How do you know if a girl is interested in you?

[mameejhy]

How? Simple. Mas makulit pa yung girl makipag usap kesa dun sa guy. XD

Hahaha...

[ChocoCat]

This is quite hard especially for me because I usually get misinterpreted by guys.
I'm a shy but very talkative and cheerful girl (ironic?).  I'm very shy and so I'm rarely the first one to talk to a person but when I meet someone whom I can chat with for hours, I will chat with him for hours until we become buddies or friends and up to the point that I will be willing to hang out with him BUT it doesn't mean I like him. I'm makulit when I talk and I like humor, I like talking about fun and happy ideas and anything under the sun but I would rarely talk about love and I rarely ask for personal information because that's too serious for me.
Unfortunately some guys misinterpret it thinking I like them when I talk to them a lot until they'd ask me out on a date to which I then refuse... Am I bad?
It's hard because I really like talking to people though what I do if I don't like the guy in a romantic way and he starts talking about love, I try to answer briefly or provide discouraging answers and then change the topic. I also try to avoid eye contacts and any physical contact.
If I do like a guy and he starts a topic about love or relationships, I will respond in an encouraging way and maybe if he shares stuff about his personal life, I will also share some of mine and ask more about his life which shows that I'm interested in him which I would usually not do to just any guy.

[argento]

^girls love guys who won't easily give up.

hindi rin 

[sacred cow]

Actually ok lang yun ma busted go lang ng go. Kung gusto mo talaga yung babae wag mong sukuan. Base on my experience, I've been courting this girl for almost 11 months and I've got rejected twice. Pero after ilang days after nun 2nd rejection biglang nagkagusto na rin sya. Dahil napagisip isip nya na sobrang tyaga ko sa kanya. And mostly kasi kapag nareject yung iba susuko na agad. Anyway msyadong subjective to, depende na rin talaga sa girl siguro.

thanks but no thanks, I'd rather have a girl like me from the start instead of pagpipilitan ko sarili ko sa ayaw sa akin or "mapag-isip isip" niya na magsettle with me. love is not something na dapat maisip mo na 'uy, dito na lang ako...antiyaga niya kasi sa akin e..I might not meet someone who'd love me more"

I'd rather work on developing myself into a better person na attractive sa opposite sex (build better social skills, self confidence, dress better, keep myself fit, build a stable career) rather than spend the time "courting" a girl for a year without any assurance na makukuha ko siya. sure, my plan of bettering myself also is not 100% guaranteed na may magkakagusto sa aking girl, but at least assured ako na I'm a better person than a year ago. and if a girl would like me, at least alam ko na gusto niya ko for what I am and not for my pambobola/panunuyo.

masyadong approval seeking din kasi yung panliligaw, siyempre iiwasan mong gumawa ng mga bagay na hindi niya magugustuhan kaya you can never be 100% authentic. tapos kapag naging kayo, magtataka si girl kung bakit nagbago si guy...ang 'di niya alam lumabas lang yung tunay na ugali ni guy. so it's like, you're promoting na yung pinaka consistent mambola/magbalat kayo ang makakakuha sa inyo, and yet you wonder bakit andaming manloloko.

Isa pang takot ko sa ganyan kung ako yung manligaw ng matagal at matutunang mahalin ni girl, I would always think at the back of my mind that she only feels affection for me and kulang ang attraction. It would only take a guy that she's really attracted to (not necessarily looks), to steal her away from me. nga nga na lang ako pag nagkataon. It's just like girls being afraid of their guy meeting another girl (usually with better looks), especially if alam ni girl that hindi siya ganun kaganda sa bf niya. at least kung alam mong satisfied sa'yo partner mo sa simula, mas hindi ka maiinsecure.

but still props parin kay leannael, alam ko isang line lang isasagot niya sakin

"doesn't matter, had sex" hahaha...joke lang pre

[Yes Man]

Paano kapag lagi ka niyayaya na lumabas after work or yun nag present samahan ka sa mga errands mo... Tapos lagi ka tinatanong kugn sasabay ka ba pauwi sa kanya kahit iba route mo?

[hushkirby]

^type ka nya or you're the male bestfriend

[Yes Man]

^ Hmmm kakakilala lang namin like two weeks ago, then last week nag umpisa yang pag yaya kada uwian or yun magtatanong na "san ka punta?" tapos magkunwari pang tatampo dahil diko daw siya niyayaya na sumama.

[simang]

^you're a guy right? Ibang klase talaga mag flirt ang mga babae, hindi mo talaga masasabi directly if she likes you. Pwede kasing type ka nya, and she's flirting, pwede din kase flirt sya by nature and she does this with new acquaintances, pwede din na she's nagpapacute lang.

You can't really tell, unless you ask her out for an official date maybe and get to know her. Question is -- do you like her?

[Yes Man]

^ Well honestly I'm starting to, I must admit I get attached really fast lalo na't nun past days na kasama niya ko lagi. Co-worker ko siya, she's just a few steps away from my cubicle. Nagkakatext din kami, kahapon maghapon magkatext, nahahapyawan namin yun topic ng anong want niyang guy. I just can't figure out if she's joking or if she's serious. Palabiro kasi siya, kaya medyo nahihirapan ako kung seryoso ba sinasabi niya...

Yun bandang gabi nagkausap kami about sa lakad this week na baka di siya makasama kasi gabi na so I said na "Hatid kita kasi gabi na yun and para may assurance ang dad mo no safe ka." Tapos sabi niya "Hahaha.. Ikaw bahala trip mo yan." Then I asked her, "Bakit ikaw ano ba trip mo?" Sabi niya "Ikaw, hahaha"

Asked her bakit ako, sabi niya banat lang daw yun.

 

[oshiawase]

I'm a girl pero i am not the showy type. I don't flood the guy I like with text messages but when I do see him, i give my special smile, eye contact, and the likes. I dunno how guys usually interpret those.

[cecilydee]

honestly turn off sa akin ang guy na nagtatanong kung like ba ako or hindi ng girl na to. Guys, job ninyo ang mag pursigi hindi mag paka segurista lol. kung binanatan kana ni girl na trip ka niya sabay sabi niya joke lang yun. aba banatin mo rin ng ikaw din e type kita. wrong answer ang "ano ibig mong sabihin" parang pa girl ang sagot eh. naninigurado pa.

[simang]

^^if i were the girl, i'd have to say i like you kung ganyan ako makipagusap sayo. Pag ganyan ako makipag usap, i'm flirting and sending you the signals that i'm interested

[Yes Man]

Aww... Hmm so I kinda made the wrong move? Ugh. Total newbie ako sa ganito, I've never had a girl do this to me before. My ex kasi hindi siya ganito.

[simang]

^relax ka lang just be yourself, show her you like her, kung ano man gawin nya in return, appreciate that. Make her fall for you if you really do like her, don't overthink it.

[cecilydee]

^^sa ganong klaseng conversation, ang dapat bumabanat e yung guy. in my opinion, always have the mindset na siya yung mabibigla sayo instead of siya nambibigla. kita mo nabigla ka nung binanatan ka lang hehe. act playfully din pero huwag masyadong presko ha. tell her a sincere joke na hindi below the belt. yung mapapamelt ng heart niya.

[sacred cow]

http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-know-when-women-you

[Yes Man]

Alright, last night we went out again. She said na gutom daw siya so labas kami. Kain sa labas, tapos tambay. Usap usap, she kept asking me more about my ex and yun ano nangyari samin, etc. etc.

Ayun smooth lang naman, madalas masingitan ng biruan kaya tawanan. Lumakas yun hangin ng sobra kaya sinuot ko yun jacket ko sa kanya.. Then pagdating ko dito sa cubicle ko this morning may note sa keyboard ko, "hindi naman pala boring eh " 

[oshiawase]

nako. something is telling me, gusto k nyan. of course, opinion ko lang

[simang]

^^obviously she is flirting. Enjoy it and let her know she's appreciated

[cecilydee]

@yesman good job sa pagsuot ng jacket. kung ako yan mamatay nako kakaisip kung type ba ako ng guy na to haha.