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Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« on: May 23, 2014, 10:40:42 pm »
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #1 on: May 29, 2014, 05:08:29 pm »
Pull me closer then kiss me! ;)

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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #2 on: May 31, 2014, 11:27:53 am »
Idk, how my bf does it, but whenever I rant he just cracks simple jokes and then theres me, laughing till my cheeks burn.  8)
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #3 on: May 31, 2014, 05:09:14 pm »
Hug and kiss the girl kahit na tinutulak ka palayo  ;D
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #4 on: May 31, 2014, 06:13:44 pm »
Sometimes, it's the fact that the guy listens to me ranting and all and simply being there with me is comforting enough even without him having to say anything. But a tight hug would be really nice or holding my hand.
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #5 on: June 01, 2014, 06:49:10 am »
A tight hug will do it :)

Also, good food. Haha
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #6 on: June 01, 2014, 07:25:30 am »
hug from the back and kiss in the neck.  ;D
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #7 on: June 04, 2014, 06:33:34 pm »
Just listen to me, hug me after and give me food. hehe
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #8 on: June 05, 2014, 09:57:35 am »
back hug will do.. feeling ko sobrang safe ako and so love pag hinahug ako eh :)

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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #9 on: June 12, 2014, 03:19:49 pm »
Basically, just listen. Don't provide solutions, not immediately anyway. Guys' first instinct is to "fix things." But listen to us first, sympathize. Just let us yak away without jumping in with comments about what we should do, what we should have done, etc etc. Lalong nakakainis yun.
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #10 on: June 16, 2014, 04:51:28 pm »
^Totally agree! Guys always want immediate solution that's why they feel pressured to listen to a girl's rant in the first place. Gusto lang naman natin makinig sila. At maglambing. :)

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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #11 on: July 07, 2014, 02:26:43 am »
It's really important that he listens to what I'm saying, and yung totoong listening, yung talagang engaged siya with what's happening, hindi yung listening lang kunwari and nod lang ng nod kahit na hindi naman talaga nakikinig or interested sa sinasabi ko.  When I'm upset it's really comforting to know that there's someone there who really cares about me and how I'm feeling.  For me ito yung pinaka-important.  He can rattle off a dozen solutions to the stuff I'm ranting about, but if I feel na he doesn't really care about how I'm feeling and gusto lang niya magbigay ng solutions para lang matapos na yung usapan then it doesn't really matter if the solutions he gave work, I'll still feel bad kasi he didn't care.

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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #12 on: July 07, 2014, 06:51:37 pm »
Hug from behind is so nakakalig. And pulling me closer to hug.
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #13 on: July 15, 2014, 06:54:04 pm »
When i rant, my boyfriend laughs so hard. Natatawa talaga sya pag nagnanag ako. Ang arte ko raw kasi. Para syang nanonood lang. Mang aasar pa yon or gagayahin ako.. Minsan sinusubukan nyang amuin ako.. hindi bagay sa kanya na mang amo. Matatawa na lang din ako. Kaya pag paguusapan na namin yung issue ko, kalmado na ko. Charming talaga yon haha

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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #14 on: July 17, 2014, 12:53:54 am »
When he waits until i finish. Tapos bigla nya kong huhug and kikiss. Tapos ayun na. :)
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #15 on: July 20, 2014, 12:22:27 pm »
For my guy to listen and then comfort me after :)

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« Reply #16 on: July 20, 2014, 12:57:06 pm »
Kaninang umaga while lounging in bed, i was telling him about how devastating the bagyo was in our place, when he saw na naiiyak ako while making kwento, he pulled me close to his chest and kissed me on my temple. Everything instantly became better.
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #17 on: July 20, 2014, 12:58:36 pm »
Listen. Kiss sa forehead then hug...
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #18 on: July 20, 2014, 02:43:03 pm »
Hug and make me smile after  :)
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #19 on: July 21, 2014, 08:36:36 am »
Yosi. :) hehe
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