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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #40 on: May 10, 2015, 08:41:24 am »
Listen to what I'm saying and realize how I'm feeling.  I hate it when my feelings are easily dismissed without much consideration, or worse, totally ignored (ex. "Yun lang?  Sus, just forget that, okay?" or total silence).  Nakakainis din when they take over the conversation and they spout solution after solution without even letting me finish speaking.

It's so important that you listen.  Then comfort me with a hug and good food  ;D  Then we can talk solutions.

this and of course a hug and a kiss on the cheek or forehead :)
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #41 on: May 31, 2015, 05:02:26 pm »
(1) Hug
(2) Join the rant
(3) only then can you say, "it's okay"

Saying "it's okay" at the beginning is NOT OKAY.

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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #42 on: June 10, 2015, 02:04:42 pm »
a tight hug...
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #43 on: June 10, 2015, 03:29:03 pm »
a tight hug and a kiss.
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #44 on: June 10, 2015, 04:13:36 pm »
(1) Hug
(2) Join the rant
(3) only then can you say, "it's okay"

Saying "it's okay" at the beginning is NOT OKAY.

I like this "join the rant" so true haha!

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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #45 on: June 12, 2015, 07:46:43 am »
Hug ng sobrang higpit kahit na todo ngalngal pa rin ako lol 😀 Kahit among asar ko, pag niyayakap ako ni bf, lumalamig ulo ko.

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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #46 on: June 16, 2015, 11:16:45 pm »
Just agree with me first haha then later mo na ako pagsabihan pag medyo nag cool down na ko ;)
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #47 on: June 19, 2015, 05:03:52 pm »
I rarely rant but every time it happens, it means punong puno na ako. So,l it would give me peace if you just let me talk, listen and give me space afterwards. A simple apology is also nice (except if I'm the wrong one and I'm just talking irrationally :P) Mabilis lang ako mag cool down and hindi nagtatanim ng galit. Ayoko yung kukulitin ako/makikipagsabayan in the middle my argument. :)
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #48 on: July 16, 2015, 06:40:19 pm »
never pa ko nag rant kay bf, if ever i want him to hug me tight, stroke and kiss my hair, after that i'll give him a kiss  ;)

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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #49 on: July 18, 2015, 09:12:48 am »
I would appreciate that you will listen to me then after that comfort me, hug and kiss me.. maybe take me out after orhave coffee, talk.. hehe...
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #50 on: March 13, 2017, 02:33:25 am »
I would appreciate kung magsasalita to explain himself especially if its about him in the first place.  Hindi nga sasagot, hindi rin naman magsasalita.

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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #51 on: April 01, 2017, 01:22:21 am »
Listen with his heart.
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #52 on: April 04, 2017, 04:18:42 am »
(1) Hug
(2) Join the rant
(3) only then can you say, "it's okay"

(4) make her laugh, or

(4) offer to disembowel the object of her rant!

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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #53 on: April 04, 2017, 04:39:22 pm »
1. Let me finish muna. Wag makipagsabayan. Minsan Leave me alone muna
2. Suyuin mo na ko. Sympathize.
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #54 on: April 05, 2017, 11:14:15 am »
1. Listen. Do not add fuel to fire.
2. Give me a moment of peace.
3. Offer me something. Something that will make my inis go away.
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #55 on: April 05, 2017, 12:23:35 pm »
I love this thread.

Naalala ko dati, Me, na hindi madali magalit at magpadala sa emotions, whenever may rant yung ex ko, sinusubukan kong i-kalma agad sya and say something reasonable. Pero ang resulta ay lagi lang nya ako napagbubuntungan ng inis nya. Siguro after some time, natuto din ako. Kapag ang girls ay may rant, dapat join na muna kayo sa rant nila. Sabi nga nila, oo ka na lang at wag ng kumontra. Kung possible, dumagdag ka ng comment sa kinaiinisan nya. Pag tapos na yung tension, saka na lang kumain ng something good at pagusapan ng reasonable.
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #56 on: November 24, 2017, 10:49:28 pm »
Sometimes I just really want to vent out, and for someone to listen and understand where I am coming from
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #57 on: November 25, 2017, 12:08:25 am »
When I rant, that's all it is meant, to rant. So, gusto ko muna akong pakinggan. When I ask for advice, yun yung time for my friends to tell me like it is. I don't care if it's something I want to hear or I need to hear. Sa BF naman, all I want is a tight hug and kiss in the forehead. Kalma na ako at that stage.
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #58 on: January 05, 2018, 10:36:52 am »
Just listen to me..and give me a hug after. :)
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Re: Ladies, how do you want to be comforted when you rant :)
« Reply #59 on: January 15, 2018, 09:07:46 am »
listen , then hug me...wag nakong sisisihin na ganto ganyan mali ka eh..:D

 


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