Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)

[littlekinselle]

^ di ka pa niya nakakalimutan,  haha..  rare yon bigla or asidente na dial no.  mo.  Kala ko ba binura na niya ang number mo? 
Nag bakasakali lang siya sis  na  baka maging okay kayo ulit 😊

[TomHansen]

Question:
Guys, will you court a single mom or will you even fall in love with her pag nagpakita siya ng motibo tas may nangyari sa inyo? Single din si guy. 10 years younger though

Kung gusto siya ni guy before pa may mangyari sa kanila maaari ma-fall siya. Dami kasing factors like gaano na kayo katagal magkakilala, how is he ba bago pa may mangyari - manyak manyak ba siya/gusto napaguusapan sex? Some women kasi minsan ginagamit ang sex para magustuhan sila ng lalaki which is sobrang mali and yes magmumukhang easy yung girl. 10 years younger = 30% less chance na seryoso siya.

If ikaw yung girl and gusto mong malaman intentions niya sayo stop having sex and avoid sex talks na lang, dun mo malalaman if he is real or pakboi lang.

[mysterioza_me]

^hi bro parang naghiatus ka ah

Sis makinig ka kay bro tomhansen, nung panahon na loka-loka ako siya ang counselor ko

[sigh]

Hi Sis, I just recently found out about my partner going into these massage spas with extra service. To think he has been doing it for years and I just found out nung naglive in na kame because we had a baby. True yung woman's instinct no..medyo napansin ko madalas siya magpamassage etc then I checked his grab history and confirmed the spas have extra in them.. so ayon nahuli ko. I love him but do not trust him anymore, I am just living with him mainly because of my son. And whenever he goes out I am so strict as in nagpapa picture ako asan na siya ano ginagawa nya etc. Although he said na hindi na siya babalik dun, I super doubt talaga. Ang hirap lang ng situation kasi we cannot control them. Sila talaga yung may control sa lahat ng gagawin nila and if choice nila yun wala tayong magagawa.  Siguru gawin mo nalang is ireverse psych mo like tell him you trust him that he'll not do anything that will harm your safety especially health safety dahil nakakatakot magkasakit and if hindi ka kampante siguru magpa blow by blow report ka hahaha ng ginagawa nya dun or kung san na siya naka uwi na siya pero maiirita yun for sure.
Ang pinaka huli at importante is mag pray. Mag pray ka na i clear ang mind nya from perverted thoughts and i-guide siya sa tamang decision. heheh

Thanks sis but I'm not the type kasi to demand things from the bf. Gusto ko kusa nya gagawin and if he does not feel like doing something so be it.  I agree pinag prpray ko nalang na he's really over that phase.

@simang-- I asked him kasi how he lost his virginity. Then he told me that so nag ask na ako further like how many times has he gone there and when was the last time. Mga almost a year before we met and nag explain pa sya na sinasama lang daw sya ng friends. D pa kasi nag ka gf si boyfie before me.

[littlekinselle]

I forgot to ask.. what to do when you caught your husband/partner watching porn?
Kasi kanina madaling araw parang naaling pungatan ako when I opened my eyes nakita ko parang nanunuod siya ng porn then gumalaw ako para makarandam na nagising ako, nung pa sneak out ako ulit kunwari tulog bigla na Fafacebook na..  hayyy na sad ako bigla.

[iam_me]

karamihan naman sa mga guys nag wa watch ng porn, siguro kung ayaw mo ng ganun kausapin mo na lang si hubby tungkol dun , sa kin kasi ok lang nakaka turn on , nakaka add din ng excitement sa sex life, talk to your man na lang

[luckysiete]

I caught my husband watching porn many times already. Nung una nagalit ako but eventually nasanay na din ako. Alam ko kasi na may pagkukulang din ako lalo na pag pagod sa work.

Ask your husband why he watches porn. Be honest to tell him your not comfortable with it. If you think may pagkukulang ka or he is not satisfy then you can work things out.

[naizlabonita]

Well I saw my partner too medyo madalas. Sabi nila eh kapag walang magawa or madameng time talagang madalas sila magrelease lalo pag bored sila.

[shinies]

Alin ba yung isyu sis, nagpoporn siya mismo o yung tinatago niya sayo na nagpoporn siya?

[kvandenhaak]

I think it's kind of normal for guys to look at porn. Kahit pastors and priests tumitingin dyan. I will  be concerned only when it becomes an addiction. When it is affecting his life in general.

[naizlabonita]

I think it's kind of normal for guys to look at porn. Kahit pastors and priests tumitingin dyan. I will  be concerned only when it becomes an addiction. When it is affecting his life in general.

True sis when it became addiction na and when it comes to a point na mas prefer na niya ang porn kesa sa real person or sa partner nya then it is a problem.

[lonely_dad]

im already turning 50 but i still watch porn occasionally

[iamnicolecruz88]

I have this one guy friend (technically best friend) and most of his friends a girls. Kami mismo sa barkada siya lang ang guy.. he's adorable really.. knows how to handle himself among us, very polite.. I like him, but kinakabahan lang ako kasi mahina ang radar ko. I know he's a loner-tyow ever since, medyo nerdy din.. haaay how to know??

[KeyserSoze]

even if loner siya and nerdy, magpaparamdam parin naman yan or magshoshow ng concern if truly interested siya sa girl. siguro mas less compared sa mga outspoken pero still there should still be clues.

check his body language pagkasama ka niya. sometimes even the way he speaks can give you some hints. like if masyado siyang interested sa mga kwento mo, or minsan ginagaya niya na yung words mo. there are a lot of tips pero i'm not so good with these things haha. if he talks about you sa iba mong friends all the time then that can be a good sign.

[mysterioza_me]

Kahit ano pang paramdam ng guy it is hard to be sure na may gusto nga sa iyo ang isang guy. Baka kasi nami-misinterpret lang ng girl ang kabaitan or pagka-gentleman ng guy. Ako hindi basta nagbibigay ng malisya sa kinikilos ng guy maski pa napapansin ng ibang tao na iba ang treatment ni guy sa akin. Mas gusto ko na sa bibig ni guy mismo manggaling at hindi sa paramdam lang. Baka ako iniisip ko type niya ako yun pala sibling-love lang napi-feel niya for me. Kaya andaming guys napagbibintangan na "pa-fall" kasi may mga girls na assuming.

[iamnicolecruz88]

Kinakabahan kasi ako na baka sisterly love lang din ang ibibigay niya Sana hindi. I like him pa naman and I would like him to know.

[TomHansen]

^hi bro parang naghiatus ka ah

Sis makinig ka kay bro tomhansen, nung panahon na loka-loka ako siya ang counselor ko

hahaha di naman, minsan nalalate ako sa mga threads kaya di nakakasagot pero nagbabasa pa rin ako palagi dito sa Relationships.

I have this one guy friend (technically best friend) and most of his friends a girls. Kami mismo sa barkada siya lang ang guy.. he's adorable really.. knows how to handle himself among us, very polite.. I like him, but kinakabahan lang ako kasi mahina ang radar ko. I know he's a loner-tyow ever since, medyo nerdy din.. haaay how to know??

Since bestfriend niyo naman siya idaan mo/niyo sa biro kapag magkakasama kayo - itease niyo then baka dun makakuha ka ng info kung may nililigawan siya or kung meron siyang type na girl(or wala) sa ngayon. Hopefully after nun maging open siya sa inyo about sa feelings niya (or sa feelings niya sa iyo kung meron).

[Ms. Undecided]

Ask  ko lang, paano mo malalaman kung hindi na interested sayo ang boyfriend mo? Curious lang po hehe.

[lonely_dad]

Ask  ko lang, paano mo malalaman kung hindi na interested sayo ang boyfriend mo? Curious lang po hehe.

madalas me alibi, walang time, busy palagi

[Girltalker2]

Ask  ko lang, paano mo malalaman kung hindi na interested sayo ang boyfriend mo? Curious lang po hehe.

Hindi ba just ask him? If you are starting to feel neglected or parang nababawasan ang thoughtfulness nya, just ask him.

Style ko is talk to him and ask him straight. Just make sure you are open to hear the truth, even if it hurts. And be ready to walk out kung di na sya talaga interested.