Christian Weddings

[nadvin]

thank u sis. pano ba flow ng program nun. pano nagsisimula yung ceremony ng christian wedding. m

[Beccanichard]

^sori sis di ko na masyadong maalala sa sobrang kaba, saya basta halo-halo na emotions ko nun kaya parang windang ako he he he. If you have a pastor sis, you can discuss the wedding ceremony program with him kasi yung pastor namin may ready na syang program (automatic kasi yan na pag pastor dapat alam may wedding ceremony program na sya) all he has to do is to get our opinions or suggestions kung may gusto kaming baguhin, etc. HTH!

[vain_kixie]

basta sa Christian wedding sis kahit ano usually pwede. There is freedom sa Church, well at least with mine. Kahit mag imbento ka pa ng sarili mong program okay lang basta hindi nakaka bastos. Christian Churches are waaaaayyyy more open than Catholic.

[Beccanichard]

^tama ka dyan sis, like I don't have candle sponsors kasi yung parents ko ang magsisindi nang candle namin signifying na sila ang mag guide samin ni hubby sa married like namin kasi orphan na si hubby. Yun lang naman ang binago namin sa program

[nadvin]

hi. may problema ako. ayaw pa akong payagan ng tatay ko. pero nakaset na wedding namin. what will i do? buti pa [textspeak!] iba jan nakakasal nalang bigla. samantalang ako 26 na ayaw pang payagan. hay naku. at isa pa. need ko din magpaconvert sa christian. kasi [textspeak!] magkkasal sa amin ni bf is [textspeak!] pinsan nia na pasto. pinapapunta kami sa simbahan nila. si bf kasi di na sia ganun ka active sa born again. anong sasabihin ko kung sabihin na need ko magpaconvert. ako kasi ang mas devoted sa amin dalawa. e need ko pa umuwi ng probinsya at si bf din sa leyte pa. tapos magpapakumpil pa kami dalawa... any advice. ano ba dapat gawin sa 2 problema ko/

[vain_kixie]

one, under Phil law pwede ka ng ikasal kahit wala kang parental advice kasi till 25 years old lang yun. So kahit walang signature ang daddy mo.

Regarding conversion, you really do not need to convert, baka gusto lang ng Pastor is that you go to church. Usually naman sa Christian church pinagdadasal ka lang ng sinners prayer eh, di ka naman siguro required na ibaptize pa. Depende yan talaga sa Pastor eh.


Pag pray mo nalang kay Lord that ma change ang heart ng dad mo at payagan ka ikasal. Iba din kasi pag may full blessing ng parents eh.

[nadvin]

thank u sis. pano ko ba un ipapaliwanag kay tatay.

[shatz]

Hi po!

I'm a newbie here po! we are planning to have a christian wedding on December. I'm a christian and h2b is catholic. Possible po bang ikasal kmi sa christian and after that catholic wedding naman? coz his family also wants to have a catholic wedding. Advice po..

 Im christian too and BF is Catholic. Ako personally hindi ko gusto ang double ceremony, (1) money-wise it's Impractical, (2) kapagod naman nun for you and the guests, ang haba ng seremonya mo, tapos magkaiba pang venue.  (3) Pano yun pag sinabi ng pari luhod, sila luluhod ako hindi, and i will not respond to the responsorial psalms etc... 

It's ur wedding, kayo dapat ni h2b ang magdecide..  Also sa christian wedding, walang part dun na against sa doctrines nila.  So mas practical to go for christian wedding. 

[akoposilester]

hi. i need your help sis (im a guy)

my fiance and i wanted to tie the knot this November. pero we cant afford the church wedding. the place itself is 10k.   
we wanted to have a solemn wedding. like garden at pool wedding. gusto kasi namin talagang family at closest friends lang.
anyway, can anyone PM me the christian religion where in pede silang magkasal ng 2 catholic?
me and my wife to be will appreciate all your help. thanks a lot!

[shatz]

^kung pool wedding and less than 10k gusto mo you may consider private pools in calamba,. not sure sa price pero alam ko hindi aabot ng 10k.. 

bakit gusto mo magpakasal sa christian setting kung pareho kayong catholic? mahihirapan ka maghanap ng officiant nyan, need mo ng counseling sa kanila
havent hear of any pastor nagkasal na both catholic ang couple

[akoposilester]

hi shatz, thanks for replying.
were not really active sa catholic kaya being converted sa christian is a no problem.

[vain_kixie]

just go to a nearby christian church and talk to the pastor about your wedding. They help you with
the details. Try ccf or vcf.

[tsina]

i am from ccf. Christian couples must undergo counseling sessions. If those people who will counsel are not convinced that the couple are ready for marriage, then, they will refuse to marry the couple. They will also measure the maturity of both Christians. As far as I know, my church also do not allow inter marriages or even non-christians. Or will allow to marry to a separated or divorced partner. Im just a little surprised that some churches do that. The only doctrine we follow is the bible. And the church will abide by what only the bible says. One does not need to convert to become a born-again Christian. You just accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior. Wholeheartedly. It is all about personal relationship with Christ. Not ( never) a religion.

[cuppie_cake]

I also have the same problem sissies, me and h2b are both catholics, but we're gearing towards a beach wedding and as we know hindi pwede magkasal ang priest in other venues aside from the church, so I'm thinking of it as magiging christian wedding, is it possible kaya?

[vain_kixie]

possible. you just have to find a pastor who is willing to officiate your wedding.
counseling with this pastor is mandatory. For the other requirements it really varies (such as baptism
etc).

[sereiuqse]

nung kinasal kami 4 yung ninong namin na Pastor, lahat required na dapat macounsel kami, ayun daming seminar kaya in the end maganda din yung kinalabasan ng wedding namin, sobrang saya, as in walang flaw. Sa Garden kami kasi yun ang dream ni wifey, then nung unang choice namin na magkakasal sa amin may principyo syang hindi magkakasal sa Garden kaya hanap kami ng pastor na willing magkasal sa Garden pero yung First choice namin na Pastor eh payag naman na maging Ninong kaya ok na din.

napakwento tuloy hehe

[ayieloveszavi]

I also have the same problem sissies, me and h2b are both catholics, but we're gearing towards a beach wedding and as we know hindi pwede magkasal ang priest in other venues aside from the church, so I'm thinking of it as magiging christian wedding, is it possible kaya?

pag judge pwede kyo ikasal s beach. if u want a pastor, most of them required na christians kayo.

[bethz14]

meron bang from VCF dito? we will submit the form for wedding sa admin this coming Saturday pra maschedule na kmi for the Pastor's interview? Can you kindly share your experience/s? matagal ba yung interview and what's next po after the interview?

Thanks! 

[bigdadis_girl]

sis may united wedding sa VCF galleria ortigas bg october baka may interesado punta lang kayo dun para mag inquire 

[cuppie_cake]

pag judge pwede kyo ikasal s beach. if u want a pastor, most of them required na christians kayo.

Thanks, for now pacivil wed muna kami, mukhang malabo na yung beach wedding ko ha.. dream wedding ko pa naman yun