Single people in their late 20s all the way to 30s

[kolokay]

Being single at 29 is fine with me, infact am open to the possibility of not meeting the right person for me, if it happens, it will happen, if it won't then it won't, will just continue being happy just the way I am now... As the other ladies mentioned here before, if you are nearing 30, don't be pressured, don't rush things, everything happens for a reason =) so yeah am 29, fabulous and single =)

i agree, everything happens for a reason. I am 28 turning 29 this year. people around me are putting pressure on my shoulder hahah! i don't care anymore. i really don't see myself having a family. I don't see any suitor na Matino eh. alangan namang mag settle ako sa hindi ko gusto ko mas bata sakin na ako pa ang bubuhay? hayz.... better na ang ganito.. single!!! single forever!

[missreese]

Anyone wants to join single get together tomorrow..
 
initial plan is at BOWLING LANE, MOA AT 3PM

[Bubblin]

^
ayt.. bakit naman? .. ay punta ka single get together.. bout bowling thingy.. hehe

it's all about the lifetime commitment..parang di ko kaya of later bigla na lang magkasawaan. if I'll do get married man,I want to be 1000% sure na siya na nga talaga...

[MisCalculus]

as of now i don't see myself having a family, but the thought sometimes occur to me. kainggit kasi yung iba kabatch ko may kids na. right now naman kasi yung mga guys sa paligid ko majority may sabit so wag na lang. yoko talaga nun.
i'll just be happy being single right now...

[sheh-la22]

I turned to 30 na. Sad kase kaka break up lang namin ng bf ko.pressured na rin kase, time investment talaga para makahanap ng magiging husband. nakakinggit din mga kaibigan ko lahat sila may anak na at pamilya.minsan talaga nade depress na ko.

Minsan nakakainis na lumabas o mag facebook,wala ng ibang tanong ang mga tao kundi, bakit single ka pa, uy mag asawa ka na baka di ka magkaanak.

mga sis minsan paranoid na ko, iniisp ko pagdating ko ng 35 at wala pa akong bf, gusto ko na lang magkaanak. kahit anak na lang para naman may mamahalin ako sa pagtanda ko.di ba weird yon?

help pls

[purplerainne]

I am 27 and single.
and dami na rin failed/wrong relationships kaya nawawalan na rin ako ng pag-asa. nappressure na ako sometimes. Minsan kasi naiisip ko na parang  masaya mag family at this age lalo na magka baby para naman hindi masyadong malayo ang age gap ko at ng magiging baby.

[missreese]

^
same here.. pero malay natin this year dumating na si mr. right guy.. =)

[dropdeadgorgeous]

minsan parang ang sarap lang talaga ng feeling na matawag na taken ka na anoh. yung meron na talagang nag mamay ari sayo. pakiramdam ko pag ganun, safe na ako. pero siyempre, katulad niyo dito, ako man eh paminsan minsan nababagabag. uuwi pa naman ako ng pinas. sure ako, tatanungin ako ng mga relatives kung asan ba siya, kelan ba? nakakataranta saka minsan parang di ko alam kung ano ba ang isasagot ko.

naiinggit din ako sa mga kaibigan ko na mababalitaan ko na lang, ikakasal na or manganganak na. nakakatuwa kase nahanap na sila ng perfect match nila. hindi ko tuloy maiwasan mag self pity. siguro kakayanin ko naman lampasan yan. wag na lang tayo mawalan ng pag asa. in time, darating din yung mr. right guy for us sa mga buhay buhay natin. cheer up sisters!

[girlssentials]

Sali ako dito 

Just broke up with my long time bf. I want to be married and have kids someday but I don't know kung kaya ko sumugal uli. I've had my heart badly broken. Ang hirap din kc maginvest ng time, energy and emotion into a relationship tapos di din naman pala maglalast.

I want to be optimistic kaya lang naisip ko minsan bakit kaya unfair ang buhay. Some people have it easy. Lahat ng plans at gusto nila sa buhay nakukuha nila. Samantalang ako I always have to struggle.

It doesn't help pa that most of my friends have their own families na. Lagi na lang ako tinatanong kelan daw ba ako magaasawa, kelan ako magkakaanak.. tinutukso malapit na magexpire matris ko, etc. Nakakapikon na din minsan kc kung madali lang di sana noon pa! Kaya ayun I always put up a front na I'm not at all bothered by it, and that right now I'm more focused on my career. I have to be defensive about it na at least ako pag dumating yung time na yun alam kong kaya ko buhayin at pagaralin magiging anak ko.

But the truth is, simple lang talaga gusto ko, to have a family of my own. And ready na ako to settle down. But I guess God doesn't think so, or maybe He has other plans for me. Whatever that is I hope to find out soon. And if I don't, basta ang backup plan ko if I'm not yet married by 35, mag-aadopt na lang ako. 

[sheh-la22]

^ ako din sis kapag 35 nako gusto ko talaga magka anak bsta kahit anak lang, baka kase ma expire ang matris ko. yun nga lang pano ko magkakaanak kung wala nga ako asawa.

> kase medyo nadala ako sa pag aadopt, yung tita ko kase nag adopt ng 2, parehong naging sira ang buhay at naging rebelde

[rlyn27]

ako ka 30 ko lang ds month.... happy nman ako sa choice ko maging single pero mas ok talaga sana meron somebody makakasama ka maliban sa family at frens mo ..i have bf nman kaso parang wala rin ako gana sa kanya eh..kaya hindi ko nlang masyado siniseroyoso para sa akin pag mawala cya ok lang sa akin....
pressured talaga lalo na mga family n relatives na puro tanong kailan ako mag aasawa as n... kulit rin eh...wish nga nila sa bday ko na mag asawa na ako ds year daw... sabi ko ok lang sana kaso wala pa ako pede maging groom noh..gusto ko nman yung guy na talaga love ko talaga at love ako ayoko maging basta basta nlang para mag ka pag asawa kailan talaga naka plan as n 

[beck19]

late 20s na ba ang 27? hehe.. turning 27 na ako sa May.. yung mom ko pinipilit akong makipagbalikan sa ex ko.. yung sister ko ikakasal next year.. nasa-sad ako lalo na pag wala akong lakad at nasa bahay lang ako..

ewan.. ngayon malungkot ako, but i know God has His plans for me.. siguro wait lang ng konti pa....

[alexandrea]

Napansin ko lang ang dami talagang single ladies ngayon kahit typical marrying age na hehe.

[fall2pieces]

is 25 late twenties?
i've been single for so long at times parang nakalimutan ko na feeling ng in love.
i'm just leaving it all up to God if someone comes then good pero if not okay lang i'll be fine.

[sheh-la22]

^ korek sis , kung ito ang gusto ng Dyos for me, sige tatanggapin ko na lang, with matching luha..

> ang dami nating single

[sweetubeng]

Sali ako dito 

Just broke up with my long time bf. I want to be married and have kids someday but I don't know kung kaya ko sumugal uli. I've had my heart badly broken. Ang hirap din kc maginvest ng time, energy and emotion into a relationship tapos di din naman pala maglalast.

I want to be optimistic kaya lang naisip ko minsan bakit kaya unfair ang buhay. Some people have it easy. Lahat ng plans at gusto nila sa buhay nakukuha nila. Samantalang ako I always have to struggle.

It doesn't help pa that most of my friends have their own families na. Lagi na lang ako tinatanong kelan daw ba ako magaasawa, kelan ako magkakaanak.. tinutukso malapit na magexpire matris ko, etc. Nakakapikon na din minsan kc kung madali lang di sana noon pa! Kaya ayun I always put up a front na I'm not at all bothered by it, and that right now I'm more focused on my career. I have to be defensive about it na at least ako pag dumating yung time na yun alam kong kaya ko buhayin at pagaralin magiging anak ko.

But the truth is, simple lang talaga gusto ko, to have a family of my own. And ready na ako to settle down. But I guess God doesn't think so, or maybe He has other plans for me. Whatever that is I hope to find out soon. And if I don't, basta ang backup plan ko if I'm not yet married by 35, mag-aadopt na lang ako. 

same sentiments feelings and situation tayo sis, almost the same pagkakaiba lang yong long relationship with your bf, ako kasi puro short term relationship lang, i guess naniniwala talaga ako sa destiny na may nakalaan talaga si God para sa atin minsan lang nakakapika ang mga tao sa paligid at mga relatives kasi feel nila less of a person ka na because im still single dateless parang kawawa ganun sila pa nga ata ang mas ata kesa sa akin kasi mag asawa na daw ako kahit sino na manligaw basta lang daw magkaanak, grabe nakaksama ng loob pero deadma na lang,  at least now alam kung di ako nag iisa ang dami dami nating single matakot na ako pag ako na lang natira sa mundo na single malamang nasa akin na problema lol!

[boogieston]

being single isn't so bad...hey, most of the salary goes in your pocket! if you've settled and have married, baka nga wala ka pang makuhang trabaho eh. haha! 

[pennypot]

I just turned 33 this year. I think I'd rather be single than end up with somebody who's going to make my life miserable. I've been there and been that.....if its not for me, then its not for me...i wouldn't push things that far...I just believe that good things will come. Don't waste your time in what could be, enjoy what you have for the moment.

[tripper]

i think it's the pressure with friends and family that concerns me most sa pagiging single ... i know i am not yet ready for marriage and family, hindi ko pa kaya emotionally and financially

[rox_cute]

i'm 25 and single for about 9 to 10 years na.. tapos sandali lang yung naging 1st bf ko.. unti unti ko na rin nafefeel ang pressure.. marami na kasi nagtatanong sa akin kung kailan ako mag-settle down or mag-ka bf.. but i'm trying to erase those questions sa isip ko kasi ayoko mafeel ang pressure kasi i like being single but syempre tumatanda tayo.. yung mga nakakasama sa galaan when i was in my early 20's hindi ko na masyado nakakasama ngayon because most of them have bf's so minsan mapag iiwanan ka.. pero syempre depende naman yun on how you handle it.. basta ako kung may dumating, ipagpapasalamat ko talaga yun. sone of my friends told me, it's okay to wait kasi baka naman yung darating na guy sayo eh worth it naman that you waited for him..