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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #640 on: April 23, 2019, 08:23:16 am »
^^ Maging assumerang palaka ☹️😅

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #641 on: April 23, 2019, 08:56:41 am »
^^^ hirap naman.. parang pareho lang...

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #642 on: June 09, 2019, 10:18:51 am »
Kapag ba nasa new relationship na kayo, aalisin nyo lahat ng anything na related sa ex nyo. Naiinis lang kasi ako yung ex ko kasi barkada ng kuya ko, one time pa sinundo kami ng kuya ko sa aiport kasama sya. Pumupunta parin sa bahay, pero ang pakay naman nya hindi ako obviously. Pero nakakainis lang, kasi hindi ba sya nahihiya na after nya mag cheat sakin ok lang na pumunta pa sya samin. Natanong ko lang. Para kasi walang talab ang hiya sakanya, hindi man lang makiramdam e.

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #643 on: June 09, 2019, 12:05:44 pm »
^ kung ex mo na yan dapat hindi ka na affected sa mga ganap nya sa buhay. although may point ka doon sa sinabi mong napaka insensitive ng ex mo na sa kabila ng pagchi cheat nya parang wala lang sa kanya na makihalubilo pa sa inyo/iyo. kiber na lang!  may bago ka na naman ka relasyon eh, yun ang pagtuunan mo ng panahon mo.  :)
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #644 on: June 09, 2019, 12:57:43 pm »
^Sya yung may bago hehe! Tama carry on na lang. Siguro meron talaga taong hindi marunong makiramdam.

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #645 on: June 09, 2019, 07:24:31 pm »
^ Well walang hiya nga tawag dun. nagcheat na nga lakas pa ng loob magpakita ano yun parang wala na lang, kapal muks lang? Isa rin yang kuya mo, bakit friends pa rin sila e niloko ka na nga nung damuho na yun? Kausapin mo kuya mo at sabihin mo na ayaw mong pumupunta ex mo sa inyo dahil niloko ka niya. Kausapin mo rin parents mo na pagsabihan kapatid mo.. Bahay mo rin yan dapat masunod ka rin sa gusto mo at matuto rin silang irespeto nararamdaman mo..
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #646 on: June 10, 2019, 12:11:00 pm »
^Sya yung may bago hehe!

ahh okhay? ang sweet21 mo  ::) pero ang gulo mo eh! haha... biro lang. malaking tsek ka jan na kulay tangerine! haha... keri na lang yan...
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #647 on: July 05, 2019, 11:03:00 am »
Hi mga sis, may mga lalaki ba na inlove daw sayo pero hindi naman sweet?

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #648 on: July 05, 2019, 05:12:11 pm »
What do you mean by sweet sis? You mean
1. give gifts he knows you like
2. remember many things/details about you
3. listens attentively or responsive when you share something nonsense/important/funny/stressful etc.
4. physically affectionate (affectionate touch, sit/walk close next to you, kiss,hug, etc)
5. supportive of your goals and dreams
6. seeks your company or wants to be with you
7. the feeling that he has your back/does not ghost/reliable presence
8. Appreciates/admires you

Personally, okay lang yung low in no. 1, pero importante yung 2-8 as they are signs of emotional availability. One needs to look for someone emotionally available, else it will be an empty and lonely relationship.

Big gifts, travels, fine dinings, mabola, well they are okay and indeed SWEET. But it's the priceless and small gestures that truly matter.

Was I able to answer your question? LOL

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #649 on: July 07, 2019, 05:36:21 pm »
^^ hmmm dpende sis kase may mga lalaki [textspeak!] na di showy o kya di verbal. Pero tama nga na nasa small things nya yun pinaparamdam. Ska yung proud sya syo yung pinagyayabang ka nia at pinapakilala d man sa lahat pro sa close friends nia ska sa parents nia.

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #650 on: July 09, 2019, 12:10:21 am »
How come men just assumes after doing something wrong na we can all just move on and get pass everything as if nothing happened?

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #651 on: July 09, 2019, 09:59:09 am »
Hi mga sis, may mga lalaki ba na inlove daw sayo pero hindi naman sweet?

Depende sa definition nyong dalawa ng "sweet". Pwedeng for you sweet ang ibalandra ka sa social media pero sa kanya hindi. Pwedeng for you sweet ang by the minute non stop texting pero sa kanya hindi (pwedeng mas gusto nya personal kayong nagkukwentuhan, etc).

Pero ito lang ang palagi kong advice -- if a guy loves you, you wouldn't have to ask. You will know and he will show you in more ways than one.
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #652 on: July 09, 2019, 12:11:16 pm »
How come men just assumes after doing something wrong na we can all just move on and get pass everything as if nothing happened?

sila yung mga tipo ng mga lalake na dahil alam nilang mahal na mahal sila ng mga partner/gf/asawa ay nagagawa na lang nilang balewalain basta basta, lalo na yung feelings ng mga babae.
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #653 on: July 11, 2019, 04:15:39 pm »
Was I able to answer your question? LOL

^^ hmmm dpende sis kase may mga lalaki [textspeak!] na di showy o kya di verbal. Pero tama nga na nasa small things nya yun pinaparamdam. Ska yung proud sya syo yung pinagyayabang ka nia at pinapakilala d man sa lahat pro sa close friends nia ska sa parents nia.

Pero ito lang ang palagi kong advice -- if a guy loves you, you wouldn't have to ask. You will know and he will show you in more ways than one.

Oo naman, salamat mga sis!  :)

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #654 on: July 14, 2019, 06:50:52 pm »
Naiintimidate ba yung mga guys, pag ang babae mas mataas sa kanila? I mean pag mas angat in terms of social/ financial status like ok ang trabaho, pera? Yung hindi nagpapa control/under? Hehe.

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #655 on: July 14, 2019, 07:04:51 pm »
^ oo may mga lalakeng ganun?
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #656 on: July 15, 2019, 11:11:46 am »
Naiintimidate ba yung mga guys, pag ang babae mas mataas sa kanila? I mean pag mas angat in terms of social/ financial status like ok ang trabaho, pera? Yung hindi nagpapa control/under? Hehe.

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #657 on: July 24, 2019, 12:50:27 pm »
Naiintimidate ba yung mga guys, pag ang babae mas mataas sa kanila? I mean pag mas angat in terms of social/ financial status like ok ang trabaho, pera? Yung hindi nagpapa control/under? Hehe.

Yes may mga ganung lalaki pero mali sila.. Sa panahon ngayon kahit papaano equal opportunities na pagdating sa trabaho lalo na sa mga tech jobs kaya imbes na maintimidate dapat nga matuwa pa yung lalaki kasi narereward yung talent/ability ng partner niya, hindi naman dapat competition lalo kung pagbabasehan e sahod. At hindi naman umiikot ang mundo sa iyo(sa lalaki) para maapektuhan ka sa salary ng iba/gf.. 
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #658 on: July 28, 2019, 12:18:28 am »
Hi Everyone  I would like to ask ba like how would you know a 2nd date would happen? like will the guy initiate ba right away? Cause I met this guy online, before meeting him we were texting for a week mga hello and good mornings, nag lunch kana ba? , good night and anything under the sun.
 
  Anyways  that night kasi suddenly na putol moment namin (we were just talking about stuff and getting closer kasi magkatabi kami, like his arms were around na sa chair ko)  we were in a place na view ang city but na putol kasi almost 12mn na and my mom would want me to go home na so hinatid niya ako and he also texted me na he just arrived and good night.
 So sa morning rin he texted me good morning hanggang gabi.  At night time na it was around 8pm na ata  I asked him if okay lang siya kasi he doesn't say that much sa text like he used to or baka paranoid lang ako. He replied Sorry late reply kasi naglalaro pa siya siya ng M.L. ( mobile legends).   So ako sabi ko rin Ayy sorry na distract ka sa kaka text ko.  But guys I don't know why but I was kinda bothered kasi he replied after  "Bukas na lang tayo text kung hindi na ako busy" and "Good night"   I'ts not the first time naman na nag apologise siya for late
reply  kasi naglaro siya ng M.L. There was a time late siya maka reply  because of that.

 Is it just me or he finds it clingy lang ? na nag rereply ako and ask him stuff  :( :( :( :(  That day rin after kami nagkita he did not asked me if nag lunch na ba ako which he usually asks   :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(      I don't know, I'm confused.  I just had fun  kasi when we met like all the chitchat and bantering.      I even told him pa nga sayang hindi ko na picture ang city view that night when we went there sa mountain park  (It was my hint na I want to go back ) sabi naman niya may marami pa naman na chance next time.
  The day after we met he did not ask me na he wants to see me again or planned for another date, Guys will you say it right away sa naka date niyo na girl?  or give it ilang days or weeks  telling her na you want so see her again?   
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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)
« Reply #659 on: July 28, 2019, 10:09:57 am »
He replied Sorry late reply kasi naglalaro pa siya siya ng M.L. ( mobile legends).
RUN!!! :D

Though iba iba ang lalaki i always believe na kapag gusto ka niya hindi magbabago agad agad yan especially after niyo magkita. Kung gusto ka niya ganyan din dapat siya katulad mo na eager magtext at mahilig mangumusta, clingy man o hindi normal yan sa umuusbong na relationship at kung hindi siya ganyan sayo isa lang ibig sabihin niyan sis..

Kung ako sa iyo tigilan mo na rin muna pagtetext, hayaan mong siya maginitiate ng conversation niyo sa susunod and try to focus sa ibang bagay para di ka naghihintay sa kanya. Wag kang magexpect na may susunod na date, assume na wala na. Ganito na karamihan ng lalaki, igegerald anderson ka na lang hanggang sa mawalan ka na rin ng ganang magtext.. Bantayan mo puso mo, wag mafall agad ha.
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