is it really a big deal for you is your in-laws doesnt like you?

[binlaten]

^can't agree more.

[deadendgurl]

siguro magiging YES, shempre pamilya na pinag uusapan ditto eh 

[sweet angel]

yes, dati nung dalaga pa ko sabi ko ok lang sa akin, di naman sila yung papakasalan ko pero nakita ko sa mama ko mahal nya yung hipag ko, mas inaaway pa nga ni mama yung brother ko kapag nagaaway sila magasawa e...malaking part din kasi ng pagsasama ng mag-asawa ang in-laws para sa akin.  saka isa pa, sigurado kong kapag niloko ko ni hubby siguradong lagot sya sa nanay nya ... takot nya lang sa nanay nya hehe

[roa1028]

NO! i have my bad experiences with them kahit maganda na ang pinakita ko.... and masasakit sila magsalita kaya huwag nalang....

if you guys want to know the reason para hindi na ako post again ng nangyari, i have it sa other thread dito rin sa family issues.... (tama bang limitahan ang pagtulong sa mga ILs)

[emmyrda]

not really since we are not living with them.  My husband does not go along well also with them so... you can guess how they are going to be with me.
My husband also told me that I can do and tell them whatever they want.  Pero syempre I am trying my best not to overeact at things.

[gxanthe]

YES. for one, pinoy culture na kasi na when you get married, you get married with the whole family.

however, it doesn't necessarily mean that you lose your character in the process. may times na you have to assert yourself din so that you earn their respect, in such a way na makikita nilang you're deserving enough to be part of them.

[iamwhatiam]

yes, definitely. masakit naman sa dibdib kung hindi ka tanggap di ba? kung ganito man ang mangyari i will keep and make ways pa din na matanggap nila kasi that will show how much i love them and respect them...

[yikee]

yes sobra noon.. sobra kase akong affected noon knowing na ever since ayaw sakin ng MIL ko.. i tried reaching out for such a long time.. in my mind gusto ko padin sana wag sumuko para na din kay hubby and sa father in law ko na super bait, pero now na nakita ko na even my daughter pinapakitaan nya ng ibang treatment, parang super painful na for me kase wala naman ginagawa sa kanyang masama yung bata..

now, ok na sakin kung talagang di magbabago treatment nya sakin, i don't care na.. basta i know na wala sya pwede isumbat on my part, ok na ko don.. i don't want to live my life na lagi ko na lang inaaalala ano nanaman sasabiin nya sakin or pano ko ba sya mapapasaya para magustuhan ako and mahalin yung apo nya when i know that what she wants is mapalayo ako and my daughter kay hubby..

yun nga lang, i must admit na nasakin padin lagi yung inggit sa iba na super ok ang MIL..

[jiffy]

ako dedma lang.. nakabukod naman kame.. i dont really care..

[ebbah]

yes sken big deal, ewan ko, kinalakihan ko lang siguro na ayoko na may nasasabi sken ang ibang tao..i am trying to be nice kasi sa lahat..tinatry kung intindihan sila sa abot ng aking makakaya.. i am just lucky na like nila ko pero at first hindi kasi sobrang tapang ko..pero nung nakasama nila ko, super like na nila ko..iba kasi ako mag alaga sa anak nila..as in! super! we live with my hubby's parents, in the same compound, rinig pag sumisigaw ako..hehe!

[longing]

of course. kasi pag hindi nagkasundo both parties baka ang ending pati kami ng hubby ko mag-away coz of my ILs. di ako nagpaka-plastic sa mga ILs ko, they know pag galit ako sa anak nila. good thing na warn din sila ng mom ko kung ganu ako ka-brat ayun, love na love na nila ako.

[proudmama]

HINDI, naaalala lang kami ng mga anak ko pag malapit na remittance ng asawa ko

[blhaoi]

no. they're not worth it.

[hottieangel30]

no. they're not worth it.

the right words to describe them...nakuha mo sis! galing mo! 

[hotgeek]

yes... big deal parate... mas okie if boto sayo ang in laws or maski di ka fave at least di ka hate... iba na kase pag may mga decision making... family reunion.. business ... mahirap na... kawawa ka lang...=(

[lukaretchi]

 hmmmm, sa akin DeAdMa! Hindi naman sila pakikisamahan ko, unless na nakatira kami sa knila. And thanks God hindi.

[cati]

before i cared, but now, i couldn't care less......i have my children  to take, bahala sila.  I'm not crossing anyone's boundaries, so  don't cross mine

[baby_bench]

Mas maganda nga kung walang problem s mga in-laws natin. mas smooth ang relationship, but sometimes hindi talaga maiwasan mag ka-problem.

[dara_01]

YES...

kase part sila ng buhay ng hubby natin.  @ may mga instances na hindi maiiwasan na kelangan ng interaction ng parents.

kaya dapat talaga tama si sis baby_bench na smooth ang relationship

[gorgeous_mommie]

OT lang po: if war ba kayo ng il's at abroad hubby do you still visit them? or keber na?

on topic: yes noon i care now i dont really. kasi ive accepted the fact that i cannot please them esp my mil unless iwan ko anak nya para masolo nya.