Hello may question lang ako kasi I'm confused sa actions ng bf ng bestie ko. Me and my best friend's boyfriend work in the same building but different company. Suddenly I received a DM from him last April. That month sila bumalik ng office so napansin niya wala na kami sa office sa ground floor, Yung office pala nila sa upper floor. We transferred to our warehouse instead last February because of the pandemic. I informed him that then he asked me if hindi ba daw ako lumalabas so I told him minsan lang ako mag office , like end of the month and WFH na mostly.
Anyways so we exchanged messages about how working at home and office is different suddenly he teased me na so hindi na pala ako nakaka date or na diligan kasi hindi ako lumalabas. I'm a single mom pala and for years na wala akong naging boyfriend after my son's father. At first it was just nothing lang kasi he was always a joker but he sends me some sex videos and suddenly delete it, I find it weird kasi why would he send that to me I asked him what was that. Sabi niya yun yung student na taga Davao na nag viral daw . So I tried to change the subject and told him I haven't met my bestie na which is his GF, he replied sila din daw matagal na hindi nagkikita, So sabi ko kailan kayo last nag meet? He just said SECRET so after he replied I just gave a thumbs up and no message na from him at hindi na rin ako nag bother mag ask if may problem sila that time kasi private yun.
Then This Sunday lang he messaged me telling me open na daw yung kainan near our building that we went last 2019 that time nag treat ako sa kanilang 2 kasi post birthday celebration ko. Minsan kasi we three go out or he'll catch up whenever me and my friend would hang out or me and my bestie would end our dinner with coffee then he follows na. May one time rin pumunta sila sa birthday ko sa bahay ,dinala niya that day si BF kasi day off nila both. So I met him countless times na and known him for years since they started dating in 2015.
Suddenly he teased me mag libre daw ako dun sa place when we last dined out before pandemic , so sabi ko naman bakit ako mag libre? dapat ikaw kasi mas malaki sweldo mo or hati kayo ni GF. Then he teased me again if ibang lalaki daw nag ask sa akin malamang go daw ako,
Eh sabi ko naman hindi ako mang li libre noh konting lang sweldo ko ngayon kasi hindi work everyday skeletal pa kami sa office. Anyways until napunta yung topic namin about food and he needs a sugar mommy ( I'm confused if he meant Single Mom or Sugar Mommy)
He needs someone to cook for him kasi mas masarap daw magluto ang sugar mommy kasi home cooked meals and masarap magdala, So I was kinda bothered na sa part na masarap magdala. So sabi ko bakit ka pa mag hahanap eh andyan naman GF niya. He replied SECRET
Then he asked me if Ako ba daw masarap magluto? I answered him kain lang alam ko eh, then he followed it up with Ikaw Masarap ka kumain? I thought it was just an innocent question lang so I replied naman Oo depende sa food. Eh nag iba nag tono niya when he told me , E lilibre kita pero Ako kainin mo! Diba masarap ka kumain? I was taken aback sa questions nya . I told him bakit bakit ganun tungo niya sa akin eh friend ako ng GF niya ? I even asked him "Don't you find it weird you're trying to hookup with me?" Hindi daw kasi parang exciting daw yun And feel niya magaling ako in bed and performer. Magaling ka ba mag B J ? He asked me! I was definitely shocked cause I thought he was a good guy ,never kasi siya naging bastos sa akin, sabi ko sa kanya akala ko naman good boy ka ? He didn't respond to that . Bakit kaya naging ganun siya?
He was never flirty before and was always nice and appropriate when we meet sa hallways. I asked him if okay lang siya at sila ng friend ko? He told me naman the'yre cool and wala silang problema daw. I just stopped replying to him and I messaged my best friend , I first asked her if okay sila ng bf niya why daw ako nag ask ng ganun? And i told her your bf is asking me some lewd questions, she informed me they haven't talked in 2 months na kasi she was tired, she basically GHOSTED him. Wala naman daw third party pero she's tired of being the one making effort sa relationship always reaching out and she reached her limits. I don't really know if there's more to that. She was shocked too when I informed her sabi niya hindi naman ganun si BF, strong daw yun , she'll pray for him instead. Someday she'll talk to him personal and have closure.
I also asked her if she mentioned anything about me sa BF niya she blurted pala before pero matagal na yun." Okay lang daw ako kahit walang BF kasi minsan may ka S@x naman daw ako"
Oh it was just between me and my friend I don't know why she even bothered to tell him that? I don't know if he asked or what? Kaya siguro ganun tungo niya sa akin ngayon kasi nalaman niya I used to hookup before
And bakit naging ganun yung treatment niya sa akin Is it because he knew about that?
What bothers me is ganito ba talaga ang lalaki ? Why would he try to hookup with his GF's best friend? Or in denial siya kasi sabi niya okay sila but to my friend wala na . Or is this his way to get closer sa ex Gf niya ? Get attention? Pride? Revenge perhaps ? Or he's testing me?
I mean if he wants to talk to my friend why can't he messaged her instead and ask her directlty ?
There was a time, years ago He was so thoughtful and sweet to my friend , He asked me once for help and messaged me na samahan ko daw siya bumili ng Christmas gift for her, Anong shop ba daw sa instagram Where he can buy some bags for her? I thought to myself awww how sweet naman,
But now It's just sad that when someone I thought who was perfect for my bestie turned out to be someone different.
