tips on moving on...

[michipoo]

Find a new hobby.
Travel.

[darkjuliet]

i really think that once you have fully accepted that you are ready to move on, you're halfway there.
pinakanag-sa-struggle ako ngayon yung tanggapin na wala na talaga. i guess, pag nalampasan ko yun, mas madali na yung act of moving on itself.

pero ang hiraaaaaap lagpasan.  my ex and I broke up few days ago lang. this is our third breakup in 2 and half years of being together. the thing is, ang petty kasi ng dahilan kung bakit kami naghiwalay. nagsabay lang pareho na mainit yung ulo namin and i said some criticisms to him via chat tapos sobrang dinibdib nya yun. ngayon daw feeling nya hindi nya ako masyadong nakilala in those years na kami. i tried to fix it, kasi nga sobrang petty. sabi nya rin naman gusto nya ayusin. pero nung pinakita ko na i was desperate to win him back, bigla syang nagback pedal and sabi nya he was getting ready to move forward.

hay. ganito rin kami dati nung previous two breakups. palagi sya ang nakikipagbreak over petty things. i would try to win him back and beg for love tapos magpapakipot sya. then id make it appear na tanggap ko na, tapos dun sya babalik. tatanggapin ko naman. it was a healthy and happy relationship naman kasi. he was a good boyfriend. and i think naman he still loves me.

right now, im restraining my self from replying to his chat in the next few days and will see kung magda-drop sya ng hints na he still wants to fix this. and then i guess, pag wala, ill try to ask him one last time kung may chance. pag wala na talaga, then i guess that's it. HAY.

SORRY LADIES, ANG HABA NG POST KO. :/

[piatos]

if your efforts remained futile, stop.  know when to stop.  acceptance is the key. 
parang halik lang yan ng aegis.. Ayoko sana na ikaw ay mawala, mawawasak lang ang aking mundo,
ngunit ano'ng magagawa, kung talagang ayaw mo na.  Sino ba naman ako para pigilin ka haha

[cybelekronos]

^buset sis ha, kinanta ko pa habang binabasa 

---

kung ayaw na nya, wag pilitin, wag mag maka awa..  inayawan ka, ayawan mo rin,

never na pilitin mga bagay na tapos na talaga, pahabain lang ang pagdurusa.

iyak mo lang, darating time mapapagod ka rin.
dumaan din ako sa ganyan napakadaming drama. pero natapos din, time lang kakampi at acceptance para maka move on.
lahat naman ng mga bagay nawala sayo, lahat may kapalit.

[piatos]

^hahaha sis. kinakanta ko rin yan pag nagtatangahan-tangahan nanaman ako at umaasa 

[darkjuliet]

Hi, guys!

I'm not sure kung may similar thread but I'd like to know if there's anybody here who's in the process of moving on and wants to hang out?

I just got out of a 3-year relationship and after one month since the official breakup, I have finally decided to let go and move on. I have friends naman na nayaya but then again hindi lahat pwede all the time. Besides yung ex ang dami ring friends so nakakapressure mag move on agad agad, especially sya nakipagbreak

Sooo, since misery loves company, anybody game na magmeet up or plan out ng ganap?

[handlewithcare]

^Anong klaseng ganap sis? I mean ano bang hilig mong gawin - sports, foodtrip, travel, etc?
 
Last year din may mga naka-meet ako dito. Yung iba nakakausap ko pa. Yung iba hindi na.

[TomHansen]

^ kahit hindi mo sabihin sa kanila now mahahalata ka pa rin nila at magtatanong din tungkol sa inyo ng ex mo pagtagal. Kapag nagsabi ka naman sa kanila hindi mo kailangang sabihin lahat ng detalye - kung ano lang ang comfortable ka sa time na yun. Pero kung di mo pa talaga kaya gawa ka ng thread dito at dun mo ikwento mga nangyari at saloobin mo im sure gagaan pakiramdam mo...

[kvandenhaak]

^^Ineng, you don't need to keep everything in. You are allowed to mourn and cry. Di mo kailangan itago. You need a shoulder to cry on. It is very certain though that you will get over it. Naranasan ko na rin yan kasi yan. At hopefully, wag ko na ulit maranasan.

[three8one]

Control
Confront
Destroy
Conquer

[princessette]

Ang ginawa ko dun sa dati ko after we broke up. Kinaibigan ko pa rin. I told him that we can still be friends even if things didn't work out.  Tapos nung nakakita ako ng bago, todo kwento ako...LOL! Sabi ko, buti na lang pala di naging tayo, di ko sana na-meet to. To be honest, major upgrade 'to! Di sya kumikibo...LOL!

Sis natawa naman ako dito sa ginawa mo =) pakopya nga hahaha

Share ko lang ito  nabasa ko with Xandra Ooi, she has a very good advice =)

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1063538457075632&id=201924983236988

[kvandenhaak]

^LOL...thanks! That's not even the end of it. His personal life turned for the worst. He is now in the brink of bankruptcy. I said there's a term for that...karma! LOL!

[princessette]

haha digital pa naman na ngayon karma mabilis na din =)

[Thinkerbell16]

Mga sis..anyone here  na pede makabonding..
Im also in the stage of moving on..tagal ko ng di nag ggt..dahil dito sa nangyare balik na naman ako sa gt..

2yrs livein
And just like that
It ends..akala ko we are okay..hindi pala..
Ayaw ko ng idetalye
Nahihirapan lang ako..

I want to go.out
Pero my friends are busy
I want to do wall.climbing
I want to.learn how to.drive


Sana may mameet ako dito

[white_flag]

gaano ba kadali mag move on? gaano katagal? i need advice mga sis.. after almost 10 yrs.. my bf left me dahil sa galit nya sakin.. no third party, cheating o kahit ano.. dahil lang sa galit nya na kakabintang ko sa kanya.. alam ko may mali ako.. pero tama bang sabihin nya sakin na hindi nya ko mapapatawad? ang sakit sobra..
hindi ko alam kung bakit humantong sa ganto, dun sa loob ng 9 yrs hindi kami nagkakagalit ngayon yr lang na to.. pero tama ba un ginawa nya na iniwan nya ko?

Sis, anong ginawa mo to move on? Medyo similar tayo ng situation. Kami naman 8 and a half years. Lately wala na yung selos. Pero petty fights na lang naman. Saka pa siya nag give up at di ako binigyan ng chance.

[hushush]

Hello mga sis na may pinagdadaanan ngayon!so sorry for all your heart aches..
pinagdaanan ko din yan mga yan syempre.marami din ako ginawa para makamove on.nagtravel.namundok...etc hehe.pero yun mga activities na ginawa ko nuon hindi sya ganong kahelpful para mabilis makalimot..matagal na proseso talaga..need talaga ng activity na sobrang magiging busy ka at mawawalan ka ng time na mag-isip ng kung ano-ano lalo na yun mapait na nakaraan mo..

Ngayon ang maipapayo ko lang mga sis kung gusto nyong makalimot. Mag-aral kayo ng isa pang kurso.like law..or medicine hehe..(yung mahihirap hehe) or certificate of teaching.then magturo kayo o mag-assist sa preschool.sa sobrang kukulit ng mga bata e ewan ko lang kung maisip nyo pa yun ex nyo...

[white_flag]

Magandang ideas yan.

Pag may meet ups, sama rin ako.

[hushush]

May ino-organize pala akong dayhike climb mga sis sa bandang rizal.pm nyo ako if you are interested. Next weekend na ito

[Mayah111]

hi po makano po yung babayaran?

[iamklarisse]

Mga sis..anyone here  na pede makabonding..
Im also in the stage of moving on..tagal ko ng di nag ggt..dahil dito sa nangyare balik na naman ako sa gt..

2yrs livein
And just like that
It ends..akala ko we are okay..hindi pala..
Ayaw ko ng idetalye
Nahihirapan lang ako..

I want to go.out
Pero my friends are busy
I want to do wall.climbing
I want to.learn how to.drive


Sana may mameet ako dito

Hi sis, kamusta ka na?