Online Dating (Thread 2)

[kvandenhaak]

Update: She left him. I wasn't expecting that. I thought she's gonna stay. He is so mad at me calling me names...lol!

[young_maiden]

I ghosted the guy I met sa tinder na nagkataong kilala na pala ako dati pa.

I got bored. Hahaha. Ang mean ko.

[kutitapkiss]

^^ bat sha nagalit sayo?

^ aw why? No spark?

[young_maiden]

Naturn off ako. Tinanong ba naman vital statistics ko. Tapos humihirit ng kiss pag nagkita daw kami.

I asked our common friend din about him. Sabi ng friend namin wag ko daw sana patulan. Malandi daw talaga si guy at medyo feeler.

Dahil ayoko magsayang ng oras, di ko na pinansin messages nya.

[Girltalker2]

Update: She left him. I wasn't expecting that. I thought she's gonna stay. He is so mad at me calling me names...lol!

Lol!
Buti nga sa kanya. Sya kaya nauna. May Gana pa sya magalit? G*go kaya sya!

[kvandenhaak]

I was talking to the girl til 1am and OMG, I was shocked again! There's a HUGE TWIST!

[lalee888]

^anong sabi nung girl? I'm curious ano perspective nya and iiwan ba nya si guy? What about the kids? Did she have a sense na may side gigs ang bf nya? Was she thankful to you, teary? Update.

[mysterioza_me]

^JuiceKo mukhang juicy ito.

[Girltalker2]

^ i remember you saw his Dad ba iyon one time?  Sa house nya? And they didn?t say a word about this.

I thought it was a good proof na single sya.

[Girltalker2]

Buti nalang your Son hasn?t met him yet.

True sis, nasa sa girl talaga if she is ready to move on or continue to suffer. Nasa disadvantaged position din sya kasi she got pregnant nang di pa sila Kasal (I?m assuming they?re not married). Worst, dinagdagan pa nya.

Puede pa sya makawala though, she can probably file for child support? Mas ok naman justice system dyan kesa pinas.

[Apple1230]

^That is one giant mess she is in pero may anak kasi sila 2 pa so i guess we cannot blame her for doing what she does. She confides in you kasi gusto niya may nasasabihan but that?s all she wants. To talk about it coz she feels better afterwards. Not to fix things or be rescued but to just ramble on and on and nothing else.

May ganyan din kasi akong close friend hilig tumawag sakin para mag reklamo sa fiance niya but she is not doing anything then 1 day i told her stop complaining kung wala ka naman gagawin na action and she cannot call me to complain anymore. Ang bigat kasi sa pakiramdam after mag usap parang nilipat sakin  yung burden. Napaka nega lang ng energy, nakaka drain. Ngayon hindi na siya tumatawag puro text na lang, minsan i reply minsan hindi.

It is up to you if you want to feed on their drama but know that she just needs a sounding board. That?s all you are to her. She will not leave him, she will attach herself to him for as long as she can. Something about pinays na may ganung quality. Not all but most. She got into this mess only she can get herself out of it.  Kahit anong advice mo sa kanya it will just fall on deaf ears. We all know that and we have all been there.

[Apple1230]

^Yeah for entertainment value na lang and out of curiosity on your part siguro.

[mysterioza_me]

^wala bang work si Pinay sis kaya ganyan ang desisyon niya na magstay muna? Baka madagdagan pa baby nila if di pa niya hihiwalayan for good si guy.

[mysterioza_me]

^Iba talaga ang mga Pinay pagdating sa pagiging matiyaga at martir. Sana magbago si guy. Parang tatlo na ang magiging anak ni girl at si athlete ang panganay.

[amethyst028]

^sorry to hear that sis. tagal niyo rin nag date. ano na nangyari sa inyo ni athlete? nag usap pa ba kayo? you think the girl is telling about the things you talked about?

may experience kasi akong ganyan yung ex ko hindi ko alam na may gf pala kasi nag work abroad yung girl. nung bumalik dito siyempre inamin na ni ex no choice na siya. the girl found out and called me sa phone. gusto pa nga sana makipag meet ng girl but she cancelled last minute. turns out lahat pala ng napag usapan namin kinu kwento niya sa ex ko.

may mga lalake talagang ganyan walang morals. parang tingin niya he is God's gift to women. usually mga tamad sila pa yung babaero. madami kasi silang time to fool around.

[Apple1230]

to stay on topic, mag ingat talaga sa mga na me-meet online lalo na sa mga newbie here or sa mga gusto mag try. online dating is not all that bad kaso may mga guys that are extra charming and knows all the right things to say sometimes so be extra careful.

but there are still plenty of good guys out there that means well. mga mailinis ang intention. for me as long as it's clear what you are both looking for and kung same kayo ng gusto then go for it.

short update lang sa moroccan guy, we are doing great. he is consistent sa calls and texts, i cancelled on him twice sa out of town trip (day trip lang) coz of work and i kinda told him this weekend na lang but i don't think i can go coz of work ulit. i still don't know how to tell him.

i don't expect or assume anything when i date. i take things at face value, it is what it is and i don't read too much into it. time will tell kung ano mangyayari basta ako happy lang ke meron o wala. parehas lang sa akin ang may lovelife at single. both are the best of times.

[kvandenhaak]

Back to my topic...lol! Member ako ng FB page ng mga Pinoys here in our city. The girls he's been with are members too. He was telling me not to bother when I told him that I will ask the Pinoy community kung may nakakakilala sa kanya....hahaha!

[Girltalker2]

May family meeting daw sila kagabi or today ata so syempre #chismismode na naman ako. She tells me everything. She told me everything.

Actually as of this point, she just has to leave. Wala naman syang choice. If not now, eventually. Unless she wants this life na magulo, at kahiya hiya din.

Di ba nahihiya Si girl sa pinagagagawa ni athlete?  Kaya paulit ulit lang gawa ni athlete kasi alam nya lagi naman andyan yung girl. Parang pinapamukha nga sa kanya na babaero, and yet she sticks around pa na parang mukhang t^nga.

[Girltalker2]

^ yaan mo na sila
I think best thing is you?re out of it and ready to move on.
Treat it as lesson learned din siguro. At this day and age, mainam siguro don?t drag the floating relationship too long. Setting a timeline kaya would work?
Feeling ko kasi dami guys available. Nasasayang talaga oras natin if we tie down to one guy na hindi naman made up pa mind nya to commit pa.
Idk, it?s just my thoughts.
But I wish you all the best sis. Pag napadpad ako Canada, pm Kita! 😊

[AprilGal26]

Girls, sorry if you guys will take this question so stupid. Ang rude ba when you  blocked or bigla na lang hindi ka nagparamdam dun sa guy na nakilala mo through OD? 

Anong take nyo when it comes to chatting? kasi honestly medyo ang bagal or chatting using the Dating app itself is kinda different than talking using those real chatting apps like viber, whatsapp etc.
I think yun yung mali ko. Cause I usually use chatting apps talaga in getting-to-know the guy more.
Then, after a week or more, either mawawalan ako ng interest or sya without even saying goodbye or what. There was a guy na nagalit sakin dahil bigla na lang akong hindi nagparamdam but I didn't block him (inconsistent din kasi yung communication).
Para tuloy gusto ko na magpalit ng number kasi I've given my number to men na nakilala sa dating app I am using right now
Tapos yung biglang may magpaparamdam ulit, may mawawala, may iiwasan 
kayo? gano nyo katagal dapat kachat muna sa Dating App before ibigay number nyo? Tyaga na lanf siguro pagchachat sa Dating app