How do you know if a girl is interested in you?

[Girltalker2]

i will ask her if she can still remember the 2 girls asking about her number if yes magpapakilala ako personally ako na ako yung nagpapakuha.. do you think that'll work?

alamin mo sched nya.  then ifree mo sarili mo around sa free sched nya. sabayan mo sa wifi - biglang ask - are you free for coffee?  tara!  ganun lang. pag sinabi nya hindi, sabihin mo, sige next time nalang. tapos labas ka go get yourself a cup of coffee. cool lang.

pag pumayag, then start to get to know her more! ganun lang kasimple.

[krnmprl]

you should aim to become friends. make small talk sa wifi area nyo. this is not difficult to do. the thing is to make her become comfortable with you. ewan ko lang ha, i'm speaking for myself but if a guy i barely know asks me out for coffee i will panic and flee (stalker!) unless sobrang hot and timeless nya 

[imyourangel]

I don't agree. I don't like my dates holding my hand, especially if I do not know him well enough pa, kahit pa crush ko sya.

I don't like holding hands din naman agad, what I mean by little physical contact is yung nagbbrush yung arms sa bawat isa, etc.

[jasta01]

ang daling sabihin ng mga suggestions nyo sa ibang tao  ako man ganyan din sasabihin ko pero if you where on the same situation kakabahan ka talaga.. besides im not that good looking guy naman and i think for my eyes she's too damn pretty.. . i dont know if i can do the things you guys said..

parang ang hirap mag aya sa isang babae/tao na hindi mo naman talaga kilala.. ako man yung girl iisipin ko agad "sino ba to' inaaya agad ako" parang ang presko ng dating.. hindi naman ako si Robin na gwapo na malakas pa dating  hahaha.. .

my main concern is how will i start a simple conversation eh pag nakikita ko na sya kinakabahan na ako.. marami na akong naging gf's but most of them are my classm8s officem8s etc.. not this time na totally wala talaga akong alam sa kanya 

[Girltalker2]

^ wala sa gw!po iyan. nasa confidence at practice. how will you gain confidence kung di ka magpractice?

may kilala ako, he had his first gf 26yo na sya.  and guess what, hanggang ngayon 30s na sya, binata pa sya kasi nag eenjoy at hindi parin nya nahanap si ms right. nakalimang gf na sya. lahat caucasian.  kako ilan na ba kasi niligawan mo.  sagot nya mga 20. hanggang sa naging suabe nanga. so pag gusto nya yung girl, hindi na mahirap. sa umpisa daw talaga sobrang hirap. then naisip nya, ano ba mawawala sa kanya. one time naging gf nya model din. eh hindi naman sya kagwapuhan.

[jasta01]

^
oo nga.. but i hate being rejected  ahaha! i dont know pero sa lahat naman ng mga ginusto ko na girl nakukuha ko i mean ok naman akong dumiskarte once na makausap ko na wala ng problema.. malakas din pakiramdam ko kung may gusto rin sa akin ang isang tao..

[hisana]

I-add mo sa facebook. LOL!

parang ang hirap mag aya sa isang babae/tao na hindi mo naman talaga kilala.. ako man yung girl iisipin ko agad "sino ba to' inaaya agad ako" parang ang presko ng dating..

I agree. Ako never pa ako nagbigay ng number ko o sumama mag friendly date sa hindi ko kilala, kahit same class or office pa. (Hindi ako "too damn pretty" ha, pero I get asked out naman paminsan-minsan.) Kung sana nagkausap muna kami a few times bago mag-date, yes, I might consider it. Well, no choice, kaibiganin mo muna. Kaibiganin ang friends nya para maging friends din kayo eventually. At least hindi kayo total strangers. Meron minsan nagkasabay lang kayo sa cashier ng fully booked eh gusto na kunin ang number. I find it awkward, though it works with some girls naman.

Good luck. May the force be with you.

[jasta01]

lol.. hindi ko nga kilala pano ko i-a-add  wala kasi akong nakikitang kasama nya.. lagi syang mag isa sa zone kung saan ko sya nakikita.. feeling ko nga nakakahalata na sya eh.. hahah!

[Tootsie31]

Pwede sa situation na mabagal uli wifi and if she answered, you can joke her na " wifi mate, gusto mo imessage na lang kita pag bumilis uli next time kapag ok na connection para di ka hassle sa pagpunta dito?

[jasta01]

alright! so here's what happened just a couple of minutes ago..

nasa smoking area kami ng tropa' dumaan sya i knew she will go to zone so sumabay ako sa elevator pababa for 2 reasons.. 1st para makausap sya 2nd para bumili ng yosi..

nagpakilala ako then we shook hands! i went straight to 711 and i left her at the zone.. umubos ako ng yosi dahil kinakabahan na naman ako then bumalik ako at umupo beside her.. kwentuhan ng konti ask about what account she's in what time is her schedule etc and ayun.. SHE HAS A BF !!!!

  chakit

Aral : wag umasang may gusto ang isang tao kahit na madalas kayong mag eye-to-eye 

[hellacious]

If you are courting a girl... may mga guys na susubukan niya yan.. like holding hands agad.. tapos akbay..

hindi naman ibig sabihin na pag tinangal or ayaw eh ayaw na nun sayo.. pero she just demands respect from you to know na you're on the first stage palang. Like me, ayoko ng mga guys na ganon. Masyadong mahangin for me. Well, depends on the girl rin naman yan.. May mga girls kasi na 1 week palang kayo na. Pero ngayon, practical na ang mga babae noh. Alay bahay/bigas/kotse ka muna. Hahahaha Joke. Patience is the key.

[wanderinglass]

What if one can't initiate a talk? As in wala talagang maisip na mapag uusapan kasi di naman kami ganung ka-close

[chick_pea]

As a guy, kung gusto mo ang isang babae, it is perfectly fine to approach the girl. Isnub-in ka man, ok lang. Because you are supposed to be the guy, lalaki, the pursuer.  Walang mangyayari kung hanggang tingin ka nalang. 

Yup, this is exact sentiment. Kasi ako talaga hanggang tingin lang talaga ang kaya kong degree of flirtation.i expect the guy to make the move. Kaso di nangyayari kasi mas mahiyain pa sila sa akin.Hayy.... So many love affairs that could have been.

[imyourangel]

^Same here. Guys cannot expect us to initiate the first move right? Why are they so shyyy. Lol.

[Tootsie31]

Hay, ilang sweet smiles pa ba kelangan para magets nyang gusto ko sya.

[wanderinglass]

E how do you know if a guy is interested naman sa girl?

[IamDzeybi]

How? Simple. Mas makulit pa yung girl makipag usap kesa dun sa guy. XD

[leannael]

Actually ok lang yun ma busted go lang ng go. Kung gusto mo talaga yung babae wag mong sukuan. Base on my experience, I've been courting this girl for almost 11 months and I've got rejected twice. Pero after ilang days after nun 2nd rejection biglang nagkagusto na rin sya. Dahil napagisip isip nya na sobrang tyaga ko sa kanya. And mostly kasi kapag nareject yung iba susuko na agad. Anyway msyadong subjective to, depende na rin talaga sa girl siguro.

[imyourangel]

^girls love guys who won't easily give up.

[anslim]

You can tell if the girl is interested when she exchanges meaningful ideas with you during a conversation, most of the time she says "yes" when you ask her to go out on a date, when she returns your sweet messages, and many more.