Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)

[kutitapkiss]

^^ kung bago pa naging kayo, eh umiinom na talaga sha, mahirap baguhin yan.kelan ba nagstart?

[el presidente]

tanong ko lang anong ibig sabihin pag sinabi ng girl sa iyo na  " Things end people change and u know what life goes on."

[Apple1230]

^it means she is done with you. Na naka move on na siya. Sorry harsh pero yun na talaga yun.

[saqqara]

Guys need your help huhu First time I've hooked up with with this guy this Monday,though he texted the next day he's kinda cold though I mean after we exchanged few messages I told him I had fun last night he didn't reply,kinda pulled away bakit ba ganun? Before we slept together we uagreed no strings attached though it just confuses me cause he used to text good morning last week then was cuddling ,smiling and kissing me after doing the deed. He still replies though and text sometimes but it's kinda different. Will I see him again ba? or ganun talaga kayo guys after sex u lay low? Then come back?

[mysterioza_me]

^Nagkasundo naman kayo na no strings attached kaya bakit may confusion? Kung anuman yung nangyari sa 4 corners ng room hanggang dun lang yun base sa kasunduan ninyo. So di ka dapat mag-expect na paglabas ng room sweet-sweetan pa din. Magparamdam din yan pag need niya uli ng magpapainit sa kama.

[Shadow Angel]

^^bakit nga naman macoconfuse if may usapan kayo na no string attached. If ever sweet sya after the deed parang natural naman un i mean its a human thing pero outside the bed back to reality na di kayo kaya no demands dapat. No expectations. Mukha from the start emotionally involve ka na di lang physical. Mukha di ka ready for fubu.

[saqqara]

^^bakit nga naman macoconfuse if may usapan kayo na no string attached. If ever sweet sya after the deed parang natural naman un i mean its a human thing pero outside the bed back to reality na di kayo kaya no demands dapat. No expectations. Mukha from the start emotionally involve ka na di lang physical. Mukha di ka ready for fubu.

I guess I was used to him texting me before we decided to do it lol then suddenly after that hindi na masyado nag text. Now I'm telling myself no emotions dapat,slight na dala ako. Haay ano ba ito pinasukan ko.

[saqqara]

^Nagkasundo naman kayo na no strings attached kaya bakit may confusion? Kung anuman yung nangyari sa 4 corners ng room hanggang dun lang yun base sa kasunduan ninyo. So di ka dapat mag-expect na paglabas ng room sweet-sweetan pa din. Magparamdam din yan pag need niya uli ng magpapainit sa kama.

Slight na paranoid parang hindi na siya masyado nagtext he said gusto niya maging exclusive daw na fubu kami don't know if he meant that nahiya naman ako mag ask if he's really sure. So I'll have to wait nalang now don't want to be clingy kasi. 

[Shadow Angel]

^anong terms ng exclusive fubu? Meaning sya lang dapat kafubu if yes how sure of you naman na sya ikaw lang din ang kafubu. Kapag ganyan guy di talaga pang serious type kaya hinay hinay baka lalong mafall.

[mysterioza_me]

Maniwala ka naman sa exclusive fubu. Hindi naman lahat, pero may mga guys na in a relationship na nga tumitikim ng iba e ano pa kung fubu lang. Wag mo pag-aksayahan ng space sa isip mo yan, pang-uuto lang yung exclusive fubu.

[TomHansen]

oo wag kang maniwala sa exclusive fubu na yan, maybe exclusive ka sa kanya pero siya malabo sa asal niya pa lang ngayon classic fucboy na. Alam mo na pinasukan mo sis kung di ka ok sa sitwasyon niyo ngayon labasan mo agad ikaw rin kawawa pagtagal lalo nadala ka na agad. Niligawan ka lang niya para maging fubu hindi para maging friend or gf and im sure marami pa yang nilalanding iba.

[saqqara]

^anong terms ng exclusive fubu? Meaning sya lang dapat kafubu if yes how sure of you naman na sya ikaw lang din ang kafubu. Kapag ganyan guy di talaga pang serious type kaya hinay hinay baka lalong mafall.

Sabi kasi niya sis if ever magkasundo kami he wants us to be exclusive fubu, yan rin doubt ko lol like how sure am I na ako lang? hmmmmm may pahatid hatid pa sa amin after we hang out. Kaya the next time nung nag hang out kami hindi na ako nagpahatid.

Maniwala ka naman sa exclusive fubu. Hindi naman lahat, pero may mga guys na in a relationship na nga tumitikim ng iba e ano pa kung fubu lang. Wag mo pag-aksayahan ng space sa isip mo yan, pang-uuto lang yung exclusive fubu.

  Yan rin isip ko nag d- doubt ako talaga sis.

 

oo wag kang maniwala sa exclusive fubu na yan, maybe exclusive ka sa kanya pero siya malabo sa asal niya pa lang ngayon classic fucboy na. Alam mo na pinasukan mo sis kung di ka ok sa sitwasyon niyo ngayon labasan mo agad ikaw rin kawawa pagtagal lalo nadala ka na agad. Niligawan ka lang niya para maging fubu hindi para maging friend or gf and im sure marami pa yang nilalanding iba.

 Haha so classic f@ck boi pala style niya?!  may pahatid hatid pa nga sa bahay at kiss sa forehead lol and I was like WTF? bakit may ganito hahaha. I  just have to think it's just physical lang and it's all about sex he wants. Nakakinis kasi itong mga pa sweet gestures and I don't even do that to him.

[mysterioza_me]

^Lalake na mismo nagsabi na galawang f@ckboiii yun kaya maniwala ka na. Wag ka papatol sa fubu setup if madali ka ma-fall sa simpleng gestures lang. Talo ka dyan sis.

[saqqara]

^Lalake na mismo nagsabi na galawang f@ckboiii yun kaya maniwala ka na. Wag ka papatol sa fubu setup if madali ka ma-fall sa simpleng gestures lang. Talo ka dyan sis.

Oo nga sis Thanks :-) hindi dpat bigyan ng meaning any gesture enjoy the $*$ lang and huwag ma fall.

[Apple1230]

^medyo hindi ko gets sis. Why did you agree sa no strings attached thing but deep inside you want more. Nabasa ko kasi post mo dun sa isang thread na parang you felt used. The guy did not use you, he was clear with what he wanted and what he is there for. Ikaw lang yung nagbigay ng more meaning or you had expectations beyond what is the reality.

Charge it to experience na lang and do not feel bad about it. Minsan kasi tayong mga girls meron tayong image in our head sa gusto natin mangyari that we fail to see a situation for what it really  is then we get disappointed later on. Or minsan malinaw na sinasabi ng guy pero hindi tayo nakiknig tapos magagalit tayo sa kanila at feeling natin niloko tayo.

[saqqara]

^medyo hindi ko gets sis. Why did you agree sa no strings attached thing but deep inside you want more. Nabasa ko kasi post mo dun sa isang thread na parang you felt used. The guy did not use you, he was clear with what he wanted and what he is there for. Ikaw lang yung nagbigay ng more meaning or you had expectations beyond what is the reality.

Charge it to experience na lang and do not feel bad about it. Minsan kasi tayong mga girls meron tayong image in our head sa gusto natin mangyari that we fail to see a situation for what it really  is then we get disappointed later on. Or minsan malinaw na sinasabi ng guy pero hindi tayo nakiknig tapos magagalit tayo sa kanila at feeling natin niloko tayo.

Yun nga po sis I was confused with this gestures and  expected he would call/ text me after like he used to so parang ganun I felt a little used but yun nga I agreed with this set up. Now I tell myself huwag mag expect and enjoy na lang the ride kung ano man mangyari next.

[quirkhy]

ask ko lang po,pag po ba sinabi ng lalake sa gf nila na wala na syang mukhang maihaharap dito ay seryoso ito? example po may ginawa kasing kasalanan yung bf,pero di naman ganun kabigat pero naging dahilan ng awayan eh....seryoso po ba or sa tingin nyo nagpapasuyo lang?

[TomHansen]

Ano bang kasalanan niya? Kung di naman mabigat ibig sabihin nagddrama lang siya or wrong choice of words. OR ito yung way niya para magbreak na sila ng gf, na kunwari sobrang hiya niya sa babae kaya hindi na siya makikipagkita/makikipag-ayos pero ang totoo ayaw niya na lang talaga sa gf niya.

[mysterioza_me]

ask ko lang po,pag po ba sinabi ng lalake sa gf nila na wala na syang mukhang maihaharap dito ay seryoso ito? example po may ginawa kasing kasalanan yung bf,pero di naman ganun kabigat pero naging dahilan ng awayan eh....seryoso po ba or sa tingin nyo nagpapasuyo lang?

Ikaw na nagsabi hindi gaanong mabigat ang kasalanan at mukhang ready ka naman magpatawad pero nag-iinarte siya at may sinasabi pa na walang mukhang maihaharap. Most likely nagdadahilan na lang yan para makipagbreak.

[Girltalker2]

Now I tell myself huwag mag expect and enjoy na lang the ride kung ano man mangyari next.

Sis payong kapatid lang. iwasan mo na iyang lalaking iyan. Kung ako lang naman nasa position mo, lalayo ako.

You felt used. And now di ka pa nadala and you want to enjoy the ride?

From what I?ve seen, you won?t be enjoying the ride. Yes maybe feeling happy for a few minutes, Pero the more you see him, the more you will fall. The more you will be needy. The more you Want to be with him but he can just offer you sex WHEN HE NEEDS IT. Tapos you will feel used again.

Your relationship whatever you call it is bound to fail. Typical fukcboy + needy desperate girl = tragedy.
Iyan lang nakikita ko.

But then again, buhay mo naman iyan, who am I to tell you what you should do. Basta we already told you what you need to do to make your life better. Nasa sayo if you want to learn the hard way.
Good luck.