Hi mga bros and sis. I have an update on this guy.
Nung January 6, he texted me "Hi, gorgeous. Labas naman kayo ng best friend ko mamaya."
I turned him down kasi never ko naman nameet best friend niya. Then siya na mismo nagyaya sa akin lumabas.
Pasensya na kung naging marupok ako but I said yes. Nung january 6, nagdinner kami. Nung january 7, nag movie naman kami. Sa tuwing di kami magkasama, magkatext kami o tumatawag siya sa akin.
I read your post again.
Sis siguro iba Lang generation natin, Pero nababastusan ako sa guy if he calls me gorgeous, considering he has a gf.
Or Baka Super close nanga kayo kaya gorgeous tawag sayo? He is really a flirt.
Feeling ko lalo pa lumakas loob nya kasi nung nagyaya sya na 3 kayo lalabas, you said no. Pero dinner or movie na sya Lang, nag yes ka. Lalong nagkaron ng lakas ng loob Si pilot.
Young maiden
May Guys akong alam na tactic nila gentleman dating na walang holding hands man lang. and they let the girl fall for them para later na sila mag Attack once you?ve fallen and defenseless ka na.
Unfair din on my part kasi ang daming questions. What if sincerely type nga ako? Iiiwan niya ba gf niya for me? I hate mind games. It's time to confront him. If he cannot be honest on his feelings, I am out.
Feel free to share your thoughts. Patawad ulit sa pagiging marupok ko. :-(
Sis talagang unfair, if the guy is truly genuinely someone for you, he won?t put you in this position.
Iq-quote ko ulit ah
If he cannot be honest on his feelings, I am out.
Feel free to share your thoughts. Patawad ulit sa pagiging marupok ko. :-(
IF HE CANNOT BE HONEST ON HIS FEELINGS... YOU?RE OUT.
As of this point, do you think he has been honest? Hindi di ba? But you?re still not out.
At the same time, even if you confront him, you won?t know and will never know if his words are truthful.
But you won?t know also until you have proof na iniwan na totally Si gf.
Kaya para sakin talaga no point to ask. Let him be. Huwag mo madaliin kasi turn off din sa guys na pinepressure mo sya.
If he genuinely likes you, he will break it off with his gf and pursue you. All you need to do is WAIT. Wait ka nalang, no need to confront or be aggressive since it?s a put off. To be honest this is one of my learnings din when I was dating. The more I don?t ask, the more I detach myself, feeling ko Mas willing ka ipursue ng guys. Pero Mas lalo Mong pigain, if they?re not ready, lalo lang sila lalayo and Hindi ka na cool kasama.
Think about your strategy. if you want a happy ending, I don?t think asking is the right strategy.
By staying away and not asking
1. You?re still cool
2. You will really know if his intentions are genuine since he will do everything in his power to win you and obvious you won?t entertain him since he has a gf
3. You will make him less of an *sshole by breaking it off first with his gf before pursuing you. Unlike now, he is really a jerk.
By asking naman:
1. He will just leave you more confused. Kasi sa sabihin din naman nya sayo ang totoo if he is ready so you don?t need to ask
2. You won?t know din naman kung totoo Sabi nya o hindi kasi pilit. Hindi natural or bukal sa loob nya magshare.
3. And like I said, if you?re a girl, it?s not a cool thing to do
4. If he said he likes you, then what?
Sabihin mo iwan nya gf nya? Totally not right eh. Dapat maisip nya yun at di mo idikta.
What if he says he likes you at tumatiming Lang sya na iiwan nya gf nya? May magagawa ka ba? How do you know it?s true?
Wala talo ka in all aspects. Kahit ano pa isagot nya sa Tanong mo.
