Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 7)

[dismembered]

question sa mga guys. how many dates or how many months of dating before you ask the girl to be your gf? and ok lang ba if the girl asks about the guys intention?

im old school kasi. pero pansin ko now mga guys gusto mag kiss na and holding hands, hugging etc kahit hindi pa kayo. they want the perks of a relationship without getting into one.

Months? Kung ako sayo at future husband ang gusto mo malaman. Eh pwede na kayo mag-commit. Exclusive dating or BF/GF na kayo. Set na lang kayo ng limitations. Sa panahon ngayon, as we all know, useless ang ligawan. Kasi laging best foot forward kasi. Pag nasa relationship na, dun mo malalaman talaga ang ugali. Dun mo rin malalaman if mag-stay ka or not. Prob lang kasi ngayon, porket nasa relationship na, hirap na hirap iwanan ang isa't isa kahit alam namang mali at walang patutunguhan. Just always keep in mind na ang partner mo ay dapat piliin mo ng dahil sa kung sino at ano sya ngayon hindi sa kung ano ang naiimagine mong magiging sya in the future.

[missyA]

Question: Guys in what ways you choose the woman you are going to marry??

[Pink_Sugar]

Bet nyo ba yung mga babae na mala Lucy Torres? Nasaan na ang mga girls na kagaya nya? LOL

[dismembered]

Question: Guys in what ways you choose the woman you are going to marry??

May option ba? As in parang may tatlong girl sa harap namin at kung paano namin pipiliin kung sino papakasalan namin? No. It doesn't work that way.

This is how it'll work. Makakakilala kami ng girl... Interested kami sa isa't isa.. May attraction physically and emotionally. Magiging exclusive kami sa isa't isa. Makikilala namin ang isa't isa. Malalaman namin kung ano ang mga Good Traits na gusto namin at ano ang mga Bad Traits na willing namin tanggapin. Pag ready na at decided na. Ayun pwede na ikasal.

Bet nyo ba yung mga babae na mala Lucy Torres? Nasaan na ang mga girls na kagaya nya? LOL

Ano meron kay Lucy Torres? Ano ang kaibahan sa kanya?

[missyA]

May option ba? As in parang may tatlong girl sa harap namin at kung paano namin pipiliin kung sino papakasalan namin? No. It doesn't work that way.

This is how it'll work. Makakakilala kami ng girl... Interested kami sa isa't isa.. May attraction physically and emotionally. Magiging exclusive kami sa isa't isa. Makikilala namin ang isa't isa. Malalaman namin kung ano ang mga Good Traits na gusto namin at ano ang mga Bad Traits na willing namin tanggapin. Pag ready na at decided na. Ayun pwede na ikasal.

thanks dismembered

No walang option for example may gf ka ngaun how would you know na siya na gusto mo makasama in future? paano nyu nalalaman?

[dismembered]

thanks dismembered

No walang option for example may gf ka ngaun how would you know na siya na gusto mo makasama in future? paano nyu nalalaman?

Malalaman lang yun in time. Dadating na lang yun dun. You really can't decide agad na sya ang gusto mo mapangasawa if di mo pa kilala at nakakasama ng matagal. May mga instances na at first sight sasabihn ng guy na gusto nya mapangasawa ang isang girl. Pero shallow pa ang reasons nun Yung decision na gusto mo makasama habang buhay ang isang tao ay ma-determine din ng kung gaano mo na sya katagal kasama at kakilala. After ma-evaluate ang expectations vs reality.

[shayne_12]

Just always keep in mind na ang partner mo ay dapat piliin mo ng dahil sa kung sino at ano sya ngayon hindi sa kung ano ang naiimagine mong magiging sya in the future.

Guilty ako dito.. hahaha 

[Fruitsicles]

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[oshiawase]

For guys, will you approach a stranger (girl) in a coffee shop?

I was just wondering if this is a usual thing or not.

[ashonlush]

Posible ba na kaya nyong mapigil sa karelasyon nyo na walang s3x na mangyari? Given na mahal nyo ang isa't-isa? I mean muntik na pero nakapagpigil ka pa.

While sa previous relationships mo naman eh, nagagawa mo naman?

[dismembered]

^ possible. You have to know his reasons. Might be dahil ayaw nya gawin kasi belives na he wants to do it right this time kasi dati nga hindi nag work... Madaming pwede maging reason. And the past could be one of the factor.

[pinksmores]

Hi! If he asks what's your type in guys, what does it mean? Or depende sa context? Pina-elaborate pa nya.

[j.adore]

Posible naman.. pwede rin out of fear of pregnancy?

[simang]

Posible ba na kaya nyong mapigil sa karelasyon nyo na walang s3x na mangyari? Given na mahal nyo ang isa't-isa? I mean muntik na pero nakapagpigil ka pa.

While sa previous relationships mo naman eh, nagagawa mo naman?

Yes possible. Depende sa reason. I know a guy who never had sexual relations with her wife nung mag gf pa lang sila, and that was when he became a born-again Christian. Sa church nya nameet si girl and they both agreed to just wait until they were married. Both of them were no longer virgins when they met. They dated for a little while lang, less than 2 yrs, and got married a few months back. So I guess it depends on the reason, pwedeng just like what j.adore said, fear of pregnancy, or pwedeng personal choice lang.

Hi! If he asks what's your type in guys, what does it mean? Or depende sa context? Pina-elaborate pa nya.

If he asks what your type is... that can only mean he wants to know what your type is. As simple as that. If you're thinking if that may mean he's into you, pwede, pwede din hindi. So the safest would be to never assume and stop overthinking. Simple lang naman yung tanong nya, eh di sagutin mo lang.

[sugardrop]

Hi! If he asks what's your type in guys, what does it mean? Or depende sa context? Pina-elaborate pa nya.

I think this is both physical and non-physical. Unless may hint ka nang nakukuha na he's good for landi lang.

[ashonlush]

@dismembered kung hindi niya kayang magawa yun, does it mean may respect siya dun sa girl na iyon? Masasabi ba na pang "wife" material siya? What's your POV here?

@j.adore Yeah, possible reason din yan siguro. Pero what if, andun na sa moment na yun, as in both of you were naked na, tapos biglang napaisip ata "Ay! Mukhang mali ito." kaya instead of inserting your putotoy to her, hindi nalang instead nauwi nalang sa petting (kissing and cuddling)?

@simang I was wondering if yung guy na sinasabi mo, virgin parin nung sila pa nung mag gf (now wife) palang sila? Or he had a sexperience na rin with his previous relationships?

Thanks po sa mga sagot nyo

[Girltalker2]

For guys, will you approach a stranger (girl) in a coffee shop?

I was just wondering if this is a usual thing or not.

Not usual but it happens. Katakot lang minsan kasi you don't know the background of the guy.

Need your help. Actually, I love this men and i am praying na sana siya na talaga [textspeak!] para sa akin. Nararamdaman ko rin nman na mahal rin niya ako. Pro recently, nalaman nea na something happend to me and his friend from the past. He feels bad kng bakit nalaman pa nea sa iba and not from me. So i explained my side. And now, he never talked to me or reply. I have no clue kng tapos na kami or he just need space. [textspeak!] shud i do? Please advise.

Kung hindi nya matanggap ang past mo, maybe he is it for you. Just move on, dami naman options. If he changes his mind, good. If he doesn't, ok lang kasi you are moving on.

Hi! If he asks what's your type in guys, what does it mean? Or depende sa context? Pina-elaborate pa nya.

He just wants to know. Kasi interested sya and he may want to be that someone. Baka maka score. As to kung serious sya o hindi, you won't be able to tell.

[simang]

@simang I was wondering if yung guy na sinasabi mo, virgin parin nung sila pa nung mag gf (now wife) palang sila? Or he had a sexperience na rin with his previous relationships?

Yes possible. Depende sa reason. I know a guy who never had sexual relations with her wife nung mag gf pa lang sila, and that was when he became a born-again Christian. Sa church nya nameet si girl and they both agreed to just wait until they were married. Both of them were no longer virgins when they met. They dated for a little while lang, less than 2 yrs, and got married a few months back. So I guess it depends on the reason, pwedeng just like what j.adore said, fear of pregnancy, or pwedeng personal choice lang.

[j.adore]

@j.adore Yeah, possible reason din yan siguro. Pero what if, andun na sa moment na yun, as in both of you were naked na, tapos biglang napaisip ata "Ay! Mukhang mali ito." kaya instead of inserting your putotoy to her, hindi nalang instead nauwi nalang sa petting (kissing and cuddling)?

Yes it happens and for either the man or the woman. Meron freeze moment na mas nananaig yung mental power than physical pull of the deed.

[oshiawase]

Guys, will you ever approach, or have you approached, a girl, randomly, in a coffee shop?