Author Topic: is it really a big deal for you is your in-laws doesnt like you? (Read 123564 times)

shatz · « **Reply #560 on:** April 23, 2011, 01:49:57 pm »

Quote from: miss understood on April 23, 2011, 11:19:20 am

hubby came home (kahit di niya bakasyun) to see me and attend to my graduation. sabi ng mother niya, yung pamasahe niya pauwi, sana ibigay na lang sa kanila.

kaya ngayon, pinipray ko na ma-approve ang leave with pay ko para di masyado nila makita na dependent ako sa perang pinapadala ni hubby. para di nila isumbat if ever na kaya ako nakapagreview sa manila eh dahil sa pera ng anak nila.

sis mag-asawa na kayo, you have all the right sa pera ng anak nya,. hindi yun pera ng nanay nya!,. nakakainis ang mga ganyang IL mukhang pera,

Dhee-Dhee · « **Reply #561 on:** April 23, 2011, 05:04:01 pm »

@miss understood: buti sinabi mo kay hubby mo yung nangyari.. may i know kung anong reaction ni hub sis? hindi lang pala mataas ang boses, below the belt na yung sinabi nya. grabe, wala siyang "K" para tawagin kang bwisit.

napakataas ng tingin sa sarili niya, kahit pa presidente siya ng pinas, hindi dapat siya nang gaganun ng tao.. ah anak ng judge yung isang in-law to be nila, haha.. wala na ako masabi sa byenan mo sis, ang baho ng ugali! i assume na may kaya naman sila diba? so bakit kailangan nya pa ng mayaman na manugang? saka siya ba gumagastos sa needs nyo? kayo naman diba? kung sino talaga yung mga angat sa buhay, sila pa yung mga gahaman sa pera.. tsk tsk! pagpipray kong ma-approve yung leave with pay mo sis. naku, may araw din yang MIL mo..

miss understood · « **Reply #562 on:** April 23, 2011, 05:52:08 pm »

ang sabi niya: pagpasensyahan mo muna, ganun lang talaga si mama.

hay, ayoko ng isipin, been crying for two days na and i wanna forget it muna. sana wala ng next long encounters pa. pahinga muna ang heart and mind ko.

Dhee-Dhee · « **Reply #563 on:** April 23, 2011, 06:05:21 pm »

^hmm.. ang hirap ng situation mo. tama, wag mo muna isipin sa ngayon. basta sis, wag ka papayag na maulit ulit yun, kasi sa susunod baka hindi lang yun ang gawin sa iyo. alam mo naman yung ibang matatanda, sila na nga mali, sila pa matapang. pag naulit pa, naku pag-usapan nyo ng mabuti ni hubby. i'll pray for your peace of mind. kaya mo yan sis!

Annejazz · « **Reply #564 on:** October 16, 2011, 04:38:36 pm »

sakin, di namna big deal.. pero, my husband and her sisters are really really close. na sometimes, i would think na dapat sila-sila nalang magsama-sama.. hehe..

kumikosan_9 · « **Reply #565 on:** October 19, 2011, 03:25:01 pm »

my MIL doesnt like me and she compares me to her other daughter in law. its not a big deal but it really gets to you pag malayo ka sa family mo. buti na lang kampi sa akin ang asawa ko.

Annejazz · « **Reply #566 on:** October 19, 2011, 04:03:07 pm »

good for you kumikosan.. imagine kung kakampihan pa ni hubby si MIL...

kumikosan_9 · « **Reply #567 on:** October 19, 2011, 04:17:32 pm »

^ my husband would tell me: i had to endure 33 years of living with her (his mom) under one roof...so some bum days should not be a big deal mahal. 30's na kasi kami nag asawa ng hubby ko.

glamorosa_09 · « **Reply #568 on:** October 21, 2011, 06:53:31 pm »

Hmm... when I was still single, I was hoping that my future in laws would like me. And true enough, it did happen. But what I forgot to hope is that, I would also like my MIL.... toooot....

Sa ngayon, parang hindi yata big deal if they like me or not. At least I will have reasons not to meet with them often. Gusto ko nga once a week lang makita MIL ko. Pero kailangan ko sigurong tanggapin, na mukhang hindi mangyayari yun dahil kapitbahay lang namin sila...

xiansmom · « **Reply #569 on:** October 22, 2011, 10:32:58 am »

big deal syempre
mas ok parin kasi kung
walang kang problema sa kanila,
pamilya parin kasi ni hubby yan
panigurado mas sya yung mahihirapan.
pero kung ayaw talaga ng IL's satin
bakit pa tayo magpupumilit diba?!
dito ko iaapply yung art of "deadma"
buti nalang wala ako problema dito

kumikosan_9 · « **Reply #570 on:** October 24, 2011, 09:51:28 am »

i posted days ago that my inlaws not liking me should not be a big deal. i was wrong.

sa ngayon, all of the inlaws are against me and my husband. kapitbahay lang namin sila kaya its very hard. ang pinakamahirap is seeing my husband suffer, naaawa ako sa kanya. but then i dont know what to do kasi wala naman talaga akong kasalanan sa MIL ko. maybe i made a mistake sa inutos ko sa yaya ng baby ko, but i never made that order to intentionally hurt my MIL's feelings. clean talaga ang conscience ko sa bagay na yan, the problem is she thinks otherwise. pinagpipilitan nya na sinadya ko yun para ilayo sa kanya ang apo nya. hinding hindi ko magagawa ang bagay na yan kasi ive always wanted my son to grow up loving his grandparents. how can i take responsibility naman for something i honestly didnt do.

...kaya mabigat talaga ang pinagdadaanan namin ngayon. nakakaawa din ang baby ko kasi hindi na nila dinadalaw. all i can think of to do is pray na lang na someday malinawan ang mga isip nila and realize na pamilya din naman nila kami.

moonie · « **Reply #571 on:** October 24, 2011, 06:43:40 pm »

Babaw naman ng dahilan para magalit in-law mo sa iyo sis. Papaano mo naman mailalayo sa kanya yung apo niya e magkapitbahay lang pala kayo. At sangol pa lang yung bata, hindi pa halos nakakakilala ng tao yun. Hayaan mo na lang. Loss din niya yun kung hindi siya dadalaw sa bahay niyo. I bet di rin siya makakatiis. Makikita mo na lang, nandiyan na naman iyan, nakikialam. Lol.

glamorosa_09 · « **Reply #572 on:** October 24, 2011, 10:13:58 pm »

^LOL natawa ko dun ah...

kung kaya mo namang makipag heart to heart talk with your MIL sis, go go go. Or you just wait while praying na lang...

Bakit naman pati ang other relatives nainis din sa inyo, baka may mga dagdag ang kwento ni MIL mo...

Banff · « **Reply #573 on:** October 29, 2011, 12:40:40 am »

Quote from: shatz on April 22, 2011, 06:42:21 pm

^i agree, walang karapatan ang in-laws na sigawan ang asawa ng anak nila,.
watever, kung ako yan, maybe they wont hear from me as respect (kung kayanin ko magpigil) but that's the last time na pakikiharapan ko sila,. i'll make it way harder for them to even see their grandchild,. until marealize nya kasamaan ng ugali nya,. well that's me, I'm not born an underdog, I'm a fighter!

super duper agree!!!

first of all hindi ka puedeng sigawan ng MIL mo. Hindi ka niya anak. If may papasabi siya, idaan niya sa anak niya. Second, if sinigawan ako, lalaban ako. Sometimes kasi gusto nila makita kung hanggang saan ka nila kayang itulak. If ipanakita mo na hindi ka nila kayang basta basta ganonin lang, then titigil sila.

haha I agree with shatz. If they did that to me, hindi na nila makikita apo nila. Pero for the record mabait inlaws ko sa akin... have no prob with them. I just don't like people being bullied.

goodluck!!

kuliglig^^ · « **Reply #574 on:** December 08, 2011, 02:33:27 pm »

Saken big deal yun, but not so much, especially if they live far away.

Pero I'm okay with my ILs naman.

kwinchesters · « **Reply #575 on:** December 08, 2011, 08:59:20 pm »

Hay magbabakasyon ang MIL Ko this February, parang ngayon pa lang napapraning nako. Minsan diko alam kung maging happy ako sa Pasko kasi pag naiisip ko ang nagaantay na February 2012, nadidismaya ako.
My MIL is such a bully to me, and the rest of their family...

bluez · « **Reply #576 on:** December 18, 2011, 06:54:57 am »

sabi nila kailangan din kc showbiz tayo sa in laws
pati sa mga ibang sawsawerang daughters in law din
kahit mahirap need gampanan ang role na yan
eh ako di ko talaga carry
this is me take it or leave it
wala na akong magagawa kung natalbugan
ko silang lahat eh sa inborn ang beauty ko eh
kasalanan ko ba yun lol
as long as my husband is always on my side
no problem with me

smile mga sis!
Merry xmas po!

pretty_in_victorian · « **Reply #577 on:** December 18, 2011, 08:53:06 am »

i feel na hindi ako feel ng future in-laws ko.. which is okay kasi di ko naman sila ganun kadalas nakakasama.. naiintindihan ko naman na may mga taong hindi kasing warm & friendly ng family ko.. at sila na yun.. haha

nicoletta · « **Reply #578 on:** December 21, 2011, 12:07:12 am »

It would a big deal to me if they don't like me. So far, it's only the intrimitida Sis who seem to dislike. The parents are asking me to hang on to their son. Tignan ko rin muna.

kiz_me1109 · « **Reply #579 on:** December 21, 2011, 02:53:05 am »

In my opinion... YES. Since they are my husband's family I want to treat them as my family as well and vice versa. :-)

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