No Social Life

[saltandpepper001]

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[DianeShishio]

Introverts Anonymous! Hahaha

It's all but normal sissies. Chances are, the few close friends that we have won't let us down. :3

[sima]

From where I am right now, wala din akong social life...  Ang lalayo ng magandang puntahan.  Cooped up in the house pero OK lang.  I get to watch my favorite TV series and movies and surf the net.

[angelparvian]

ako din i have few friends. hindi rin ako masyado nakikipagkamustahan even sa facebook. mas mahilig ako makipagkulitan. konti lang yun friends ko na may concern sa akin. sometimes i feel im not good ba why only few people like me. but then i told myself. ok lang yan. most important is God wants me.

[pen2]

if you're not comfortable about it, make a change ganyan din ako at binabago in good ways yung sarili ko to improve. Siguro kung hindi lang dahil sa work ko eh hindi ako magbabago.

[simplengbitchy]

wow... i am like this too.. an introvert.. i wouldn't talk unless spoken to.. i'm okay with just a few friends.. a certified homebuddy.. i'd rather read than chat pointlessly..

i wouldn't want to change, but i think i have to.. i want my children to be sociable kasi.. how would they learn if hinde nila nakikita saken, da ba?

[ann08]

Ako both. Intro and extrovert pero mas lamang yung introvert. :/

Yung mga close friends ko nung college, nag si pag abroad na. Kung hindi naman, busy sa work or
may friends na from work na mas okay kasama than me? yay.

Marami akong gusto gawin, outdoor pero walang makasama. Kaya palaging mall nalang or 'me time' palagi. :/

[Kristalle]

ganitong ganito din ako dati until may mga naging gay friends ako. i learned so much socially and social climbing ways na rin LOL.

[mikewazowski]

College na ako. Paramg nagigimg anti-social na ako. I feel really awkward around people, kahit kaooficemate ng mom ko or relatives. I feel anxious whenever someone is talking to me. Nonsense kasi ako kausap, I cant even tell stories or have a conversqtion for wo minutes! Kahit sa grandma at mom ko lang, or cousins na below 10, and even my sister. Im so BORING and NONSENSE kausap. No fun kasama. I am aware or it, and I accepted it. Nakakabuwang pag walang kausap, pero wala naman ako masabi. I dob't have friends, sino ba may gustong kasama na hindi nagsasalita? Naiisip ko na ang pointless na ng existence ko. I amso dead bored woth myself, I really hate myself (emo haha)



I think this really started when my circle of friends nung elem eh na"replace" ako nung nag first year hs na kami. Lahat talaga! So replaceable ako. Then nabully, then naging isa lang friend, last pick palagi. hahaha ang loser ko. Kahit siblings ko at mom ko ikinikahiya na makita ako kasama Whenever my mom meet someone kahit saan place, introduce niya agad yung ate ko na anak niya. Tatawagin pa niya talaga. Pag ako lang kasama, kahit nakatalikod lang ako malapit sa kanya. She rarely introduce me kahit sa office. Kapatid ko naman, sasabihin "sasama pa yan?" or twing kailangan namin bumili ng sabay pinapaalis agad ako or sinusungitan. May times din na binubully ako ng sariling siblings ko twing may get together.


My life really sucks. Been rejected forever.

[ann08]

^ its seems na may favoritism sa inyo ng sibling mo. Ganito pala ang nagiging outcome sa isang tao.

sa akin naman nakita ng ate ko na ako ang favorite dahil bunso kaya pinag iinitan naman ako at dedma nya ako and dahil din 11 years ang gap namin. :/

[candacena]

Just last time sinabi ng tita ko.. Oo tita ko pa, na wala daw akong social life wala ako lovelife wala daw ako lahat. Umiyak ako sa kwarto kahit katabi ko mama ko. Kasi nagkwekwentuhan sila sa labas kasama sister ko At si papa.. Hindi naman talaga ko sociable lalo na sa kamaganak. Eh kung ganan ba naman ang paguugali pano mo magugustuhan makipag socialize diba. Pero sinasabi pa rin sakin na pilitin ko .. Pag nga nalabas ako ako lang magisa pwede naman may makasama pero I'm comfortable that way. Hehe and hindi naman ako naghahangad pa,.. Pero yes inisip ko rin na sana sociable ako gaya ng ate ko, like what our sis said, gusto ko din yung magiging anak ko maging sociable.

Sis mikewazowskiwag mo ganyanin sarili mo. Importante ka din..  try going to a neuro psychiatrist i know it sound frightening but maybe they can help u from being anxious

[cynch101]

yay di ako nag-iisa lolz ako din kasi walang social life sa ngayon, ang pinaka social life ko eh yung makipag-friends sa online game, di naman counted yun hahaha

introvert din ako, madaldal kapag kasama mga kaibigan pero pag sa party at walang masyadong kakilala, tahimik lang.

[Girltalker2]

^ Sis thess, hindi ko rin nakalakihan chumika or strict din parents ko. Pero in life kasi, we just have to learn them on our own.

I think I am an introvert but not a boring person naman, magkaiba iyan. 

What I can suggest for moms with kids who want to encourage their kids to socialize - engage them to sports and activities for them to be more exposed. I have my kids participate in church activities and sports too.  Tapos dun sila may nakikilala na friends.  Tapos I also encourage them to invite some friends sa house from time to time. Ahh, isa pa, I encouraged them to love reading.  So they read to broaden their insights.  Ngayon assignment nila from me is to read the newspaper everyday. Yun lang.

As for me, during college, bahay-school lang talaga ako. Even when I started working.  Hindi ako gimikera.  Pero from time to time, you can sense sino ang classmates/officemates mo na you can tolerate to have lunch with. hehe  Sila ang madalas ko lang kasama.  In fact, I don't have a big circle of friends, I am not a party animal and I am perfectly comfortable with that.

So paano maging may sense kausap - read the news, watch the news.  Huwag masyado magbababad sa gaming, telenovela, fb or gawa ng selfies.  Personally, nakakabobo sila if too much. Moderation is ok. Opinion lang naman.

Tapos as adults, we should have the courtesy to introduce ourselves kung say may ka table ka sa party, etc.  Tip - isipin ninyo ang bio data sheet  hahaha Tapos tanungin nyo na ano gusto nyo tanungin, chances are tatanungin ka rin the same question. Just be polite in your questions - at huwag nalang magtanong ng age or marital status haha  More of san ka nakatira, where do you work etc. I am sure kung feel ninyo ang isa't isa, conversations can arise from there. If not, move on. hehe

Tsaka don't be conscious kung hindi ka gusto ng tao. And so?  Importante is you like yourself. I think that is more important kesa ibang tao. 

[khaleesiCersei]

0 social life at the moment. I need new friends haha coz mine are far away. Gusto ko naman lumabas minsan, I dont really drink but i love dining out or kahit coffee lang.. Kakamiss din yun may nagaaya syo lumabas..

[chicafabulosa]

True yan sis khaleesi... Sarap ng kahit minsan labas lang to have coffee and kwentuhan

[imyourangel]

Hi everyone! Join ako dito haha. Introvert din ako. But I can be too makulit sa mga tao na bilang lang sa daliri ko. I'm sad when people misunderstands my introversion. Kesyo ganito ganiyan daw ako, choosy masyado sa kausap, snob, blah blah.. What am I to do? Di ko naman sila hate. I just like to keep my thoughts to myself..

[summerchic]

Introvert also..im comfortable with friends na group of 4 or 5. Mejo choosy din kasi sa friends.

[khaleesiCersei]

me too may pagka introvert ako pero sometimes extrovert din hehe. depende sa mood ko. i only have a handful of friends na talagang through the years eh sila na friends ko..
medyo mapili kasi ako sa friends, gusto ko yung magagaan kasama, may sense of humor katulad ko hehe medyo makulit ako minsan, ok lang din sakin yung pa girly-girly pero hindi naman sobrang arte or maselan na nakakairita na. ayoko din ng mayayabang at social climbers kasi simple lang naman mga trip ko sa buhay like foodtrip at coffee hehe. isa pang ayoko talagang kasama is yung mga overly sensitive at pikon. kakastress ang mga ganyang tao haha, yung konting kibot at biro eh galit na or tampo kagad. and lastly i try to stay away dun sa mga user friendly at mahilig umutang haha

[lilvanity]

you are not alone!  ako rin, socially awkward and an introvert. yung tipong, mawala man ako sa facebook no one will notice. kapag nawala ako sa mundo, no one will notice din. It gets really depressing. I'm really quiet, minsan I find talking a chore, ewan ko ba.

[imyourangel]

^same. Talking to someone else I'm not that close to really drains my energy..