Online Dating (Thread 2)

[Apple1230]

^nakaka curious naman. What happened ba sis?

ok kung ano feel mo gawin but think many times din muna kasi baka pag sisihan mo. Ganun tayo minsan nakakapag sabi and nakakagawa ng mga bagay in the heat of the moment tapos we regret it after. Nadadala tayo ng emotions. Tsaka confirmed ba yan?

Anyway goodluck sis, i am sure he is getting what he deserves from you.

[lalee888]

^wow. you are right, that's not acceptable but tama din yung ibang sisters dito, you deserve better so just cut him off.

it sounds like this guy was looking for a side chick while he was in a committed relationship. sounds like the actual gf (or wife) does not even know and thinks all is fine between them.

from one woman to another, in as much as I do not like to meddle, i like the idea of women helping each other. if this happened to me, i'd like to know and i'd like to leave the scumbag in the dust. so kung dalawa kayong girl iiwan sya sa ere, good outcome yun. Yun nga lang we don't know how the other woman will handle it or what the outcome will be.

Either way good luck, and cut this guy off your life completely. Nobody deserves this, and don't be an accessory to someone's misery either.

[otra_vez]

^ nakakainis nga yan. i have a lot of single friends and frankly, we're at a point in our lives na din kasi where we have no patience for BS. madali naman kausap ang babae in general. if all they want is fun, just say it. wag yang madaming pa-seryoso effect pa because sometimes, we just want to have fun lang din. you deserve waaay better and byers na talaga sa kanya.

hay kaya minsan mas ok na lang talaga bumili ng dildo lol.

[mysterioza_me]

^^Si same Pinay din ba yung girl na naanakan ni athlete?

[young_maiden]

I reinstalled Tinder. Inalala ko mga payo nyo sa akin, mga sis.

I matched with a guy na law graduate. I tried to engage him in a meaningful conversation. Pinagtyagaan ko unlike before na super impatient ako. Ok naman siya. We get along.

Then he admitted na he saw me na pala in person. Nung November 2017 daw, we were introduced by a common friend sa Century Peak Hotel. I was embarassed kasi di ko talaga siya maalala. Eh siya daw basta maganda naalala niya. Bolero lang eh. LOL.

Binalikan ko mga posts ko with our common friends. Napansin ko isa pala siya sa mga nagla-like. Pag tinatag ko kasi common friends namin sa posts ko, syempre lalabas sa timeline nya na yung common friends namin ay nakatag sa posts ko.

Araw-araw ko na siya kausap. He added me sa fb and I accepted.

I am not expecting anything naman. Enjoy lang ako sa pag-uusap namin. Kung di man mauwi sa romance ito, at least may bago akong kaibigan. :-) :-)

[kvandenhaak]

^^Yuppers!

^Uuuy, I smell romance! 

[young_maiden]

^ We will see, sis. Hehe. Basta for now enjoy muna ako sa pag-uusap namin.

I am not expecting kasi sa ngayon he is reviewing for the bar exam. Super busy sa studies. Ayoko naman siya totally i-distract. Baka bumagsak. tee hee!.

Usually sa gabi kami magkachat ng matagal kasi ako rest na sa work. Siya naman rest na sa studies. Pero sa umaga at hapon, magsisend iyan ng short messages like kumain na daw ako o good afternoon.

Ang importante din single siya. Wala ako naapakang ibang tao. :-D :-D

[Apple1230]

^Nice sis. At least may common friend kayo so kahit paano hindi mo siya pag dudahan. Yeah don't expect anything just enjoy it. Kung may something na mabuo it will happen organically naman. He has not asked you out?

The guy i met on tinder we will go out again this sat. 3rd date namin pero lahat ng weekend at holidays ng august nag sched na siya na magkikita kame. He calls every night. Nung 2nd date ko lang actually nalaman kung ano talaga ang work niya. High ranking government official siya. He asked me last night to join him sa conrad hotel kasi he has a meeting with a delegate from morocco. Sabi ko busy ako sa work.

Wholesome ang interaction namin hindi siya bastos or nag ta try maka score whatsoever. I made him aware of my standards and clear din ang sex. No sex outside of a comitted relationship and  no relationship kung walang love. I am not desperate and i am just fine and as happy being single. If he wants sex there are plenty of girls out there that are willing with very minimum effort on his part so he can carry on. No need to waste both our time. So if he is going to stick around it is definitely not for the sex.

Side not: i am not promoting tinder at all, there are other online dating sites that are way better. I was about to delete it na when i met this guy. i was even brushing him off kasi di ko type itsura niya but he is handsome kinukuha siyang model ng car ads. Sa 100 guys maybe 2 are ok. Super dami na kasi ng tao na andun. May mga guys pa nga na ang pangit talaga,  dad bod or tabachoy tapos nakalagay looking for fun. Yuck naman. Madami din dun married. May stigma kasi ang tinder na hook up site siya so karamihan ng guys na naghahanap ng easy lay dun nakatambay. Kaya ingat din. Be smart and observant and stick to your own values and standards.

[young_maiden]

Not yet, sis. Sa ngayon kasi nasa province siya. Kung nandito siya sa manila, magkalapit lang condo namin. 2 LRT stations lang ang pagitan. Update ako dito if he asks me out. :-)

[mysterioza_me]

Kalerks si same Pinay pala yun. Akala ko ayaw niya na dun. Anyare? Lib*g is lifer ba si koyah kaya nabuntis niya or charot lang na hiwalay sila nun?! Sarap pabigyan ng 5mins walang-humpay na sapak from Berna.

[mysterioza_me]

^Lol. Stuck na si athlete sa Pinay. Panindigan nalang niya nakadalawa na siya e haha.

[Girltalker2]

ok kung ano feel mo gawin but think many times din muna kasi baka pag sisihan mo. Ganun tayo minsan nakakapag sabi and nakakagawa ng mga bagay in the heat of the moment tapos we regret it after. Nadadala tayo ng emotions. Tsaka confirmed ba yan?

What is there to think about if you know in your gut that the guy is an *sshole

[kvandenhaak]

^Not even gut feeling, confirmed! He admitted it though.

[Girltalker2]

^ before you posted your story, we assumed gutfeel.

Ang nakakainis pa kasi he wasn?t honest at all. To think wala ka naman hinahabol sa kanya and you we?re clear from the start about honesty. He doesn?t have anything at stake naman at you?re not after a future with him.

@ young maiden, good luck to you sis. Basta keep your options open. Hanggang sa hindi ka pa taken at wala naman firm proposal from a guy you like, continue meeting other people.

[eischied_21]

Hi everyone,

I just wanted to say that I love meeting people online, getting to know them further in chat and even in a more deeper level when I meet them in person. 

Well, ang nakaka-inis lang ay yung interested nga sa iyo dahil sa nakita ang pic mo at nabasa ang mga sinusulat mo online pero pagdating sa chat eh puro "Good Morning" o kaya puro heart icon at smileys ..."Good Evening"

I prefer to be civil na lang and be nice hahaha, sinasagot ko na lang ng parehas na greeting o kasing ikli ng message niya.

I can relate. There was this one guy na consistent ang pagchat saken pero puro Good morning lang naman sinasabi. Once nagreply ako ng may sense like asking something ang tagal pa ng reply tipong mag wait ka ng 3 more hours bago magreply. I don't like to chat him anymore pero I wonder why waste time sending good morning. Hirap din talaga intindihin ng guys minsan.

[kutitapkiss]

I reinstalled Tinder. Inalala ko mga payo nyo sa akin, mga sis.

I matched with a guy na law graduate. I tried to engage him in a meaningful conversation. Pinagtyagaan ko unlike before na super impatient ako. Ok naman siya. We get along.

Then he admitted na he saw me na pala in person. Nung November 2017 daw, we were introduced by a common friend sa Century Peak Hotel. I was embarassed kasi di ko talaga siya maalala. Eh siya daw basta maganda naalala niya. Bolero lang eh. LOL.

Binalikan ko mga posts ko with our common friends. Napansin ko isa pala siya sa mga nagla-like. Pag tinatag ko kasi common friends namin sa posts ko, syempre lalabas sa timeline nya na yung common friends namin ay nakatag sa posts ko.

Araw-araw ko na siya kausap. He added me sa fb and I accepted.

I am not expecting anything naman. Enjoy lang ako sa pag-uusap namin. Kung di man mauwi sa romance ito, at least may bago akong kaibigan. :-) :-)

I?m glad to read this. Go sis! Enjoy and again, try to be more open. Malay mo yan na yun 😉

^^ ugh. Men. What a douche bag.

[Apple1230]

eischied_21 pag ganun yung guy it means low level of interest. nagpapa pansin lang and baka send to many yun. kasi tayong mga girls we get lots of messages from guys online so malamang sila din they send lots of the same generic messages to women to see who will bite the bait. and pag ganun puro greetings lang it means nag te-test sila which girl yung mag e-effort or kung desperate ba yung girl so she will try to make small talks or ask lots of questions.

[ilovejdy]

Met my ex thru tinder
Kaso things didn?t go well
because hindi siya pwede sa long distance. So ayun, nakahanap ng bago na kababayan niya, from Austria.

Anyway, we?re not in bad terms naman. Pero ako na yung umiwas at hindi na nakipag usap ever. Although he still follows my ig and fb posts and likes them.

Back on topic, online dating,
which site or app is so far mas okay
yung may mahahanap pa na matino kausap?

[Apple1230]

Back on topic, online dating,
which site or app is so far mas okay
yung may mahahanap pa na matino kausap?

Best is try different sites and apps kasi you will never know unless you try. Iba iba kasi experience deppende sa tao. Also sa age din. How old are you na ba?

I know someone they met sa okcupid they are engaged now both in their 30's. Girl looks like jasmsine curtis, si boy never mind. Hehe. But he makes her happy laging may pa flowers si guy.

Kahit saan site may ok at hindi ok, just like in real life may ok at hindi ok na tao. What is important is you know what you are looking for. And you know your values and standards. Also a positive outlook in life is a plus.

[eischied_21]

^^^muka naman hindi send to many may pagka-personal ng konti yun message pero wala talagang content yun usapan namen. We've been chatting since Feb pero once in a while ang chat, two months ago lang yun napansin ko na napapadalas message nya saken and consistent ang good morning and asking if kumain na ako. Pero ang hirap lang din kasi once gs2 ko makipagkwentuhan ang tagal ng reply tipong after 3 hours pa or worst the following day pa. Although sinasabi naman nya na super busy sya sa work. Anyway, pinagtiyatiyagaan ko na lang din and I'm not expecting naman since 6.5 younger than me and may looks kasi haha. Muka din mabait and religious