Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)

[quirkhy]

yung kasalanan na sinabi nya saken ay sinabi daw nya dun sa babaeng pinagseselosan ko yung about sa pagseselos ko....up to now di ko pa din nirereplayan yang message na sinabi nya....iniisip ko kasi alibi lang yan eh...pero tama bang di ko na lang replayan?

[Bridgette*]

Hello sa mga matino nating guytalkers dyan at sa mga sissies na rin na tutugon sa aking tanong.

Do guys wear a ring on their ring finger for no particular reason? I mean do they just put it there for accessory? Or should I assume that when there's a ring on that finger of a man, he's married?

Ako kasi I put a ring on my ring finger as an accessory lang kahit single ako, ganon din kaya ang guys?

[Girltalker2]

^ sis pareho tayo 😁
But mine is more because it looks nicer on that finger or maluwag/masikip if I use my middle finger.

Pero imo, if for guys, more of married kaya sila nagsusuot.
Bihira or never panga ata ako nakkakita ng guy na May ring Pero di married. Minsan nga married na, di pa suot ang ring kasi not comfortable to them or Ayaw lang isuot

[simang]

^^i havent encountered a straight guy who wears rings to accessorize. Hehe. I have many gay friends who do -- but usually sa pointer or pinky finger sila nagsusuot. Fashion statement nga siguro.

And true, even some married men don't like wearing their rings lalo na nga if hindi sila sanay

[three8one]

@ miss Bridgette

 si Josepepe daw sasagot sa tanong mo PM sent na daw... haha! \/,,

seryoso na, di po ko matino pero share ko lang insight ko since im wearing my wedding ring and bond ring (yun ba tawag dun?) at the same finger most of the time. most kasi hinuhubad ko pag nasa bahay lang ako prone kasi sa gasgas kaya not all the time im wearing my wedding ring. regarding sa tanong mo, yung ring finger is for ring naman talaga so its normal na doon talaga nilalagay yung ring ng karamihan depende na lang sa kung ano ang purpose like what you said for you its an accessory and etc. ako, kaya ko palagi sinusuot to remind me na im married makakalimutin kasi ako eh. haha! charot.. and I don't know if alam mo tong explanation na ito, nun narinig ko kasi to noon single pa ko tumatak na sa isip ko to totoo man o hindi for me it makes sense, once you get married daw kaya yung ring nilalagay sa left ring finger kasi meron daw dito malaking vein diretso sa heart. yung ring symbolize sa spouse mo and the vein serves as a tie na nagkokonek papunta sa heart mo. parang ganun... haha! ewan ko kung napaliwanag ko sayo ng maayos. sensya na inde kasi ko matalino.. matalinaw lang. 

[Girltalker2]

Yun nga po sis I was confused with this gestures and  expected he would call/ text me after like he used to so parang ganun I felt a little used but yun nga I agreed with this set up. Now I tell myself huwag mag expect and enjoy na lang the ride kung ano man mangyari next.

Dagdag ko Lang, I don?t think you will enjoy the ride.

... kung ANUMAN MANGYARI... I Guess All of us know what?s gonna happen if you don?t put a stop to it. Gagamitin ka lang naman nya again and again.

If you want to ENJOY the RIDE, sad to say sis, sya Lang Ang mag eenjoy. Siguro ikaw a few minutes hoping things will work out the way you want it. Pero sa asta nya, you will just end up used, unless ikaw mismo ang umiwas sa kanya.

[saqqara]

Dagdag ko Lang, I don?t think you will enjoy the ride.

... kung ANUMAN MANGYARI... I Guess All of us know what?s gonna happen if you don?t put a stop to it. Gagamitin ka lang naman nya again and again.

If you want to ENJOY the RIDE, sad to say sis, sya Lang Ang mag eenjoy. Siguro ikaw a few minutes hoping things will work out the way you want it. Pero sa asta nya, you will just end up used, unless ikaw mismo ang umiwas sa kanya.

Salamat sa advise mga sis Girltaker2 and sa iba    baka blessing in disguise rin I haven't heard from him na for 2 days. Gusto ko ata tumawag so badly pero like hindi ko kaya yung ganun baka  ano masabi, siguro one time lang talaga habol niya may pa etchoss pa siya na exclusive      hmmmm ika nga sa kanta ni Ben and Ben na Kathang isip lol  Minsan siya'y para sa iyo
Pero minsan siya'y paasa   lol

[Girltalker2]

^ sis, Hindi naman sa pinapaasa kita. But I bet you, tatawag ulit iyan Pag walang mahanap na willing sumiping sa kanya for free. Then kung papayag ka ulit magpagamit, eh di naka-Isa ulit sya. Then pupusta ulit ako na iiwan ka na naman nyan sa ere na parang walang nangyari.
And the cycle goes on.
That is, Kung papayag ka ulit nagpaloko.

Iyang klase ng Guys na iyan ang dapat iwasan ng mga babae. Mahilig mang-Isa kung makakaisa.

[iam_me]

may married man ba talaga na willing i give up everything para sa other woman? how can you say na totoo yung mga promises nya sa girl if ngayong nasa wife sya wala ni isa mang text si guy sa girl

[kvandenhaak]

^^If he is giving her other fringe benefits other than sex (e.g. money, travels, gadgets and stuff), then she can enjoy the ride. Quid pro quo kumbaga. But at the current rate, she'll only get booty calls.

[Bridgette*]

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Got it! Thank ya!
Good option din siguro is to ask lol. I don't assume unless otherwise stated. 

may married man ba talaga na willing i give up everything para sa other woman? how can you say na totoo yung mga promises nya sa girl if ngayong nasa wife sya wala ni isa mang text si guy sa girl

Wala. At walang totoo sa mga p*tapeteng promises ng mga ganyang lalaki. Statistics say only 3% of married men leave their families for their mistresses. Leave meaning as in leave and not sumakabilang bahay lang tapos babalik din. I forgot though where I read that. I just don't get it what they see with those filthy fodder men hehe

[saqqara]

^ sis, Hindi naman sa pinapaasa kita. But I bet you, tatawag ulit iyan Pag walang mahanap na willing sumiping sa kanya for free. Then kung papayag ka ulit magpagamit, eh di naka-Isa ulit sya. Then pupusta ulit ako na iiwan ka na naman nyan sa ere na parang walang nangyari.
And the cycle goes on.
That is, Kung papayag ka ulit nagpaloko.

Iyang klase ng Guys na iyan ang dapat iwasan ng mga babae. Mahilig mang-Isa kung makakaisa.

 That is the sad and ugly part of the fwb /fubu thing the waiting game ika nga nila. Pine pray ko na lang talaga sis.

[three8one]

^ praying without action is nonsense..

[Apple1230]

 That is the sad and ugly part of the fwb /fubu thing the waiting game ika nga nila. Pine pray ko na lang talaga sis.

What waiting game i think the point of that kind of set up is no attachment. Kung kelan ma horny ulit si guy he will give you a call. But that is kung feel ka pa niya, baka he has found someone else or baka may ilan girls siya on rotation. I mean you never know coz this set up can be anything.

I think same goes for the girl as well, kung horny ka you can give him a call. But in your case better not kasi hindi ka tumutupad sa usapang no strings attach. Do not hold on to his word na exclusive fubu, kasi ikaw lang ang lugi doon. Right now nagkaka ganyan ka na isang beses pa nga lang. what more kung maging frequent baka ma inlove ka. Sa bandang huli ikaw lang ang ma hurt. Siya wala naman paki alam. The guy is obviously a typical f*ckboy better shake him out of your system. 

[mysterioza_me]

 That is the sad and ugly part of the fwb /fubu thing the waiting game ika nga nila. Pine pray ko na lang talaga sis.

Praying for what?

[Girltalker2]

^ I think she is praying that her fukcboy take her seriously
Or someone better comes along.

1) fukcboy takes her seriously - alam natin that this is almost impossible. Mauna magunaw ang mundo for this to happen

All of us know that this is beyond your control and therefore hindi dapat umasa dito Si sis saqqara.

2) someone better comes along
Sis saqqara, please use your brains and have some respect for yourself.
Alam mo ba na mas slim ang chance that you will find someone better if you keep on seeing this guy.
Una una, you are falling for this fukcboy, therefore kahit andyan na Si mr right, di mo mapapansin kasi kay fukcboy ka lang naka focus.

Secondly, Ito Mas important. You might meet eligible single men who are willing to commit. However, if may history ka ng fwb, sinong matinong guy papatol sayo? Sorry but yes Meron naman siguro, Pero Feeling ko Mas slim ang chances mo to meet the right one if you can?t even respect yourself.

So conclusion ko talaga is if you want to meet mr right, stable financially, respectable, and someone deserving, dapat ikaw din someone respectable for him to like you and pursue you. Pero kapag willing ka maging spare tire at basura ng isang fukcboy na nilalang, then tendency is you will just attract the same guys. And the cycle won?t end.

Have some self respect and dignity, and good responsible men will come to you.

These are just my thoughts.
Guys feel free to comment if you don?t agree.

[saqqara]

^ praying without action is nonsense..

Promise sis pine pray ko talaga like mawala yung na feel ko you know na nag expect ako tumawag siya or what, obviously hindi na siguro, one time lang ata gusto nun.

What waiting game i think the point of that kind of set up is no attachment. Kung kelan ma horny ulit si guy he will give you a call. But that is kung feel ka pa niya, baka he has found someone else or baka may ilan girls siya on rotation. I mean you never know coz this set up can be anything.

I think same goes for the girl as well, kung horny ka you can give him a call. But in your case better not kasi hindi ka tumutupad sa usapang no strings attach. Do not hold on to his word na exclusive fubu, kasi ikaw lang ang lugi doon. Right now nagkaka ganyan ka na isang beses pa nga lang. what more kung maging frequent baka ma inlove ka. Sa bandang huli ikaw lang ang ma hurt. Siya wala naman paki alam. The guy is obviously a typical f*ckboy better shake him out of your system. 

 Yung nga sis I wanted to call him but ayoko nga baka clingy dating sa kanya, Kaya I said the waiting part is hard    That's why I hate myself kasi I can't stop thinking about him pine pray ko nga lang mawala na, pasensya na nadala ako sa mga titig at kung ano pa iyun 

 

Praying for what?

 Na mawala ang na feel ko na nag e expect ako tumawag siya or ano kasi wala eh. So Like one time pala gusto niya bakit may drama pa na he wants it exclusive.

[Bridgette*]

^^ Couldn't agree more kay sis. Korek korek.

Nakaka iniiis yang lalaki mo ang kapal. Kaya may mga ganyang lalaki eh kasi may mga babae na nagpapa take advantage. Saka hindi naman yan ang essence of sex eh hindi ba? It's supposed to be sacred. Oh well, used to be. Kaya kung fubu fubu lang din naman pala ang gusto mo, wag ka aarte na nasasaktan ka ngayon kasi ginusto mo yan, right. Hindi ka ba nandidiri sinasawsaw nya sa iba tapos isawsaw sayo? Baka mamaya may sakit pa yan. Yung mga ganyang klase sa tingin mo ba may "exclusivity"? For sure hindi lang ikaw ang ka-fubu nya. Feel na feel nya maging fishball ikaw naman feel mo maging toyo.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not judging you pero naiinis ako sa lalaki mo at sa sitwasyon. Sarap sipain ng fishballs nyang lalaking yun. Ikaw kasi ang dehado dito.

[saqqara]

^ I think she is praying that her fukcboy take her seriously
Or someone better comes along.

1) fukcboy takes her seriously - alam natin that this is almost impossible. Mauna magunaw ang mundo for this to happen

All of us know that this is beyond your control and therefore hindi dapat umasa dito Si sis saqqara.

2) someone better comes along
Sis saqqara, please use your brains and have some respect for yourself.
Alam mo ba na mas slim ang chance that you will find someone better if you keep on seeing this guy.
Una una, you are falling for this fukcboy, therefore kahit andyan na Si mr right, di mo mapapansin kasi kay fukcboy ka lang naka focus.

Secondly, Ito Mas important. You might meet eligible single men who are willing to commit. However, if may history ka ng fwb, sinong matinong guy papatol sayo? Sorry but yes Meron naman siguro, Pero Feeling ko Mas slim ang chances mo to meet the right one if you can?t even respect yourself.

So conclusion ko talaga is if you want to meet mr right, stable financially, respectable, and someone deserving, dapat ikaw din someone respectable for him to like you and pursue you. Pero kapag willing ka maging spare tire at basura ng isang fukcboy na nilalang, then tendency is you will just attract the same guys. And the cycle won?t end.

Have some self respect and dignity, and good responsible men will come to you.

These are just my thoughts.
Guys feel free to comment if you don?t agree.

Hindi naman ganun sis Girltalker2 na I pray he will take me seriously I know it won't happen. I pray na mawala itong na f-feel ko na nag expect ako he would call me or see me again. Kasi I know it would hurt me in the end and I just realized that bago lang. Salamat sa advise mga sis hindi kayo nagkulang sa pag payo

[chinablue]

^sis can't help but comment. don't just pray, take some action too. gusto mo mawala yung ganyang feeling then do something. distract yourself. hindi mawawala yan kung sa guy lang na yan ka nakafocus. your world does not revolve around him. your happiness does not depend on whether he will call you or not. tama yung mga sisses natin dito, stay away from that guy hanggat hindi ka pa fully invested. hanap ka ng ibang pagkakaabalahan para di mo na siya maisip. travel. magpaganda ka. go out with friends. meet other people. maraming paraan sis. you deserve someone much much better sis.