Online Dating (Thread 2)

[NeilRudecat]

Hi everyone,

I just wanted to say that I love meeting people online, getting to know them further in chat and even in a more deeper level when I meet them in person. 

Well, ang nakaka-inis lang ay yung interested nga sa iyo dahil sa nakita ang pic mo at nabasa ang mga sinusulat mo online pero pagdating sa chat eh puro "Good Morning" o kaya puro heart icon at smileys ..."Good Evening"

I prefer to be civil na lang and be nice hahaha, sinasagot ko na lang ng parehas na greeting o kasing ikli ng message niya.

[kvandenhaak]

^Ayoko kasi ma-addict sa ganyan.

[NeilRudecat]

hehe alam natin na maraming guys na addict sa online gaming ...at first love nila yun ...and their first love never dies hahaha. 

It's a sure sign of immaturity if a guy is still very much hooked on online games ...much more engaged in those things ...than actual personal interaction.

I hope I am not misinterpreted here.  I used to be a gamer.  I spent hours and even days playing online games.  I don't do that anymore.  I value people and relationships more.

[Bridgette*]

Maybe yes, maybe no. My brother is 39 and he still plays online games/video games. Likewise for myself. We don't spend most of our time playing, but being engaged on those things doesn't mean immaturity. We value people, relationships, interactions and experiences more. It really depends on the person, on the personality.

^Ayoko kasi ma-addict sa ganyan.

It's fun na once in a while ma-divert yung attention mo sa ibang things, wag ka mag-addict pampalipas oras lang dapat haha  But video games are better. 

[kvandenhaak]

^I would like to avoid screen time after work as much as possible. Besides, I am in that age that my priorities are different. I would rather cross stitch if I have the time.

[Shadow Angel]

I have a friend na ang partner nya addict sa video games as in pag off days nya inuumaga na Sa pag lalaro. Recently muntik ng mag alsa balutan ang friend ko. Kasi magkasa nga sila sa bahay di naman sila nakakapag usap ng matino. No quality time. Tapos ayaw lumabas ng bahay ayaw ng mga outdoor activities. Kaya si friend sa amin na lang sumasama para gumala.

[amethyst028]

^parang sobrang addict naman nun sa online games.

Yung brother ko i think meets girls thru online games. Kasi hindi naman siya madalas lumalabas pero nagkaka gf. Hehe. He is actually a catch, dingdong dantes look alike, tall and maputi. Engineer and businessman.

Pero bihira lang ata ang girls na mahilig sa online games. And i personally would not date a guy who is into this kung single ako.   

[kvandenhaak]

^Usually siguro mga Millennials and excusable. Pero pag mga age ko, not attractive at all. Dati kong classmates married a Puerto Rican, addict sa online games. The only thing he does is work and play online games. At least me trabaho but they aren't a family. Kasi work from 7am to 2pm tapos pagdating ng bahay ng 3pm online games na hanggang madaling araw...EVERY SINGLE DAY! It's sad!

[Shadow Angel]

^ganyan din ang partner ng friend ko Canadian un partner nya.

[Travelionbabe]

Met a guy on bumble maganda naman ang convos namin Hindi dry... pero ang bagal nya mag reply nakakainis hahah.  Yung iba hey, hello small talk [textspeak!] ang dry Wala akong gana mag conversate. Idk gusto ko na idelete ang app nakakasawa.

[angeljolie]

angeljolie: How are things? And the rest of the girls as well?

As for me, I think the athlete is seeing someone else now. We were chatting a lot pa naman last week lang and we were planning to have a sleep over. Bilis din minsan ng pangyayari. Am I hurt? A little bit but not devastating. I wasn't expecting it to last anyway. I am sure though he will miss me at some point.

I swear ang tagal ko na gustong magpost dito hehe. Pero every time I try, something would always come up. Anyway, things are going well with me and the new guy (and he's the ONLY guy now). Diniretsa ko na si chef na mukhang wala naman kaming future so I won't put my life on hold for something that might not even be there. Sumagot pa sya but I made up my mind na ayoko na so hindi ko na sya pinansin.

Kumusta si athlete? Ganyan pa din ba ang kutob mo to this day?

[AprilGal26]

I dated a Persian guy pero born and raised in Sweden. We dated thrice then I stopped messaging him kasi sobrang intense nya and ang bilis bilis.. Di ko alam kung nabibigla lang ba ako. Masyado nyang dinidibdib yung "sa amin"? Hindi pa man kami, ang possessive na. Nagagalit na agad sakin, may away na agad. At first, sinasakyan ko lang yung mga idea nya na gusto na nya magka-baby and magpakasal ASAP. I didn't expect kasi na super serious sya on finding someone to marry and have kids. He even asked me if i want him to spnd for my annulment. Alam mo yun? parang malilito ka sa intentions nya na baka pinapasakay lang nya ko. Tapos naghabol pa din sya ng naghabol. Right now, parang nagiguilty ako na pinalampas ko sya, lol (ang gulo ko hahaha)
Kasi after meeting other guys, di pa ulit ako nakaka-encounter na katulad ni Persian guy. Pero anyway, ok lang. Maybe we're not meant talaga.

[xiannasofia]

may dating site ba na hindi app sa mobile? like sa desktop lang talaga? ayoko kasi i-dowload sa mobile ko hehe. yung parang libangan ko lang dito sa office lol

[kvandenhaak]

^Most are web compatible naman like Tinder, Badoo, Plenty of Fish, etc.

[Apple1230]

Kamusta na mga sis! Long time. I got busy and a lot things happened din.

Just an update, it did not work with me and my ex. But we ended it mutually no hard feelings. He is very busy with work, legit na work talaga na prove ko naman.

Anyway i tried bumble for a while mga 1 week siguro but i deleted it din. Since you get to say hi first parang the guys there are expecting that you will move the conversation along. I don't know basta parang off lang siya for me. And i get a sense that guys here are expecting to hook up easier.

I met a guy sa tinder and we have been chatting for some time, mga mababaw questions lang like anong work etc. he is moroccan, may phd and works for the government. He was asigned here to have dealings with the philippine government. He was asigned to italy, france, norway etc so open minded siya. We met last weekend, it went well naman. He is consistent, ma text at call siya. we are seeing each other again this coming weekend.

Also yung ex celebrity guy that i dated before panay pa rin ang pag message. Parang booty call lang nung una kasi panay ang invite sakin sa condo niya ng gabi. Minsan past 12mn na. Tinatawanan ko lang siya tapos tinutulugan. Ngayon dami nang tanong at gusto ako puntahan sa bahay ko. Deadma ko na lang pag ganon na usapan. Baka na cha-challenge lang si kuya, hindi siya sanay na hindi niya nakukuha gusto niya.   

[kvandenhaak]

OH MY GOD!!! I AM IN TOTAL SHOCK!!!

#cliffhangermuna

[kvandenhaak]

The drama continues. Kung pwede lang i-FB live! Sabi ng wag ako gagalitin eh!

[Apple1230]

^what happened sis? Si athlete ba 'to? Kwento naman kahit konti.

[Apple1230]

^sabi mo sis hindi naman kayo serious diba? Unless may agreement kayo to be exclusive na. Regarding telling the girl, tell her what exactly?

I am not the type to involve other people kasi so kung ako yan i won't tell her kasi ma bad shot ka din kay athlete if you do that. He will hate you for it. If you want to burn bridges then go ahead pero kung gusto mo pa na maging ok kayo maybe it is not a good idea. Tsaka baka pag ginawa mo iyan mas lalo pa sila maging close.

[Girltalker2]

^ past gf
All this time he is with someone?

Or may new girl sya?

Either way, I don?t think you need this mess from him. Ditch him. Hanap ka nalang iba, I?m sure May mahanap ka pa na better.

But don?t ditch him just like that. I agree with you... dapat managot sya kahit papano.