Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)

[tomatostellar]

Listen to what I'm saying and realize how I'm feeling.  I hate it when my feelings are easily dismissed without much consideration, or worse, totally ignored (ex. "Yun lang?  Sus, just forget that, okay?" or total silence).  Nakakainis din when they take over the conversation and they spout solution after solution without even letting me finish speaking.

It's so important that you listen.  Then comfort me with a hug and good food    Then we can talk solutions.

this and of course a hug and a kiss on the cheek or forehead

[oshiawase]

(1) Hug
(2) Join the rant
(3) only then can you say, "it's okay"

Saying "it's okay" at the beginning is NOT OKAY.

[kikaygirl5810]

a tight hug...

[ysa.belle]

a tight hug and a kiss.

[imyourangel]

(1) Hug
(2) Join the rant
(3) only then can you say, "it's okay"

Saying "it's okay" at the beginning is NOT OKAY.

I like this "join the rant" so true haha!

[Tinining]

Hug ng sobrang higpit kahit na todo ngalngal pa rin ako lol 😀 Kahit among asar ko, pag niyayakap ako ni bf, lumalamig ulo ko.

[Miss Taken]

Just agree with me first haha then later mo na ako pagsabihan pag medyo nag cool down na ko

[tealover]

I rarely rant but every time it happens, it means punong puno na ako. So,l it would give me peace if you just let me talk, listen and give me space afterwards. A simple apology is also nice (except if I'm the wrong one and I'm just talking irrationally ) Mabilis lang ako mag cool down and hindi nagtatanim ng galit. Ayoko yung kukulitin ako/makikipagsabayan in the middle my argument.

[honey.mae]

never pa ko nag rant kay bf, if ever i want him to hug me tight, stroke and kiss my hair, after that i'll give him a kiss 

[kawen]

I would appreciate that you will listen to me then after that comfort me, hug and kiss me.. maybe take me out after orhave coffee, talk.. hehe...

[happie]

I would appreciate kung magsasalita to explain himself especially if its about him in the first place.  Hindi nga sasagot, hindi rin naman magsasalita.

[ohmygorjosh]

Listen with his heart.

[Drax]

(1) Hug
(2) Join the rant
(3) only then can you say, "it's okay"

(4) make her laugh, or

(4) offer to disembowel the object of her rant!

[yannuh]

1. Let me finish muna. Wag makipagsabayan. Minsan Leave me alone muna
2. Suyuin mo na ko. Sympathize.

[barbillie]

1. Listen. Do not add fuel to fire.
2. Give me a moment of peace.
3. Offer me something. Something that will make my inis go away.

[dismembered]

I love this thread.

Naalala ko dati, Me, na hindi madali magalit at magpadala sa emotions, whenever may rant yung ex ko, sinusubukan kong i-kalma agad sya and say something reasonable. Pero ang resulta ay lagi lang nya ako napagbubuntungan ng inis nya. Siguro after some time, natuto din ako. Kapag ang girls ay may rant, dapat join na muna kayo sa rant nila. Sabi nga nila, oo ka na lang at wag ng kumontra. Kung possible, dumagdag ka ng comment sa kinaiinisan nya. Pag tapos na yung tension, saka na lang kumain ng something good at pagusapan ng reasonable.

[tealover]

Sometimes I just really want to vent out, and for someone to listen and understand where I am coming from

[kvandenhaak]

When I rant, that's all it is meant, to rant. So, gusto ko muna akong pakinggan. When I ask for advice, yun yung time for my friends to tell me like it is. I don't care if it's something I want to hear or I need to hear. Sa BF naman, all I want is a tight hug and kiss in the forehead. Kalma na ako at that stage.

[preciousjulia]

Just listen to me..and give me a hug after.

[crazycoolchic19]

listen , then hug me...wag nakong sisisihin na ganto ganyan mali ka eh..