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JAZZIE_G

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Re: No Social Life
« Reply #180 on: March 28, 2018, 10:12:38 pm »
No social life for 4yrs, 180 degrees from my old me. Oh well ok lang kasi kinarir ko pagiging mommy sa anak ko.

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Re: No Social Life
« Reply #181 on: May 03, 2018, 05:35:49 pm »
Wala din naman akong social life, doesn't it come with age and having kids? 
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Re: No Social Life
« Reply #182 on: May 03, 2018, 07:58:41 pm »
^Partly yes, I think... When you have your own family, they become your consistent social circle kasi.
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Re: No Social Life
« Reply #183 on: May 03, 2018, 10:54:46 pm »
Nag-iiba na ang definition ng social life siguro when you are older especially when you have kids.
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Re: No Social Life
« Reply #184 on: May 03, 2018, 11:06:46 pm »
^Siguro nga naiiba na priorities kapag pamilyado ka na. Para kasi bigla yun sa akin from everyday hangout before to zero nightlife. Siguro dahil na din malayo ako sa mga close friends ko. Nag base ako location ng hubby ko. Pero kung malapit lapit lang ako sa mga friends ko may social life ako kahit papano. Dito kasi bahay business lang ako...di na ako nag ka chance na mag gain ng friends. Casual hi hello lang sa mga mommies na nakita ko kapag hina hatid ko daughter ko sa art class nya. Anti social na yata ako.

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Re: No Social Life
« Reply #185 on: May 03, 2018, 11:31:53 pm »
^If it doesn't bother  then I don't see any problem. Otherwise, you can try to make new friends.
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Re: No Social Life
« Reply #186 on: May 03, 2018, 11:52:11 pm »
^Sometimes naka ka miss din to hang out with my friends kaso ang layo ko kasi. May time na gusto mo makasama sila especially when you are upset and may diskusyon kami ng husband ko. I need time out from him. Ngyayari i call them na lang. To make new friends para wala appeal sa akin mga nasa paligid ko, or iba lang siguro vibes ko sa kanila.
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Re: No Social Life
« Reply #187 on: May 04, 2018, 12:52:43 am »
^I know, right? Iba talaga yung mga friends mo na talaga dati. Dami ko ring friends na malalayo. Nasa Vegas, Texas, UK, Australia, Singapore, etc. Sana man lang kahit isa sa kanila andito sa amin then I have friends to go to. My closest cousin is 300kms away. Since I am an introvert, I survived alone since I came here in 2003. Maraming kakilala but none of them I really hang out with. About two years ago though, I thought to myself that I should make friends with at least people in my church. I did and they  became my good friends.
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Re: No Social Life
« Reply #188 on: May 04, 2018, 06:33:04 am »
Paminsan-minsan need talaga natin ng me time. Kahit once a month or every 2months. Ako maswerte na once a year na makageto ko mga amiga ko.puro chat lang ang bonding hehe. To think na dyan lang naman sila sa QC.. I got a chance last week to watch avengers.yun nga lang alone. Hehe..minsan isinasabay ko ang geto sa mga lakad kung may inaasikaso. Ganun talaga lalo na pag mga bata pa ang mga anak. Mabilis lang sila lumaki at mas need nila ang attention natin. Pag maging teens na sila, ikaw na ang magmamakaawa na sumama sila sayo. Kasi most likely puro barkada ang gusto kasama nyan or sa bahay lang gusto magstay. Kaya ienjoy lang natin yung moments na lagi sila nakabuntot at nakadikit satin. 😊

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Re: No Social Life
« Reply #189 on: May 04, 2018, 08:18:01 am »
Ako naman naghanap talaga ako ng group of friends so far so good naman. Minsan sumasama ako sa mommies night out. Sa isang room naglalaro mga kids then kami na sa living room either naglalaro ng board game or chikahan lang. Lumalabas din ako mag isa max. siguro 4hrs. Di ako makatagal kasi namimiss ko anak ko. Once or twice a month may get together kasama un family namin. Minsan namimiss ko dati ko mga friends pero wala malayo ako. I need to have new circle of friends for me part sila ng life ko.

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Re: No Social Life
« Reply #190 on: May 04, 2018, 02:59:18 pm »
Parang may right amount of social life for me...

Pag isang buong araw ang social life ko (yung hindi organization-based activities), kinabukasan parang drained ako to the point na parang ayaw kong makakita ng tao.

Tapos pag ilang linggong walang social life, ang empty at lonely naman ng pakiramdam ko.

Also, nade-drain ako sa mga small and polite talks. Pag alam kong ganito mangyayari sa invite saken like reunion ng batchmates, di na lang.

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Re: No Social Life
« Reply #191 on: May 08, 2018, 03:23:45 pm »
I'm starting to build my "social life" again.  Starting with catching up with old friends online, and sometimes having dinner besides work.  It's a good feeling.
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