is it really a big deal for you is your in-laws doesnt like you?

[vannyty]

correct mga sis! kung ayaw nila sa atin edi hwag! magstay nlng ako sa room!

[queen mai]

Yes. Because my MIL is the cause of my pre mature birth. Of my first baby. And now all I can do is avoid her. I swallowed all of my pride and went back to my parents to ask for their help. Thank God they didn't ask questions and just extended their helping hand at me. My husband followed me and fortunately, they continued treating him very civilly. Now the MIL had the nerve to deny everything that had happenned and continued texting my husband why I don't even pay them a visit. And she claims she wants to see her 'granddaughter' too!

At first, my husband was angry because I'm refusing his mother's offer to pay us a visit. I had no choice but to yell at him one by one all of the nasty things she'd done including the Christmas incident when she'd humiliated me infront of her sisters. When it was Christmas. Christmas. Ironically my daughter's name is Cristina...is it a dark reminder?

No, the MIL is not 'plastic'. My husband had witnessed everything that his mother had done to me when we were at his place. The shocking revelation is that MY HUSBAND REFUSES TO BELIEVE THAT THEY HAD HAPPENNED. THAT HIS MOTHER HAD DONE THIS AND THAT.

You'll be asking why my husband and I are still together. Yes, that is because I love him.

[mrs.BINLATEN]

Yes. Because my MIL is the cause of my pre mature birth. Of my first baby. And now all I can do is avoid her. I swallowed all of my pride and went back to my parents to ask for their help. Thank God they didn't ask questions and just extended their helping hand at me. My husband followed me and fortunately, they continued treating him very civilly. Now the MIL had the nerve to deny everything that had happenned and continued texting my husband why I don't even pay them a visit. And she claims she wants to see her 'granddaughter' too!

At first, my husband was angry because I'm refusing his mother's offer to pay us a visit. I had no choice but to yell at him one by one all of the nasty things she'd done including the Christmas incident when she'd humiliated me infront of her sisters. When it was Christmas. Christmas. Ironically my daughter's name is Cristina...is it a dark reminder?

No, the MIL is not 'plastic'. My husband had witnessed everything that his mother had done to me when we were at his place. The shocking revelation is that MY HUSBAND REFUSES TO BELIEVE THAT THEY HAD HAPPENNED. THAT HIS MOTHER HAD DONE THIS AND THAT.

You'll be asking why my husband and I are still together. Yes, that is because I love him.

sis, you got to be strong often times its really hard for us to understand why does GOD gave us such MIL. theres nothing wrong with sticking with your hubby as long as he doesnt force you to do something against your will.. i myself have been in the road. and boy was it hard... maybe ill just send you a pm to make kuwento ...

just as long as you and your hubby understand each other..

back to the topic... I wont even care if my MIL doesnt like me,, they could kiss my a** good bye..

[mrs.BINLATEN]

NOT a big deal if they dont like me.. i dont like them either!

[candishhh]

big deal for me kasi i want a harmonous family.

[binlaten]

I will be an In-law in the future. I wish my future son-in-law will hate me too and won't care about me since, i dont care about my in-laws right now.

[jusette]

It's a big deal for me. Lalo na kapag close ang bf ko sa family niya. Yung type na sacrifice ang pagkikita namin over his family. Never magiging masaya ang aming relationship pag may mga conflicts over his family. May siraan na mangyayari though wala naman akong ginagwang masama. Pero hinding hindi ako mag mama kaawa para lang magustuhan ako ng isang tao.

[aubrey1322]

mahirap talaga kung hindi mo kasundo in laws mo.....pero kung your nice naman to them...hindi parin nila appreciate yon...enough....wag u ipagsisikan ang sarili mo sa taong ayaw sayo..as long as your husband is on ur side......

[StupidCupid]

oo naman big deal. syempre lagi ka sisitahin nun

[papemelroti]

its a big deal for me. 80% of the time sa ligawan stage palang if i hear the mom doesnt like me il stay away. kasi very family oriented buhay ko and traditional. mahirap na...

[lyn]

Okay lang sakin if they don't like me basta hubby ko is nasa side ko. I even ask him nga before I met my in laws sabi ko sa kanya what if your parents doents like me, sab nya okay lang hindi naman sila ang makikisama at magpapakasal sa akin kundi cya.

Pero love naman ako ng in laws ko so hindi ako nagmomoblema nito. Mas nasa side nga parents nya sa akin keysa kanya eh. Ha-ha Im their baby daughter daw.

[Entrepreneur]

It matters to me since I'm family oriented talga. Sa family ko kasi ako ang panganay so ako lagi ang nagli-lead kapag may mga celebration or may mga bagay na kailngang pag-usapan ng masinsinan. Sa part ng husband ko, they're family is quite different. Medyo tahimik sila, they dont interact much, hindi ko masabi kung close ba tlaga sila kasi when my BIL decided he wanted to get hitched, di man [textspeak!] sya kinausap, whether magpaalam or manghingi ng advice, wala. For his parents, wala naman kami problem, ok ako sa knila (i think )..Know that kasi we live with them right now. But I'd prefer that magbukod n kami kasi feeling ko [textspeak!], we're getting too close for comfort. My BIL should be more responsible since HE's Decided.

[jaq_mi]

no. if the guy is still your boyfriend of course it's ideal na kasundo mo dapat ang inlaws mo. i mean ganun naman ang ideal na thinking ng tao e. pero kasi iba ang case kapag asawa mo na. i mean minsan ang ugali ng inlaws nagbabago once napangasawa mo na ang anak nila. kapag  nakasama mo na sila sa house. syempre magkaiba tayo ng pagpapalaki.  so dun kasi nagsisimula yun. yung ma-compare mo kung anong merong breeding hehe.

[cuteyabby]

it really is a big deal for me... siguro naman at first lang talaga na yung mga inlaws mo ayaw sa'yo but when time goes on and you prove to them na your worth na maging manugang nila then they will accept you. just be yourself and syempre hanapin yung kiliti nila. sa mga mag-bf/gf lang naman medyo complicated ba relationship sa mga inlaws eh. pero pag kasal na, ok na! lalo na pag nagka-apo na sila!!!

[sophiegray]

it hurts, but as long as you don't live with them, you won't be affected too much.

[Scylla]

medyo lang kasi they will get in the way somehow kung ayaw nila sa akin. pero kung ayaw talga nila, i wouldn't waste my time to please them. 

[honeylee]

ive done my part to please them at kung ayaw [textspeak!] nila sa akin ayaw ko n rin s knila noh!!!

[possibilities]

big deal.  hindi naman pwdeng tuwing may okasyon ay may sakit ako  

[binlaten]

^^haha...same sentiments here. but i have no issues naman w/ my in-laws. madali kasi ipakisama ang mga lalaki.

[adikako]

Fear ko to..what if my inlaw will not like me. Kasi I haven't met them and talked to them.

Paguwi ko pa lang ng Pinas...sila makikita if ever..,

Panganay na anak kasi si Hubby, favorite at bread winner pa. Tas syempre initial reaction ng mga Nanay..
its like stealing his Son.

Bahala na! il cross the bridge when I get there...I'l just be myself.