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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #660 on: July 28, 2019, 12:18:28 am »
Hi Everyone  I would like to ask ba like how would you know a 2nd date would happen? like will the guy initiate ba right away? Cause I met this guy online, before meeting him we were texting for a week mga hello and good mornings, nag lunch kana ba? , good night and anything under the sun.
 
  Anyways  that night kasi suddenly na putol moment namin (we were just talking about stuff and getting closer kasi magkatabi kami, like his arms were around na sa chair ko)  we were in a place na view ang city but na putol kasi almost 12mn na and my mom would want me to go home na so hinatid niya ako and he also texted me na he just arrived and good night.
 So sa morning rin he texted me good morning hanggang gabi.  At night time na it was around 8pm na ata  I asked him if okay lang siya kasi he doesn't say that much sa text like he used to or baka paranoid lang ako. He replied Sorry late reply kasi naglalaro pa siya siya ng M.L. ( mobile legends).   So ako sabi ko rin Ayy sorry na distract ka sa kaka text ko.  But guys I don't know why but I was kinda bothered kasi he replied after  "Bukas na lang tayo text kung hindi na ako busy" and "Good night"   I'ts not the first time naman na nag apologise siya for late
reply  kasi naglaro siya ng M.L. There was a time late siya maka reply  because of that.

 Is it just me or he finds it clingy lang ? na nag rereply ako and ask him stuff  :( :( :( :(  That day rin after kami nagkita he did not asked me if nag lunch na ba ako which he usually asks   :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(      I don't know, I'm confused.  I just had fun  kasi when we met like all the chitchat and bantering.      I even told him pa nga sayang hindi ko na picture ang city view that night when we went there sa mountain park  (It was my hint na I want to go back ) sabi naman niya may marami pa naman na chance next time.
  The day after we met he did not ask me na he wants to see me again or planned for another date, Guys will you say it right away sa naka date niyo na girl?  or give it ilang days or weeks  telling her na you want so see her again?   
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #661 on: July 28, 2019, 10:09:57 am »
He replied Sorry late reply kasi naglalaro pa siya siya ng M.L. ( mobile legends).
RUN!!! :D

Though iba iba ang lalaki i always believe na kapag gusto ka niya hindi magbabago agad agad yan especially after niyo magkita. Kung gusto ka niya ganyan din dapat siya katulad mo na eager magtext at mahilig mangumusta, clingy man o hindi normal yan sa umuusbong na relationship at kung hindi siya ganyan sayo isa lang ibig sabihin niyan sis..

Kung ako sa iyo tigilan mo na rin muna pagtetext, hayaan mong siya maginitiate ng conversation niyo sa susunod and try to focus sa ibang bagay para di ka naghihintay sa kanya. Wag kang magexpect na may susunod na date, assume na wala na. Ganito na karamihan ng lalaki, igegerald anderson ka na lang hanggang sa mawalan ka na rin ng ganang magtext.. Bantayan mo puso mo, wag mafall agad ha.
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #662 on: July 28, 2019, 11:15:18 am »
^^Kung feeling mo nag-iba siya (in a negative way) after ng first date ninyo wag ka ng umasa na may second date, masasaktan ka lang.
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #663 on: July 28, 2019, 12:55:35 pm »
RUN!!! :D

Though iba iba ang lalaki i always believe na kapag gusto ka niya hindi magbabago agad agad yan especially after niyo magkita. Kung gusto ka niya ganyan din dapat siya katulad mo na eager magtext at mahilig mangumusta, clingy man o hindi normal yan sa umuusbong na relationship at kung hindi siya ganyan sayo isa lang ibig sabihin niyan sis..

Kung ako sa iyo tigilan mo na rin muna pagtetext, hayaan mong siya maginitiate ng conversation niyo sa susunod and try to focus sa ibang bagay para di ka naghihintay sa kanya. Wag kang magexpect na may susunod na date, assume na wala na. Ganito na karamihan ng lalaki, igegerald anderson ka na lang hanggang sa mawalan ka na rin ng ganang magtext.. Bantayan mo puso mo, wag mafall agad ha.


I was thinking too na I'll keep myself busy. Saklap lang I thought he had fun too oh well. I mean we were laughing, him giving me high five and bantering pero hindi naman yun guarantee :-(


^^Kung feeling mo nag-iba siya (in a negative way) after ng first date ninyo wag ka ng umasa na may second date, masasaktan ka lang.

 Yun nga he did not text me today :-(  I really wanted to text him so baad.  Although he texted yesterday.  I'm a bit disappointed for expecting.
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #664 on: July 28, 2019, 01:57:35 pm »
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If a guy really enjoyed the date he would've asked you for a second one before you guys went your separate ways. Usually yan ang clear cut sign na gusto ka talaga nya
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #665 on: July 28, 2019, 02:00:33 pm »
@ Saqqara

kapag sa unang pagkikita at attracted agad sayo ang guy, sila ang eager magkaron ng 2nd date. at yung consistency level nila ay mas umaangat. ngayon, kapag medjo nanlamig at nag lay low na maybe hindi na meet yung expectations which is una na jan yung physical attraction..

move forward na, wag mo hayaan masayang ang oras at panahon mo sa mga taong hindi naman interesado sayo. mahirap ipilit ang isang bagay na hindi naman fit. tsaka kung sakali man, kilalanin mo muna Mabuti yung taong papapasukin mo sa buhay mo. it is worth na mag invest ka ng medjo matagal na oras sa pagkilala sa tao kung ang plano mo naman eh pang matagalan na relasyon.

na out of topic ata. haha! sori naman?.
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #666 on: July 28, 2019, 02:26:07 pm »
Thanks sa mga advices niyo po mga sis and bro  :)


@ Saqqara


move forward na, wag mo hayaan masayang ang oras at panahon mo sa mga taong hindi naman interesado sayo. mahirap ipilit ang isang bagay na hindi naman fit. tsaka kung sakali man, kilalanin mo muna Mabuti yung taong papapasukin mo sa buhay mo. it is worth na mag invest ka ng medjo matagal na oras sa pagkilala sa tao kung ang plano mo naman eh pang matagalan na relasyon.

na out of topic ata. haha! sori naman?.


 Hahah okay lang po @three8one hindi naman out of topic  ;D  You're right huwag ipilit talaga. Naninibago lang siguro ako kasi after years na wala akong matinong ka date heto may nag invite at may someone na nag check on me everyday through text eh pa fall naman pala  hmppph  :-[ :-[ :-[ :(   Sa mga previous kasi pa hookup2x  lang ako, I even asked advice here last year  :D :D ;D ;D ;D  Thank God I moved on from that sh***y experience.  I just feel a little bad we're not on the same page pala  :-[.
 
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #667 on: July 28, 2019, 06:43:02 pm »
^ give him a chance baka nga busy lang din, malay mo naman..

pero hello! ML over you? hehe.. sabay kabig eh noh.. pag yun ang reason nya aba! marami ng t**** tangahan na babae. wag mo na dagdagan ang bilang please?! haha! joke lang.. basta, wag kang mag expect ng too much para di ka ma dissapoint ng bongga. pag lalake ang lumalapit kailangan sila ang mas ma effort kesa sa babae.

okay lang yan, matuto ka sa mga previous experienced mo at gamitin mo yun para di ka magkamali sa pag pili ng tamang lalake makakasundo mo.  :D
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #668 on: July 28, 2019, 07:33:35 pm »

I was thinking too na I'll keep myself busy. Saklap lang I thought he had fun too oh well. I mean we were laughing, him giving me high five and bantering pero hindi naman yun guarantee :-(


 Yun nga he did not text me today :-(  I really wanted to text him so baad.  Although he texted yesterday.  I'm a bit disappointed for expecting.

Having fun on the date is just that, you are enjoying each other's company at the moment. Yung follow up it is up to the guy to pursue you. Maybe he felt an energy about you, baka you are giving off a clingy/needy vibe or that you want a relationship so bad vibes.

Actually ganyan ako dati, naka 8 na first date ata ako in 6months, it did not turn into
anything. That was the time na nag self reflect ako, and i realized na may mali sa ginagawa ko. I was not happy with myself and i am looking for a relationship hoping na yun ang pupuno sa mga kulang sa buhay ko.

I started working on myself first before i dated again. Ayun the next guy i went out with hindi na ako pinakawalan. Halfway through the date nagpapa sched na ng next. If the guy is into you there is no guessing game. Hindi mo kailangan mag wonder kung kelan siya mag te-text kasi panay ang text niyan at laging mag aaya magkita. Ikaw na ang tatanggi sa sobrang ka kulitan ng guy. He will initiate everything wala ka kailangan gawin.

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« Reply #669 on: July 28, 2019, 11:29:26 pm »
^ give him a chance baka nga busy lang din, malay mo naman..

pero hello! ML over you? hehe.. sabay kabig eh noh.. pag yun ang reason nya aba! marami ng t**** tangahan na babae. wag mo na dagdagan ang bilang please?! haha! joke lang.. basta, wag kang mag expect ng too much para di ka ma dissapoint ng bongga. pag lalake ang lumalapit kailangan sila ang mas ma effort kesa sa babae.

okay lang yan, matuto ka sa mga previous experienced mo at gamitin mo yun para di ka magkamali sa pag pili ng tamang lalake makakasundo mo.  :D

:-* :-*   ;) :) :) hahaha    ;D ;D ;D Yes learned my lesson not to expect that much kahit nag text na siya now hehe.


I started working on myself first before i dated again. Ayun the next guy i went out with hindi na ako pinakawalan. Halfway through the date nagpapa sched na ng next. If the guy is into you there is no guessing game. Hindi mo kailangan mag wonder kung kelan siya mag te-text kasi panay ang text niyan at laging mag aaya magkita. Ikaw na ang tatanggi sa sobrang ka kulitan ng guy. He will initiate everything wala ka kailangan gawin.


Wow sis Thanks for the advice ,dami mo pala na kiss na frogs before the PRINCE . Cute naman ng story niyo yung ayaw ka pakawalan at kinukulit talaga. I hope I get to experience that.
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #670 on: July 29, 2019, 01:14:20 pm »
<br hehe hindi naman first time yun na late nag reply because of M.L. pero dba hmmm mas bongga naman ako kaysa sa M.L.    :-* :-* :-*   ;) :) :) hahaha    ;D ;D ;D Yes learned my lesson not to expect that much kahit nag text na siya now hehe.

Eh di miow! shami ng mingot! hahaha.. (biro lang) thanks sa pag update sa amin. hehe!

good for you, pareho pa din ba ng pakiramdam/kilig nun una mo sya naka message tsaka yung ngayon? after mo makabasa ng mga comments dito? haha!
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #671 on: July 29, 2019, 04:05:40 pm »
<br hehe hindi naman first time yun na late nag reply because of M.L. pero dba hmmm mas bongga naman ako kaysa sa M.L.    :-* :-* :-*   ;) :) :) hahaha    ;D ;D ;D Yes learned my lesson not to expect that much kahit nag text na siya now hehe.
 

gawain din ng babae yan, pag ML over the guy, game over na. :D

pero I agree sa guys dito, usually pag sa first meet up and then before kayo maghiwalay ng landas eh nag ask kung kelan ulit kayo magkikita, then, he really likes you. if not, then, he is not that into you.

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #672 on: July 30, 2019, 05:24:02 pm »
Eh di miow! shami ng mingot! hahaha.. (biro lang) thanks sa pag update sa amin. hehe!

good for you, pareho pa din ba ng pakiramdam/kilig nun una mo sya naka message tsaka yung ngayon? after mo makabasa ng mga comments dito? haha!


Hahaha parang nag doubt na ako  :-\ ;D :D   hahaha anyways I'm not forcing anything naman. Whatever will be will be.



gawain din ng babae yan, pag ML over the guy, game over na. :D

pero I agree sa guys dito, usually pag sa first meet up and then before kayo maghiwalay ng landas eh nag ask kung kelan ulit kayo magkikita, then, he really likes you. if not, then, he is not that into you.




 Maybe nga noh hmmmm  :P ??? :( :'( :'( :'( :'(  Nag tetext naman sya but he's not asking me out pa.
Maybe he's not that into me talaga. Oh well.  :(  :P
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #673 on: July 30, 2019, 05:55:46 pm »

Hahaha parang nag doubt na ako  :-\ ;D :D   hahaha anyways I'm not forcing anything naman. Whatever will be will be.




 Maybe nga noh hmmmm  :P ??? :( :'( :'( :'( :'(  Nag tetext naman sya but he's not asking me out pa.
Maybe he's not that into me talaga. Oh well.  :(  :P

quesera sera???  ::) haha!

basta sa bawat desisyon na gagawin mo pag isipan mo muna makailang ulit kung ano at gaano kalaki ang epekto sayo.. maging matalino ka. enjoy mo lang muna, wag ka pa pressure at mas lalong wag ka pa stress!

ikaw nga pala yung noong 2018 pa na nag share dito noh? good to know nakawala ka na dun, plus 100 like ka dahil jan.. hehe! ang galing mo... nice!
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #674 on: July 30, 2019, 06:19:17 pm »
quesera sera???  ::) haha!

basta sa bawat desisyon na gagawin mo pag isipan mo muna makailang ulit kung ano at gaano kalaki ang epekto sayo.. maging matalino ka. enjoy mo lang muna, wag ka pa pressure at mas lalong wag ka pa stress!

ikaw nga pala yung noong 2018 pa na nag share dito noh? good to know nakawala ka na dun, plus 100 like ka dahil jan.. hehe! ang galing mo... nice!


Thanks bro  :) Oo ako yun hehe experience rin yun na I learned something from it na huwag agad maniwala.  ;)  Right now just letting it be  que sera seraaa  hehe. And of course prayers rin na huwag ako ma anxious agad to stuff  like this.
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