Author Topic: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)  (Read 7793 times)

Eastsider

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 107
  • learner
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #20 on: July 26, 2014, 04:39:58 am »
di naman ako madaling magalit.. so siguro sakin, lalambingin niya ako dapat ng bonnga or to the extent na iiyak na siya. hahaha tapos sweet sweetan sa bed after joke.

little_princess

  • Shopaholic Princess
  • Super GirlTalker
  • *****
  • Posts: 2543
    • Princess in a teacup
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #21 on: July 27, 2014, 11:54:55 am »
just listen to me and no touchy feely ek ek..

happie

  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 585
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #22 on: March 02, 2015, 12:51:20 am »
I just want him to listen

kinkytinch

  • Junior GirlTalker
  • ***
  • Posts: 474
  • uh-huh uh-huh
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #23 on: March 02, 2015, 01:41:10 am »
Listen to me first to know kung ano ang issue to know ang appropriate response.

Then it depends na sa kung gaano kaserious yung issue.
- If petty lang, a simple related joke would be great.
- If semi-serious (eg, nabastos ako), ipagtanggol ako
- If really serious na may pa-cry cry pa, just listen and dont say "okay lang yan" or offer solutions unless deliberately tinanong ka

baliwsayo

  • love love love
  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 916
  • The best camera is the one that's with you ;-)
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #24 on: March 02, 2015, 09:25:10 am »
Listen lang and try to lighten the conversation by diverting it to whatever funny situation that doesn't involve me. Don't even attempt to downplay my feelings or try to solve whatever is bugging me kasi I'd get more pissed off.  ::) ;D
Cause I'm happy...

~ anna ~

  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 535
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #25 on: March 07, 2015, 12:41:32 pm »
Listen to what I'm saying and realize how I'm feeling.  I hate it when my feelings are easily dismissed without much consideration, or worse, totally ignored (ex. "Yun lang?  Sus, just forget that, okay?" or total silence).  Nakakainis din when they take over the conversation and they spout solution after solution without even letting me finish speaking.

It's so important that you listen.  Then comfort me with a hug and good food  ;D  Then we can talk solutions.

donzski_doinks

  • ang inyong abang lingkod na
  • Junior GirlTalker
  • ***
  • Posts: 258
  • He who dares to TEACH must never cease to learn.
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #26 on: March 09, 2015, 09:17:31 am »
he should listen to me first without saying anything and pag tapos na ako, tsaka nya ako yayakapin ng mahigpit.
A teacher is a facilitator of learning and of the development of the youth; he shall, therefore, render the best services by providing an environment conducive to such learning & growth.

-Code of Ethics for Professional Teachers, Article III

jeninajenina

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 94
  • I think I'm beyond repair
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #27 on: March 09, 2015, 10:29:01 am »
Yakap and kiss lang tiklop na ko. :)

missus13

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 59
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #28 on: March 09, 2015, 11:40:30 am »
I just want my guy to lend me an ear and hug me tight.

Ahim de Famille

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 90
  • Smile! Smile!
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #29 on: March 09, 2015, 03:56:45 pm »
hug and kiss ok na ako dun.  ;)

Yurusenai

  • Lukaret
  • Newbie
  • *
  • Posts: 22
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #30 on: March 09, 2015, 10:11:38 pm »
hug from the back and a big wet kiss!  ;D
Only a coward will open a woman's heart, without any intention of loving her.

ieiky

  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 559
  • blessed to have bogs! :D
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #31 on: March 30, 2015, 10:17:02 am »
Listen, then hug..'yung super higpit hug na mafifeel ko 'yung mag karamay ako at secured ako..then I didivert niya 'yung attention ko at magpapaka funny. :)
"People will always say things about you. But if you are happy, continue to be. Just let these sad people wallow in their own miseries. In the end, what we really are matters more than what other people think of us."

purple.strawberry

  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 737
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #32 on: March 30, 2015, 10:28:26 am »
Listen lang and then try to make light of the situation, make appropriate jokes ganun. Tapos tatawanan na lang namin pareho whatever it is na pinoproblema ko.

Okay din kung bibigyan akong cupcakes hahaha.

huggykaye

  • chubbychiqt
  • Junior GirlTalker
  • ***
  • Posts: 433
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #33 on: March 30, 2015, 06:07:55 pm »
sobrang comforting ng warm hug =) gusto ko din pala yung kakantahan nya ako ng ilang lines lang ng kanta (yung related sa pag-rant ko).. tapos kiss sa forehead.. =)
« Last Edit: March 30, 2015, 07:31:30 pm by huggykaye »
" hold me.. hug me.. kiss me.. love me.. never let me go.. "

malditch0089

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 137
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #34 on: March 30, 2015, 06:59:30 pm »
Listen lang din and a hug from the back :-)

Pink_Sugar

  • Super GirlTalker
  • *****
  • Posts: 2264
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #35 on: April 04, 2015, 07:51:23 am »
Basta makinig lang sya then bigyan nya ako ng masarap na food. Lol nainit ulo ko lalo pag gutom ako. :-)

Prunella

  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 710
  • Meow?
    • I Shoot Film
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #36 on: April 07, 2015, 05:26:11 pm »
A hug will do.

nenmaroon

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 86
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #37 on: April 21, 2015, 09:17:49 pm »
pinapatawa niya ako, then if not effective tight hug not to the point na nasusufocate na ako :D
''IT'S FUNNY HOW DAY BY DAY, NOTHING CHANGES, BUT WHEN YOU LOOK BACK, EVERYTHING IS DIFFERENT.''

avitot

  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 502
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #38 on: April 23, 2015, 09:54:54 am »
just listen (i meant listen talaga na hindi nakahawak sa phone playing coc or watching movie or nba lol) and hug me tight after. :)
all sky :)

shellenic

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 54
Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #39 on: April 24, 2015, 01:53:02 pm »
1. Kiss on the lips.
2. Kiss on the neck.
3. Really tight hug.
4. Eat something we really like both. Eat a dish he'll cook for me.

 


Latest Stories

Load More Stories
Close