko magawa yung mga dati kong ginagawa pero ok lang dinidivert ko na lang yung attention ko sa mga anak ko and ok naman....working naman....

 

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